"I'm not a Naija men hater; I can't be. This is exactly where I got confused. I decided more than once to stop calling him, but when I stop and if he realizes it's for good he'll start on panic mode calling or sending text wanting to know if I'm OK until I start calling again (I don't believe a man should do everything while the woman is just playing hard to get; I'm a moderate feminist, and he knew about it because I told him), 

Moreover, why did he tell me he liked everything in me and he didn't care if I changed or if I became bigger or smaller because I was special to him? Why did he beg me to come visit him last summer and telling me if he's frustrated it's because of financial issues?,  Why telling me I need not to let our attraction/affection dies? Why telling me if we met it is God plan (and made up a whole story)? Why did he complain about the fact that sometimes I don't care about him? Why telling me he'll one day run money on me (when I most likely won't be in the need for this)? Why the mix signals? Why sending to me 'I miss you' messages? Why asking me to come for this holidays season? Why is he obsessed by my culinary skills? Why started to call me name like baby, sweety etc and if I refused he would get mad? Why holding me back whenever I wanted to move on?

I remember that once he called me, and a friend of mine picked up the phone, but he hung it up believing that it was my father. When I called him back, and told him it wasn't my father, he spent at least a month trying to know much to convince himself that it was nothing. Moreover, last summer during my stay in his town, he made it clear that he didn't want me to go out alone. Thus, tell me now why is he so insecure or jealous?

The funniest thing is that he always tell me that he wants me. I recently asked him why does he want from me. He didn't reply. When I insisted he told me that he honestly didn't know.

This is exactly why I changed my cell phone number though. Thanks for your comment!"

I copied this from another forum, can someone tell what does this confused man want from this poor girl? Nonsense.

Yes most men are Confusing. . .It doesn't need a whole paragraph for it to be confirmed.

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Hmm mito again.
Confusing men are men who are not really sure what they want.
And if u r asking, that is so not a playaz world

So what the heck?

ec3l:

Hmm mito again.

The poster is confused!!!

Ok.

galatico:

The poster is confused!!!

Most def.

so NL is all about guys vs gurls now

nonsense