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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by ImaIma1(f): 11:36am On Nov 28
kay29000:


Coming from a woman. Lol! Okay. I agree with you. Are you happy now?

I didn't expect your response to be less chauvinistic.
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by makydebbie(f): 11:50am On Nov 28
Lsofdk:
I should come and use na abi

Lol I see you for dream wink
grin grin
Be using style to do beggie beggie for me. grin
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Lsofdk(m): 12:09pm On Nov 28
makydebbie:
grin grin
Be using style to do beggie beggie for me. grin

I did not beg, It's ask I ask tongue
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by kay29000(m): 12:25pm On Nov 28
ImaIma1:


I didn't expect your response to be less chauvinistic.

I know women like you...you turn everything to gender inequality when having a conversation that ain't going your way.
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Belafonte: 12:30pm On Nov 28
sweetcocoa:
Don't mind them, those type of women are the worst. I don't buy into their bullshit. grin

This one was kukuma not rapéd.

You're a råpe apologist. Tueh.
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by sweetcocoa(f): 12:43pm On Nov 28
Belafonte:


You're a råpe apologist. Tueh.
Yea yea, fvck you anyways, no one cares, haha!
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Belafonte: 1:04pm On Nov 28
sweetcocoa:
Yea yea, fvck you anyways, no one cares, haha!

Shut up, yam leg girl. Cocoa butter change. Must you insult back? angry tongue
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by sweetcocoa(f): 3:31pm On Nov 28
Belafonte:


Shut up, yam leg girl. Cocoa butter change. Must you insult back? angry tongue
Come shut me up na, BTW my legs are sexy AF and yea, I must insult back harder, mugu of the highest order.
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Belafonte: 5:16pm On Nov 28
sweetcocoa:
Come shut me up na, BTW my legs are sexy AF and yea, I must pinsult back harder, mugu of the highest order.

Lol. You will never change. Olodo. tongue
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by slyrone(m): 5:41pm On Nov 28
LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking Unclad for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.
you are mad
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by ImaIma1(f): 6:31pm On Nov 28
kay29000:


I know women like you...you turn everything to gender inequality when having a conversation that ain't going your way.

Men like you can hardly think objectively or outside the box. All u see is black and white...man and woman.

Who cares about things going my way. You said the women in the bible that outsmarted the men wad because the men let their guards down. Isn't it foolishness that made the mnn leave his guards down and wisdom by the women who made him do it.

It was your statement. Stop making it a gender issue.
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by sweetcocoa(f): 6:43pm On Nov 28
Belafonte:


Lol. You will never change. Olodo. tongue
No I will not, agbaya.
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Belafonte: 6:45pm On Nov 28
sweetcocoa:
No I will not, agbaya.

Shut up, I'm younger than you.
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by sweetcocoa(f): 6:46pm On Nov 28
Belafonte:


Shut up, I'm younger than you.
You could be as young as my first son, makes you no less an agbaya, own it.
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Belafonte: 6:50pm On Nov 28
sweetcocoa:
You could be as young as my first son, makes you no less an agbaya, own it.

Olodo, you can't call someone younger agbaya. You be olodo. How's the family by the way? angry Wait, wait, wait, you done born?

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by blessingsonflee(f): 7:00pm On Nov 28
Where was the so called friend she planned the sleep out together? All this gullible gehs sef . Shior!
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by mapist(m): 7:02pm On Nov 28
Papiikush:
Slut!

A guy who is not your boyfriend, what in the world were you doing in his house overnight? cheesy

Forget the whole rape brouhaha...she is trying to play the victim card here because all I read is about a one night stand gone wrong.

Wait... How in the world will someone rape you with oral again?

I mean he was licking your pussý comfortably and you couldn't do anything? Ha aye mi!!!! grin

If a guy can be so comfortable to the extent he goes down on you, removes your panties and use his tongue to wipe your pussý clean without you breaking his neck with your laps, then you are a slut

I need to start telling these Unilag girls I have free WIFI maybe they'll come and spend the night in my apartment too. Awon olosho gbogbo grin

Forget self control, bìtch if you come to my apartment and you running around in your bumshort I'll fück that pussý.

If you are looking for men with self control don't sleep in my house go and sleep in your pastor's house. angry



Mehn, i read her story and i shook my head. You have said it all, bro. Nothing more to say. I ll have a bae, she ll go and spend the night at a guy's? shocked shocked...smh
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by mapist(m): 7:11pm On Nov 28
LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking Unclad for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

Yes, basically it is consent but why would should imply she agreed to his demands by passing the night when in the real sense, she dint want it.

I just wonder how some ladies think; i still believe lack of contentment causes most of these.
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by kay29000(m): 7:50pm On Nov 28
ImaIma1:


Men like you can hardly think objectively or outside the box. All u see is black and white...man and woman.

Who cares about things going my way. You said the women in the bible that outsmarted the men wad because the men let their guards down. Isn't it foolishness that made the mnn leave his guards down and wisdom by the women who made him do it.

It was your statement. Stop making it a gender issue.

It is clear that you are the one that can't think objectively or outside the box. When it comes to men, they are scum of the earth and stupid, and everything about woman is good. First of all, I wasn't having any discussion with you, you just jumped into my mention with an insult. No need to reply this message, I know nothing I say will make sense to you, your mind is already closed. Have a nice life.
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by jaksmillioniar: 8:08pm On Nov 28
hanassholesolo:


He's here grin grin grin
I dont trust laveda @blackhawk01 oyindidi
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by ImaIma1(f): 9:22pm On Nov 28
kay29000:


It is clear that you are the one that can't think objectively or outside the box. When it comes to men, they are scum of the earth and stupid, and everything about woman is good. First of all, I wasn't having any discussion with you, you just jumped into my mention with an insult. No need to reply this message, I know nothing I say will make sense to you, your mind is already closed. Have a nice life.

Really? Men are scum and stupid?? You seem to be the one saying these things about men and second guessing me. Because i dont say such demeaning words about men.

I dont know what you constitute as an insult because i cannot find any in my response.

You do not have to give permission to be quoted except you make that your moniker. This is a forum. If you don't want to be quoted, do not make any contribution.
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by 12inches1(m): 10:56pm On Nov 28
I consider this rape but the girl was raped very stupidly. She has no sense. What are you doing overnight in a guys house while you have a boyfriend somewhere? Dumb ass. It wasnt even that she slept and forgot. She changed into something comfortable and slept on the same bed. This is the kind of people that they use for money rituals.

The guy set a trap for her and she stupidly fell for it. angry
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by obstead200(m): 11:34pm On Nov 28
Laveda:


I get you, but going by what you just said. All men are potential rãpists.

I understand she's got her blames for going to a stranger's house at night and even agreeing to spend te night and not go with her friend or a trusted person, slept close to him on one bed and received hëad.

But we can't deny the fact that sex without consent is rape, as as she didn't accept to it, then it's rape. grin
U feminists, una matter tire me.
After cuddling, pulling pant, giving head, fingering, so I will still wrote a special application to put PRI.ck? Oya wait for me
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by betfairtrader24: 11:45pm On Nov 28
makydebbie:
Firstly, the girl fumbled!!

My dear, in this 21st century of perverted minds and high libidos, you don't spend a night with a guy, on the same bed for that matter!


And she has a boyfriend too, what was she expecting? That they'll sing hallelujah together? And my dear, the guy already hinted sex.

I'm not going to put the entire blame on that beastly attitude, but she should face the consequences of her actions! Every decision we make in life have consequences, whether good or bad. What was she thinking? They could've gone on an afternoon date why would she spend the night with him on his bed? My dear, few guys have that self control. Maybe she has done this risky adventure with brother John, and thought brother Mike could control himself too.. cheesy

She laid her bed, she should lie on it. The guy too is wrong sha, he shouldn't have done it. But the girl too, he was doing touching body and she couldn't leave the room for him?


Phew! They should be blamed. They're adults responsible for their actions and decisions they both made.
wonderful!!.,surprise this is coming frm a lady.Perfect.

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by betfairtrader24: 11:48pm On Nov 28
LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking Unclad for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.
you see the problem with some ladies.Inablity to take responsiblity for their life,their decisions and actions.
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by kay29000(m): 9:35am On Nov 29
ImaIma1:


Really? Men are scum and stupid?? You seem to be the one saying these things about men and second guessing me. Because i dont say such demeaning words about men.

I dont know what you constitute as an insult because i cannot find any in my response.

You do not have to give permission to be quoted except you make that your moniker. This is a forum. If you don't want to be quoted, do not make any contribution.

Okay.
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by makydebbie(f): 9:45am On Nov 29
betfairtrader24:
you see the problem with some ladies.Inablity to take responsiblity for their life,their decisions and actions.
God bless you bro. embarassed
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by newslifeop: 10:01am On Nov 29
Liar
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by rosalieene(f): 10:04am On Nov 29
grin
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Tequilah: 2:55am On Nov 30
LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking Unclad for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.
In fact, this matter just weak me! See as some neanderthals are busy arguing stewpidly that she went to the guy's house. Ehen....and so? Does the fact that she entered his house, give him the authority to sleep with her? What kind of animals are now being bred as men, for goodness sake? Has the word "NO," been removed from the English dictionary? Or they just simply forgot its' meaning?

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Slayer2: 9:28am On Nov 30
ogorwyne:

Wetin carry her go d guy house? If the guy had offered her cash to have his way who told you she wouldnt have accepted? Did she tell her so called bf before embarking on her foolish uber trip? No one is condoning rape or whatever. But truth be said this lady got what she wanted. Her post reeks of stupidity. She is lucky to be alive, it could have been 'rape and kill'.

With everything that's been going on in our society some girls are still forming ' am a social and free person'. She threw caution to the wind and got what she wanted. Am standing on the fence on this.

Picture of you standing on the fence or... You know the rest... grin grin grin
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by ogorwyne(f): 9:37am On Nov 30
Slayer2:


Picture of you standing on the fence or... You know the rest... grin grin grin
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