hbabe:

If she really wants to help then she should tell Mike about it and get his consent.

candylips:

Let the past stay buried.

candylips:

Let the past stay buried.

fifi09:

And remain buried forever.

Tee_Jay:

Kemi and Debo broke up close to a year ago after 2years together, they both agreed their constant bickering, breaking up and making up is a sure sign the affair had run its course.
Kemi has since moved on and is now engaged to Mike with their marriage in 3 months, she gets a call from Debo that he is in a financial mess and that his house and car has been repossessed by the bank; he needs her help but more urgently he needs her car to pick up her mum from the airport and ferry her around for a week before she returns home. Kemi's car was an engagement gift from Mike and she is wary of how to tell him about Debo's request more so because she was close to his mum while they were dating.

The issue here is should she tell Mike about it, decline Debo's request or lie to Mike and help out her ex?

horny4u:

If he was nice to me when we were together , then i will simply tell Mike and explain the situation of things to him.
But if it is only my decision to make then i will lend it to him.
Its only a bl**dy care jare and if he messes it up then a ba mi be( I will get him ).

Tarmpa:

That's bullshit! Why on earth will an ex need my car? Cant he/she get a car else where? once it's over,it's really over & there's no two ways about it, Debo should tell him 2 look else where 4 a car,or maybe hire a taxi or so.ah!,na wao,

Freiburger:



Must the ex always be a worst enemy?

Freiburger link=topic=415992.msg5727329#msg5727329 date1269034115:

Must the ex always be a worst enemy?

FL Gators:

"+1"

Like seriously tho. Some ppl do break up with civility

Tarmpa:

Yes oo,depending on the circumstances that led to our seperation.Even if an ex is'nt my worse enemy, he/she must'nt be my friend either.& he/she should'nt  have d nerve to ask for my car, Ah! 4 what naa.

chinesedoll:

Depends on the circumstance though.
All those talk of me and my ex are still very good friends is BS
Except the relationship was not a serious one.

chinesedoll:

Depends on the circumstance though.
All those talk of me and my ex are still very good friends is BS
Except the relationship was not a serious one.

Tarmpa:

Yes oo,depending on the circumstances that led to our seperation[b].Even if an ex is'nt my worse enemy, he/she must'nt be my friend either.& he/she should'nt have d nerve to ask for my car, Ah! 4 what naa.

chinesedoll:

[/b]

Exactly, even if he is not my worse enemy, we can't be friends either
Which kain yeye friendship is that,

Dark1:

QED!

candylips:

Let the past stay buried.

Tee_Jay:

Kemi and Debo broke up close to a year ago after 2years together, they both agreed their constant bickering, breaking up and making up is a sure sign the affair had run its course.
Kemi has since moved on and is now engaged to Mike with their marriage in 3 months, she gets a call from Debo that he is in a financial mess and that his house and car has been repossessed by the bank; he needs her help but more urgently he needs her car to pick up her mum from the airport and ferry her around for a week before she returns home. Kemi's car was an engagement gift from Mike and she is wary of how to tell him about Debo's request more so because she was close to his mum while they were dating.

The issue here is should she tell Mike about it, decline Debo's request or lie to Mike and help out her ex?

saintneo:

BULLSHIT
Kemi shld cut off all ties w/ Debo