sparklezeee:
Keep waiting o, wait till after Nysc self but don't forget that the blessings you take for granted are the prayer points of others.

Maybe you are not really ready to settle down with him.

Do as you please, na your life

God bless you for that sir. Experience thought me the bolded. Nice quote

Benita27:
I see...
They all have a say in whom you marry 'cause you would need their approval and blessing but that depends on how willing you're to marry that person.

Benita27:
My dear, the truth of the matter is, you don't see this guy as your prince charming 'cause if you did, the moment he mentioned marriage you'd have accepted. Abi if Dangote's son comes to marry you, would you ask him to wait for you to finish school?.

PenisCaP:


Hmm 34 yrs is also not too late.
He should be worried when is over 35-37 n still single.

Tell him to chil since u have 1yr +left.
If he likes he can put the ring on the last day of yur paper since he is so desperate.
I still wonder why he is dat desparate tho.
That age is not a valid excuse bcoz hez not that late.

Has he done marriage intro ?

PenisCaP:
U said u have less dan 2yrs..
If he cant chill for that long then he is notent for u.
He is 30 now and would be 31 or 32 then.. not much difference if u ask me.

Unless he is scared of something else(maybe he is suspecting u ar seeing some1 else who might snatch u awys from him)

Otherwise i d suggest u finish ur school first

ibkayee:
If u personally don't have a problem with it, you're satisfied with him and are ready to settle down I don't see why not. Don't if you're only being pressured though

If you're adamant on graduating first, try to get him to understand that 2 years isn't that long, if he's concerned about having children, I wouldn't advise that you get pregnant during school anyway so it wouldn't make much of a difference

Ultimately, it should depend on what you want, though I understand your family's concerns

Benita27:
My dear, the truth of the matter is, you don't see this guy as your prince charming 'cause if you did, the moment he mentioned marriage you'd have accepted. Abi if Dangote's son comes to marry you, would you ask him to wait for you to finish school?.

Edrick:

well, he doesnt want kids yet, just for us to get married

Edrick:

he hasnt done any intro

Mimzyy:
Spot on

Edrick:

i live with my parents, and no matter how i'd want to deny it, they still do have a say in who i end up with..

PenisCaP:

Hmm it seems u ar3 having more complicated issues.
Are they saying u shouldnt marry him? Pls ur parents have a say in ur marriage, dont disobey them.
And whats their reason for that?

Mimzyy:
Spot on

Edrick:

They just prefer that i finish my schooling before anythng

alexialin:





Thats no dangote son, she mentioned on her post. But the op said her bf is just trying to build his life. He's not even financial okay sef.
Who get married out of just passion and am. In love, when the ingredients to make a marriage work is not available.

Like someone above said, next year can be for.l introduction. Before end of two years. Traditional marriage. After youth service white wedding and court.
Simple
Where is the guy rushing to?

People who rush into marriage end up regretting such moves.

Op should know, immediately she gets married, she may start having kids. Do u think its easy juggling pregnancy with school work?

It's not easy. Life is not just all about love.

Op use your head, so many girls have dropped out of school. Cos of this rush marriage thing.

Don't let your bf ruin your quest in becoming a graduate.

A word is enough for the wise. Think.

Not all promises men make, they fulfil. They can say anything for u to do their bidding. When u are married, u won't have much say anymore about your self and your career. Except he's a good man and sincerely wants u to be a graduate. But we can't see the heart of man, or can we?

Benita27:
First off, I didn't say the op's boyfriend is Dangote's son. That was a sarcastic remark.

Secondly, everything boils down to what she wants. If she's willing to marry him she could go for family planning and get kids at her time.

alexialin:





My dear, don't rush and marry.
Let him do intro this December sef, traditional end of next year, white wedding end of the second year. Biko don't throw your career away oo, because of I love you, and sweet words from bf.

alexialin:




Thank God u can see it's sarcastic.
You were the one who asked op, if bf is dangote son, will she think twice before marrying him quickly?
That's y I replied, her bf is not dangote son, so she must be wise when making crucial life decisions like marriage to an average hustling guy.

It's better to be an asset than a liability because of love.

Benita27:
My dear, the truth of the matter is, you don't see this guy as your prince charming 'cause if you did, the moment he mentioned marriage you'd have accepted. Abi if Dangote's son comes to marry you, would you ask him to wait for you to finish school?.

AlexandriaToria:



So true Benita and by the way this is Vicfuntop

Benita27:
Happy New Month, dear. Why did you deactivate your account?.

Edrick:
Happy New Month to everyone.
so i've been dating this guy for almost 2yrs now...
earlier in the relationship, he made his intentions known - that he would get married to me. i'm in my early 20s' and he's past 30. i still school, but he's way ahead of me.. trying to build his life too.
thing is, the past few weeks he's just been talkin about settling down and promised to let me finish school even when we're married. sayin he's already getting too old for marriage. i still have less than two years to finish, and i want to graduate before marriage. at least my family wants that too. i'm scared that he'd be unable to wait until then.
i just need an advise