Best Marriage Decision?
Best marriage decision?

Relationship between a man and a woman are impossibly complicated, so making a marriage decision based on a relationship is not quite a black and white situation.
What is the most important factor to make a person marry someone?
Primal forces such as love, fear, ego and lusty drives?

Love?:
Very important considering the sympathetic nature of humans. However, love sometimes is built up when you have been in a relationship with someone for a long time, causing you to even end up loving a person- even if you don't like them initially.., someone who you know their whole story, the fact that they rely on you. This is the kind of love you feel for your family and closest friends and can exist in full force even after the feeling of being in love has faded. For many people, this brings about a deep emotional connection that makes breaking apart inconceivable. This is an important factor in making a decision clearly albeit for a few lucky ones.

Fear?:
Dying alone, loneliness, regret of refusing to do so, time passing away and biological clock ticking etc can make a person decide to get married. For some lucky ones, the decision to get married based on fear works for them perfectly well while others may end up probably being a tragedy.

Ego?:
Some people make a decision based on ego ie they have a picture of an ideal partner in their mind-they based their decision on appearance, age, family, background, intelligence, job, wealth, general personality type etc. Like fear above, it work for some and not others.

Lusty drives?:
Cannot make any comment on this.
In my opinion, the decision to get married should come from your gut. Human beings have a way of knowing whether something is right or not. Some little voice in your head will tell you 'this is right, just go ahead'. Similarly, a combination of some of the factors above, can make someone to draw up conclusion based on the convictions that yes, this is it.

In summary, I think there is no general litmus test to determine a clear cut reason to make such a decision, but your gut, love and some deal breakers ie what and what you don't want from a relationship or from a potential partner should be an important guiding principle in choosing a life partner.

Nobody will want to end up with a liability as a life partner. Nobody will want to end up in an unhappy marriage and life for eternity, so don't look down on anyone because he/she is in the process of making such an important decision. Like I said above, is not a black and white situation.
Peace!!!

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