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Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Nobody: 9:57pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
Please i need advice from the ladies on this forum. I'm prone to experiencing PMS (pre-menstrual syndrome) every month. I realise that, at a particular time of the month, i become very irritable, prone to terrible mood swings, anger and tears. I cry at the drop of a hat, at these times that sometimes it's very embarrassing. I've looked it up online and nothing seems to help, so i've come to accept it. Medically, they say women should expect it like 10days before their period, but my PMS comes way early, that is, as soon as i approach ovulation. My major problem is that it's ruining my rship. My boyfriend never understands. Every month during this period we fight alot, with him accusing me of using PMS as an excuse for everything. I so wish he'd be a little more accomodating especially as it's something i cannot control. I've advised him to look it up online to find out how other guys handle it, but he's being adamant. I dont know what to do. As usually the fights make me more apprehensive, and exacerbates the situation. I need advice from other ladies going through this and how they handle situations like mine in their relationships . Advice from the men are also welcome. |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Diva20(f): 10:19pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
If you've tried to explain it to him and he still doesn't understand, I think you should try to limit any interaction with him during that period. That way your anger doesn't get the best of you. |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by disturbia: 10:30pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
Since you have realize that your PMS is the reason you have clashes with your bf, be conscious of yourself when relating with him. To him it is just an excuse. |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Krissykriss(m): 10:32pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
I've not experienced PMS (Premium Motor Spirit). I've experience DPK (Dual Purpose Kerosine) & AGO (Automated Gas Oil), lol. On a more serious note, u'll need to work on u. Since u know when d PMS occurs, cant u try controlling urself then? Cos i know if d guy has got d pms, u would've raised a thread about him on NL, played ball with his a.s.s with other NL girls, termed him a baby & dumped his a.s.s long ago. Dont push d bame on anything; its on u. I'm on ur guys side! |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Krissykriss(m): 10:40pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
I've not experienced PMS (Premium Motor Spirit). I've experience DPK (Dual Purpose Kerosine) & AGO (Automated Gas Oil), lol. On a more serious note, u'll need to work on u. Since u know when d PMS occurs, cant u try controlling urself then? Cos i know if d guy has got d pms, u would've raised a thread about him on NL, played ball with his a.s.s with other NL girls, termed him a baby & dumped his a.s.s long ago. Dont push d bame on anything; its on u. I'm on ur guys side! |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by daduke2k(m): 10:50pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
I fink disturbia s got it, dont u think? |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by TOPE20001(f): 10:54pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
Cherechy: Is he a kid? Why woud he think u use ur PMS as an excuse? do u have mood swings on normal dayz as well? if not then he need his head tested. cant stand insensitive guys. I have mood wings too durin my PMS n my partner perfectly understand, it shud never even be an issue btn u two. |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Nobody: 10:58pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
he deserves to be flogged. Come to daddy. |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by TOPE20001(f): 11:00pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
davidylan: Tssk tssssk I thot u've said bye bye to this flirting up n down? |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by chic2pimp(m): 11:01pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
davidylan:Agbaya Small time now, you'll see him on the religious site preaching. shior |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Nobody: 11:01pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
TOPE2000!: I was only consoling her o! |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Nobody: 11:01pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
chic2pimp: sharrap dia! |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by chinesedoll(f): 11:05pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
TOPE2000!: Once a player, always a player |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Krissykriss(m): 11:06pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
Tope, just listen to urself. Did u read this ur comment before u posted it? Read it again cos u sounded like u are in ur PMS & its not even ur case/problem. God help ur boyfriend! I always say it, most girls are architects of their mens failures! Someone seeked sincere help & d 1st thing u said was "Is he (d boyfriend) a kid". I wonder how many times ur boyfriend has heard this same word come outta ur mouth. Poor fella. |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Nobody: 11:08pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
chinesedoll: aww i feel so bad that chinese cant even trust me. Krissykriss: I'm not Tope but you really arent making sense on a more serious note. My cousin has very bad painful periods, you learn to handle women during those periods with tenderness. It wont dent your pride to learn to be patient and understanding in times like this. Her bf is truly an insensitive pig . . . |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by TOPE20001(f): 11:09pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
Krissykriss: Uncle pls shut up and give ur advice to ur future gf. ok? thank you chinesedoll: I know, that david . . . . . |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Nobody: 11:12pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
If you've tried to explain it to him and he still doesn't understand, I think you should try to limit any interaction with him during that period. That way your anger doesn't get the best of you. Yup. |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by chic2pimp(m): 11:13pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
davidylan: I Agree!!! |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Nobody: 11:14pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
TOPE2000!: you know me better than this tope. how long have we been together again? |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by TOPE20001(f): 11:15pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
davidylan: chic2pimp: Thanks jare my brothers davidylan: together?? u just told me we r divorced. dnt talk to me again sef |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Krissykriss(m): 11:17pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
@Tope, F.o.o.l! @Davidlyan, I've seen girls with very painful menstural periods but they aint aggressive & b.i.t.c.h.y. What else u gon say? |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by TOPE20001(f): 11:17pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
Krissykriss: Tee hee hee i take am resemble u na |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by chinesedoll(f): 11:18pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
TOPE2000!: ROFLMAO Ika ni e oooo lol aww i feel so bad that chinese cant even trust me. do you trust yourself? lol |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Nobody: 11:19pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
TOPE2000!: i'm so sorry . . come back to daddy. Case withdrawn. Krissykriss: I doubt it. I thot my cousin was going to die the first time. If you see a woman in such pain and you're not moved to do anything she asks you to do in that moment then i doubt if you're human. |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Nobody: 11:20pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
chinesedoll: Of course. 120%. chinese baby! |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by chinesedoll(f): 11:20pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
Krissykriss: Haba!!! Uncle, It has not gotten to this now Respect your old age now. |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by MissyB1(m): 11:22pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
I first talk am say this Krissysh1t run comot from Yaba Left. What a male Chauvinist!! |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by TOPE20001(f): 11:23pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
chinesedoll: Lmao Nna he dey pain uncle pupa, no mind him jare @david I will come to daddy after u buy me the car i asked you. Missy B: U dey mind my uncle |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Nobody: 11:26pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
TOPE2000!: check outside. Its there. |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by chinesedoll(f): 11:26pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
Missy B: Hey Missy where have you been? Love your profile pics Swagga e to poju lol |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Nobody: 11:26pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
@Davidlyan, I've seen girls with very painful menstural periods but they aint aggressive & b.i.t.c.h.y. What else u gon say? Some people have it worse than others. That's just the way of life. |
Re: Help! Pms Is Ruining My Rship by Pweety4me(f): 11:29pm On Mar 23, 2010 |
@OP sad but u got 2 go and see a doctor 4 better advise on ur situation. |
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