ojuolu:

God has blessed you with so much wisdom and He will not take it away from you. you are indeed a good and matured man. If i were to be the man in this situation, sincerely i wont say a word and i will respect my gf for not saying a word. she is so matured and refined.

ScotFree:
I am sure you're not a baby. I wouldn't get myself into exchanging words with a woman. Bur if that happens because the woman is 'rabid' and uncouth. I wouldn't want my girlfriend involved. That will make her nothing better than the other woman

RichlyOBS:
Ladies if another woman is being rude to your boyfriend in front of you,do you step in as his girlfriend or let him handle it himself??

the reason why I am asking this,, a lady just insulted and embarrassed me inside the bus in front of my girlfriend and she saw everything that the lady was wrong but kept quiet without saying anything....

we got home and I asked her why she didn't face the woman as a girl to girl thing, as far she's my girlfriend, she should have stand for me... she said the fight was for me alone that she can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to.....

this is a lesson, am not going to support any girl am not yet married to in my life again....

Hozier:
Are you not an adult? Can't you talk? You should be able to handle your problem yourself - forget that you _shit about women having upper hand in Europe or not.

If my babe should get into any confrontation with some guy in public and I'm there with her, I will let her handle her _shit - regardless of her being at fault or not. She is an adult and she should be able to handle the confrontation.

If peradventure the confrontation begins to turn physical is when I'll come in, put on my superman cape and beat the _shit out of the nigga who has the effontery to touch my woman.

alexialin:





It's a pity, u are not seeing the big picture in this whole scenario, that happened to you today. Your ego is bruised and you are trying to lick your wounds and also looking for whom to shift the blame to. And viola! Your gf is the perfect candidate.

My dear in life, if a random lady from nowhere tries to take advantage of u in public followed by either shouting down at you or hurling an insult. Cos it takes one insult from such lady and your response immediately to open doors for more insults to fly free from her mouth without filter.

It's always one insult and the counter reply that brings out a whole army of words.

So the best u can do at that time., is walk away.

Yes, Just walk away and trust me the lady will be surprised and mumble some rubbish to herself, cos Thats the least counter behavior she expects from you.

Trying to calm such lady down, is a fatal mistake from your end. I repeat, Don't calm such lady down

You don't need to at all. Cos she will see it as a sign of weakness and drown you with sharp piercing insults. Women are very good when it comes to insulting one with their tongue. It's an inbuilt radio without battery and some women are Pro with such scenarios.

So do yourself and your gf a huge favour.

Just, Walk away.

It's that Simple.

Your gf did nothing wrong by not butting in.

Maybe your gf should have pulled u away and say honey it's OK, then both of u walk away.
Thereby the other lady hurling insults will automatically look like a crazy woman in public eyes.

And you? The Perfect gentleman with your ego intact and safe.

Trust me, handle situations this way and u won't regret it.

Lalas247:

Smart girl
She loves her life ... make one boy no send person to early grave ..

Uniqueness01:
I find this post so funny

But on a serious note,I won't watch some girl insult my BF .......but why will a lady just Insult and embarrassed you, what did you do?

SmellingAnus:
the guy even get mind to quarrel with woman... I will rather quarrel with my fellow man than with a woman except it's kind of unavoidable... I respect women... I also fear women too ...

Edonojie007:

Thats Why You Be Smelling Anus.

Lalas247:


Smart girl

She loves her life ... make one boy no send person to early grave ..

Tecno66:
You are right. When he send am go grave finish, he go go pick another girl but what goes around comes around o. If na d girl also enter gbege, make d man take off because if d man wey d girl dey quarel turn to be Tyson or Hercules or naval rating, d man fit enter. The sisi no go wait 3 months before she follow another guy.

mbahdi:
U even get luck.my own girlfriend refused visiting me unless I come her place anytime I win see am.say its not scriptural visiting a man u aren't married to

RichlyOBS:
Ladies if another woman is being rude to your boyfriend in front of you,do you step in as his girlfriend or let him handle it himself??

the reason why I am asking this,, a lady just insulted and embarrassed me inside the bus in front of my girlfriend and she saw everything that the lady was wrong but kept quiet without saying anything....

we got home and I asked her why she didn't face the woman as a girl to girl thing, as far she's my girlfriend, she should have stand for me... she said the fight was for me alone that she can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to.....

this is a lesson, am not going to support any girl am not yet married to in my life again....

hopsydboi:

She actually did the best thing.... If she had intervene and the lady has given her "her doze" of the insult... You will be more embarrassed. This kind of girls has self respect and a good self esteem! I love that line at bold! You won't find another like her... It might really pain you but they are rare!

Josh44s:


But u get strength at d other room.

shimmer1:
No no no I saw some comments here and I'm like wtf. Why the hell can't she stand up for you., she may not necessarily need to fight back but she could have helped calm down the situation(like sister it's OK o). She was just looking like a fool? Please OP drop such a girl Abeg. Theres no use for a woman who can't back up her man. I have brothers that have girlfriends (not even married) but what affects one affects the other. You dare not talk about one, the other comes for your head. Girlfriend or married? And it's not only about boyfriend or girlfriend. Anybody should be able to stand up for their loved ones: friends, family and the likes.
What kind of lady is that?

RichlyOBS:
Ladies if another woman is being rude to your boyfriend in front of you,do you step in as his girlfriend or let him handle it himself??

the reason why I am asking this,, a lady just insulted and embarrassed me inside the bus in front of my girlfriend and she saw everything that the lady was wrong but kept quiet without saying anything....

we got home and I asked her why she didn't face the woman as a girl to girl thing, as far she's my girlfriend, she should have stand for me... she said the fight was for me alone that she can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to.....

this is a lesson, am not going to support any girl am not yet married to in my life again....

Blackhawk01:


It depends on my mood actually. On a very good day, with my oyinbo English, I'll try my best to settle the dispute but if she's bent on creating a scene, I'll just drag Baeby outta there.

But on a bad day... When missRed is around, I'm shutting her drippy mouth with a slap.

RichlyOBS:
oga shut up jare.... what are you saying? what do you want me to do? beat the girl? this is Italy bro... and the lady was wrong believe me am not that kind of person that look for trouble.... I couldn't do anything bro... my babe should have say something but no fighting and I wouldn't have allowed them to fight....

Uniqueness01:
I find this post so funny

But on a serious note,I won't watch some girl insult my BF .......but why will a lady just Insult and embarrassed you, what did you do?

BluntBoy:


What did you do to the lady that insulted you? From your tone, you sound like you would be the troublesome type who never overlooks anything.

For me, I can take a lot of insult. As long as you don't lay your hands on me, I will keep my cool. Insult me all day if you want, I will just pretend as if I don't know who is being insulted. If I have a loved one with me, I will expect them to ignore too. Silence is golden.

joinnow:

We are coming to test your insult tolerance level