Please help me post this as anonymous.
There's this girl I so much love, we've been dating since 2013.
I loved everything about her, she gives me joy to the extent I couldn't live without her. What will my life look like without my darling? I made up my mind to spend the rest of my life with her after completing my studies!

Our relationships had its own unique ups and down but we always found a way back together.
Fast forward to 2016 when I traveled to Lagos for my compulsory 1 year Industrial Training as an Architect.

We tried chatting online or talking on phone but I was often posted to Interior villages that light to charge my devices was a problem plus no network.

A times we couldn't talk for a month, some days, some weeks and some took longer days until I completed my project and returned to Lagos where lights and network are constantly available.
She was not happy not hearing from me, I tried to explain the situation to her when she complains.

In a space of 1 year I visited the east twice. we met exchanged pleasantries and made up for the lost time.
Fast forward to some months after, she really wanted to visit me at Lagos, but I was posted to Ijebu Ode in Ogun and I couldn't invite her to the Construction site or abandon the project and head back to Lagos, so I told her. She complained that am not missing her or giving her the needed attention, that I've fallen out of love with her, that I've found some one else in Lagos.
I denied all this and reassure her of my love for her, told her to hold on for me that's it's remaining some months to conclude my Internship, I'll be returning East to be with her.
I successfully completed my industrial attachments and came back East to the love of my life, only to get the shocker of my life! "MY VIRGIN GIRLFRIEND OF 4 YEAR'S HAS BEEN DE FLOWERED "
I Was traumatized how could she? We promised no sex till marriage, she was a virgin I wasn't. I promised to help her keep hers till she's married, even if not to me. That's what she always wanted to be, de flowered by the husband!
I confirmed my doubts and truly she lost her innocence. I confronted her to know why, she said I was not there for her, when she needed me most that she even reached out to me but I was too career oriented, the loneliness and everything else made her succumb to bla bla bla bla.... Bullshit

She was remorseful, pleading, crying and disturbing my peace. I truly loved her so I forgave her, after all its hard to imagine a life without her.

So we tried to re ignite the fire in our relationship but she's always attached to the other guy.

She told me that she informed the guy that her love is back from Lagos, that she's not interested in him anymore, that I should give her time to emotionally detach from the guy.

Now the guy proposed to her using her virginity as a bargain, and she doesn't seem or want to forget who made her a woman.

Of recent she's not been herself after I proposed, giving me attitude and much more.....

Can she ever forget the guy?
Should I leave the relationship and move on?
Am an Introvert & it's hard to see a partner that understands your flaws.
Am running out of options here. Can anyone suggest what to do to win her love & heart back?

firstly how do you even know in the first instance that she's is a virgin? u fingered her, like every other guy thinks n did?

asking a lady are you a virgin, had already killed the relationship sparks that many guys don't know, Marrying a virgin as a lqdy have a lot of head ache ;move ur hand like this,lift ur leg nao , come on is it only missionary u know in ur life nii ..................

.i thought u don't want a novice that u will Keep teaching

and for 4 whole years u don't fuuuckk her because u want to retain her self proclaim virgin

a lady loves attention,u being away for a while without calling, like the wqy it is now, it like ur lady had fall out in love with u, due to ur proclaimed work affair and forget about virgin or no virgin, i think u don't wanna force a woman in to a marriage, so buckle up, brace up n move on with ur life, ladies are everywhere!!

Of recent she's not been herself after I proposed, giving me attitude and much more..

RETIREDMUMU:
firstly how do you even know in the first instance that she's is a virgin? u fingered her, like every other guy thinks n did?

asking a lady are you a virgin, had already killed the relationship sparks that many guys don't know, Marrying a virgin as a lqdy have a lot of head ache ;move ur hand like this,lift ur leg nao , come on is it only missionary u know in ur life nii ..................

.i thought u don't want a novice that u will Keep teaching

and for 4 whole years u don't fuuuckk her because u want to retain her self proclaim virgin

a lady loves attention,u being away for a while without calling, like the wqy it is now, it like ur lady had fall out in love with u, due to ur proclaimed work affair and forget about virgin or no virgin, i think u don't wanna force a woman in to a marriage, so buckle up, brace up n move on with ur life, ladies are everywhere!!



and don't forget about this u post, if u try to keep date her

phintohlar:
we are mtn

Patented:
Bros abeg move on..........nothing for u there again.....make the most of ur life

RETIREDMUMU:

every where u go with who

BiafranYouths:

IAMSASHY:
u cnt win her heart bak, it has always bin her dream for her husband to b d one dat wl disvirgin her and her dream has jst come tru, let her b

BiafranYouths:
So in summary I should move on
Love is wicked
She has toyed with my heart!
I'll never give my heart to any body apart from my Children.
Am officially a player from now henceforth

Augustap:
Her heart has a new occupant. The occupant may not be steady but he'll always return to renovate what has been handed to him. I'm sure you can't take the pain. Some guys fail to understand that women are frigile creatures. When she needs you and you're not there, she may endure becos she really loves you. But once she becomes tired, she'll find solace in any available guy. Only a woman who loves you stupidly will endure till you come back to her. The question is, how many ladies will love a guy genuinely and stupidly?

Chybeibe:
Very very true but some guys don't understand that women are wired this way.

Also, many ladies don't have that patient to wait for a guy to come back to her when it pleases them no matter how genuine the love is, especially when there are guys flocking around.

Augustap:

Yea, not all women can wait, especially when is not wait they came to this world to wait

Chybeibe:
Hahahahahahaha, burst my head, me I know say on how en dey be, woman no dey wait for man, it's the other way round, all the same. its all good.

Chybeibe:
Hahahahahahaha, burst my head, me I know say on how en dey be, woman no dey wait for man, it's the other way round, all the same. its all good.

BiggerPRICK1:
Fine gyal

Chybeibe:

BiggerPRICK1:
Ur mama born u well