My Girl Talks About marriage Always but i am not ready . I dont even own a house yet and she want me to mary her by all means, Is this how girls reason?

I wish to mary her because i love her but im not ready. Will it be propper if i tell her not to wait for me?
advice.

You have gotta to be kiddin me, right? You already know how you feel about the whole situation. . . . . . . . . . . Go tell her you aint READY for marriage, not now not EVER!!

how old are u and how old is she coz that tells alot. Alot of girls at the age of 25 and upwards feel pressure from their married friends, parents and society to get married. tell her that u still have alot of things u want to acomplish before u get married and see if u guys can come up with a compromise and if she doesnt want to compromise then let her go

let her know how you feel
dont go into marraige knowing fully well you are not ready

u lucky dat she even opened ha mouth 2 tell u. alot will just keep quiet n wen dey c anoda who dey fill is ready, dey wil dump u. try n talk wit ha. dnt shy away from dis issue cos its a very serious and sensitive 1. how old d both of u r depends. if u guys r tru wit sch, den u nid 2 try n stand on ur own. mayb she doesnt see seriousness in u dats y she desires 2 no.

Then put a ring on it you selfish son of a ----------. You want to use her best years and dump her later for a younger flossie dont you?

Ebonyeyes:

Then put a ring on it you selfish son of a ----------. You want to use her best years and dump her later for a younger flossie dont you?

it would appear so, you are not ready for marriage but you still expect her to satisfy your sxual urges while there is no guarantee she would get married to you at the end of the day. Be a man, make some sort of committment or end it with her and let her find someone who is serious.

Ebonyeyes:

Then put a ring on it you selfish son of a ----------. You want to use her best years and dump her later for a younger flossie dont you?

wow, i think u have been infected

gabriel74:

My Girl Talks About marriage Always but i am not ready . I dont even own a house yet and she want me to mary her by all means, Is this how girls reason?

I wish to mary her because i love her but im not ready. Will it be propper if i tell her not to wait for me?
advice.

relax guy. explain to d babe why she needs to wait a bit longer. If she feels insecure, then ill say u guys shd do some Intro hoping that willl make her relax till u get it right

Ebonyesyes typical response that's an emotional outburst u just gave the dude's not saying anything bout dumping just telling her not to wait for him coming to think of it sounds like dumping in a way

I think some of these ladies live in cloud 'I see nothing else but marriage'.

Dude does not have a house.
He prolly only just makes ends meet but she still wants to get married.

Crikey!

Ebonyeyes:

Then put a ring on it you selfish son of a ----------. You want to use her best years and dump her later for a younger flossie dont you?

Put a ring on it and then what??

Hope he makes enough money to make it official??

I thought the norm was that there are many fishes out there? If the guy is not yet ready and she cannot exercise patience with him, why not move on? These are the same set of ladies who later come back and state that she does not have sexual compatibility with her husband.

Rubbish.

Pataki:

I thought the norm was that there are many fishes out there? If the guy is not yet ready and she cannot exercise patience with him, why not move on? These are the same set of ladies who later come back and state that she does not have sexual compatibility with her husband.

Rubbish.

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tkb417:

olowo; paddy mi to sure

whts gud?

Chiefo I dey oh!

Long time man. How you dey oh?

Pataki:

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Long time man. How you dey oh?

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gabriel74:

My Girl Talks About marriage Always but i am not ready . I dont even own a house yet and she want me to mary her by all means, Is this how girls reason?

I wish to mary her because i love her but im not ready. Will it be propper if i tell her not to wait for me?
advice.

What's the big deal? You are not ready abi? Then tell and stop wating her time . . . If she loves you enough, let her take her chances and wait, if not, she can walk!

But then you are just a player ain't you? You want to tell her 'not to wait' for you. Looks to me like you've made the decision already.

"u don't own a house." . do u live under d bridge?make me understand.

Berra take your time and don't rush ooo.
All the peeps saying 'Put a ring on it' won't be there to help you out when things starts to go wrong.

Tell her to be patient.

u want to use and dump her !!!!or u want her to wait until ur ready