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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Blackfyre: 8:51am On Nov 26
Blackhawk01:


Which is why I said the guy is shameless too. Only a man with no control, self respect rapes. That being said, the girl aided him. Dude left her twice before he finally raped her, his first attempt should have prepared her for his next action... Kick his balls, stab him with pen, run into the bathroom to hide like she did after the act...

I was just pulling your legs ooo....cheesy.....that oral part got me confused.

I think she is just pissed that she dropped her guard and he took advantage of her....a lesson to guys except if you don't have a future....dont go banging babes with no future ambition...

That's why ordinary nude pic I no dey ask till I am sure the relationship is heading somewhere....wouldn't want one chick scoring cheap points on me....

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Papiikush: 8:52am On Nov 26
Blackhawk01:


Lol. I'm single now, I can go anywhere tongue

But with my ex, dude even screened my female friends. Nobody must corrupt lirru Blackie. cheesy grin lipsrsealed

Nawa oh

Which kin FBI boyfriend is that wan? undecided

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by dingbang(m): 8:52am On Nov 26
grin



Why would she visit a guy and sleep over when she has a boyfriend in the first place? I don't get.

The lady saying men are dogs is plain stupid.. Will you tell me you gona go into a lion's den and expect the lion to laugh with you? Really

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Cladez(m): 8:54am On Nov 26
Blackhawk01:
Dear men, so a girl cannor comman visit you in peace? shocked shocked


The men of this generation go just dey think with preek, ehn! angry

Dear women,so a guy cannor stay with you for an hour without you going hungry? shocked shocked

The women of this generation go just dey think with hole

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by LadyGoddiva(f): 8:57am On Nov 26
A victim of rape should never be blamed. No matter what. Because when you say “She shouldn’t have gone to a guy’s house in the first place”’ you’re simply saying that men have no kind self control whatsoever and they’d simply have sex whenever and with whomever they want to, whether the girl wants to or not. We really need to break free from that mentality. Even if she struts around his house Unclad, he should be able to control his lust and not touch the girl. They had a prior agreement as mature adults not to do anything sexual. She kept her part of the agreement but the randy pervert of a man didn’t. I was so devastated by the comments I read yesterday on Instablog, especially the ones coming from fellow ladies. Are we now trying to exonerate rapists? So men are now animals that we girls have to be extremely cautious around and not give any kind of misleading signs to because they could decide to attack and they’d be justified to do so?
Laveda:


I get you, but going by what you just said. All men are potential rãpists.

I understand she's got her blames for going to a stranger's house at night and even agreeing to spend te night and not go with her friend or a trusted person, slept close to him on one bed and received hëad.

But we can't deny the fact that sex without consent is rape, as as she didn't accept to it, then it's rape. grin

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Laveda(f): 8:59am On Nov 26
LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking Unclad for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

You've said well.

But the men of this generation are something else and we should learn to guard ourselves.

Rape can never be justified but we can as well try to avoid it, yes a girl is walking Unclad doesn't mean she should be raped.

But what will you be doing in a strangers house trying to pass the night over when you have a boyfriend? What happened to meeting during the day until you're comfortable with him. I know they already agreed to seeing without anything happening but I tell you my dear, these men are very predictable, don't even fall for all that.

But in all these, there was no consent, she was raped.

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Blackhawk01: 9:00am On Nov 26
[quote author=Blackfyre post=62722536]

I was just pulling your legs ooo....cheesy.....that oral part got me confused.

I think she is just pissed that she dropped her guard and he took advantage of her....a lesson to guys except if you don't have a future....dont go banging babes with no future ambition...

That's why ordinary nude pic I no dey ask till I am sure the relationship is heading somewhere....wouldn't want one chick scoring cheap points on me....[/qu]

Lol. Berra!

Oral rape? So, he held her legs while administering the oral and her hands were doing what exactly? She had chances of defending herself but she failed to... She wanted this and is only mad because the guy didn't fulfill his end of the bargain. #Shrugs undecided

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by IamSINZ(m): 9:01am On Nov 26
There's a million things wrong with this narrative. No one, not even a competent court of law will count this as rape. The girl messed up.

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by SolexxBarry(m): 9:01am On Nov 26
How can a guy that went down on you b4 sleeping wth u a rapist aunty use your brain biko

Expect my new single guys,Solex Barry x oil dey your head

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Laveda(f): 9:02am On Nov 26
LadyGoddiva:
A victim of rape should never be blamed. No matter what. Because when you say “She shouldn’t have gone to a guy’s house in the first place”’ you’re simply saying that men have no kind self control whatsoever and they’d simply have sex whenever and with whomever they want to, whether the girl wants to or not. We really need to break free from that mentality. Even if she struts around his house Unclad, he should be able to control his lust and not touch the girl. They had a prior agreement as mature adults not to do anything sexual. She kept her part of the agreement but the randy pervert of a man didn’t. I was so devastated by the comments I read yesterday on Instablog, especially the ones coming from fellow ladies. Are we now trying to exonerate rapists? So men are now animals that we girls have to be extremely cautious around and not give any kind of misleading signs to because they could decide to attack and they’d be justified to do so?

This particular story, there are just two any things wrong with it, and yes we should be cautious of some men.

That is the sad truth.

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Laveda(f): 9:11am On Nov 26
Papiikush:


Were you there to know she didn't accept it.

Listening and judging a scenario based on one side of the story is baseless.

As it seems you all feminist wanna be are already falling for the trick

I guess we should pause with the slût shaming until we hear from the guy then.

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by misspicy(f): 9:12am On Nov 26
LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m7 reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking Unclad for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.
Leave us o cheesy
That girl is a slut, she wanted to be raped, besides she received head, that isn't rape. cheesy

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by lenghtinny(m): 9:12am On Nov 26
Whores everywhere angry....
Sleeping overnight at a guy's place and you expect him to be keeping watch over you as the night watchman wey hin be.
You put yourself in that situation. You knew sh*t was likely to go down whether he's sane or not, that's why you gave in to him in the first stage angry

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Papiikush: 9:14am On Nov 26
Laveda:


I guess we should pause with the slût shaming until we hear from the guy then.

My people don find me reach IG. A lady in my whatsapp is already fighting me for my comment on IG grin

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Blackhawk01: 9:15am On Nov 26
Cladez:
Dear women,so a guy cannor stay with you for an hour without you going hungry? shocked shocked

The women of this generation go just dey think with hole

Hahahaha cheesy grin cheesy

He offered her lunch na abi she shuu form and deny being hungry and miss out on Dominos Pizza? Maybe it was the large size bobo ordered sef... embarassed embarassed cry

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Laveda(f): 9:16am On Nov 26
lenghtinny:
Whores everywhere angry....
Sleeping overnight at a guy's place and you expect him to be keeping watch over you as the night watchman wey hin be.
You put yourself in that situation. You knew sh*t was likely to go down whether he's sane or not, that's why you gave in to him in the first stage angry

Don't call her a whõre yet, the guy got his share of the blame for not heeding to NO!

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Laveda(f): 9:17am On Nov 26
Papiikush:


My people don find me reach IG. A lady in my whatsapp is already fighting me for my comment on IG grin

You deserve to be fought. grin
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Blackhawk01: 9:18am On Nov 26
Papiikush:


Nawa oh

Which kin FBI boyfriend is that wan? undecided

cheesy grin

Boyfriend protect what is yours. lipsrsealed

Imagine now, the girl in question met bobo through her friend... My ex wasn't overdoing i guess. grin
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Blackfyre: 9:22am On Nov 26
[quote author=Blackhawk01 post=62722741][/quote]

I didn't even read the story sef but until I saw the oral part had to go read it again....plus how will he getting married open wounds for her again?....undecided

Anyways.....na them sabi...

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 9:22am On Nov 26
That victim is a biitch! Yeah you read that right!


She didn't struggle when the shorts were pulled down, she didn't struggle when she's receiving head, when penetrated, she then started struggling... Biitch enjoyed it!


Biitch! Biitch! Biitch!!! angry angry angry

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Blackhawk01: 9:27am On Nov 26
Blackfyre:


I didn't even read the story sef but until I saw the oral part had to go read it again....plus how will he getting married open wounds for her again?....undecided

Anyways.....na them sabi...

Abi na! Make I enter church jawe. grin

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 9:27am On Nov 26
Laveda:


Don't call her a whõre yet, the guy got his share of the blame for not heeding to NO!
going to spend a bleeping whole night at his place puts the highest blame on her.... Isn't her boyfriend available?


I hate this issue you ladies can't understand! Being just a friend with a guy just isn't cool... You may be thinking nothing sexual since you're both "just friends" but believe me, he's fantasized most times how it would look like when bleeping you...

The earlier you ladies work this out, the better!

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Papiikush: 9:30am On Nov 26
Laveda:


You deserve to be fought. grin
cry
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:32am On Nov 26
Laveda:


You've said well.

But the men of this generation are something else and we should learn to guard ourselves.

Rape can never be justified but we can as well try to avoid it, yes a girl is walking Unclad doesn't mean she should be raped.

But what will you be doing in a strangers house trying to pass the night over when you have a boyfriend? What happened to meeting during the day until you're comfortable with him. I know they already agreed to seeing without anything happening but I tell you my dear, these men are very predictable, don't even fall for all that.

But in all these, there was no consent, she was raped.


If we are to go by the Dictionary meaning of Consent, the moment she allowed hm take of her shorts, that was when she consented to his wish. So y'all should cut that "No consent" crap out biko.

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Laveda(f): 9:34am On Nov 26
RareKind:
going to spend a bleeping whole night at his place puts the highest blame on her.... Isn't her boyfriend available?


I hate this issue you ladies can't understand! Being just a friend with a guy just isn't cool... You may be thinking nothing sexual since you're both "just friends" but believe me, he's fantasized most times how it would look like when bleeping you...

The earlier you ladies work this out, the better!

I understand perfectly, if you read all my comments, I said she's got her own part of the blame.

That she slept over didn't mean he should rape, but the story she gave didn't just makeup for all these.

Like some girls will say, even if you dress in a very provocative manner, you shouldn't be raped, they forget these are the things that triggers rape.

No, I'm not justifying rape, but when you find yourself in a society like ours, one has to be very cautious.

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:37am On Nov 26
LadyGoddiva:
A victim of rape should never be blamed. No matter what. Because when you say “She shouldn’t have gone to a guy’s house in the first place”’ you’re simply saying that men have no kind self control whatsoever and they’d simply have sex whenever and with whomever they want to, whether the girl wants to or not. We really need to break free from that mentality. Even if she struts around his house Unclad, he should be able to control his lust and not touch the girl. They had a prior agreement as mature adults not to do anything sexual. She kept her part of the agreement but the randy pervert of a man didn’t. I was so devastated by the comments I read yesterday on Instablog, especially the ones coming from fellow ladies. Are we now trying to exonerate rapists? So men are now animals that we girls have to be extremely cautious around and not give any kind of misleading signs to because they could decide to attack and they’d be justified to do so?


She's not a Victim of rape. She's just a slut who regretted her actions and now looking for how to punish the guy. I'm very glad the guy has taken it up worth the authorities.

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by lenghtinny(m): 9:37am On Nov 26
Laveda:


Don't call her a whõre yet, the guy got his share of the blame for not heeding to NO!
Abeggi!!!
What was she expecting? Praise and worship or something. Incurring bills on the guys account, sleeping overnight at his place because of free WiFi. What did she think the guy would want in return if not sex.
She knew from the onset that there was a huge probability that they would have sex, that's why she warned him about no sex. She entered into the trap with her eyes wide opened, she was just deceiving herself with that I thought he's sane remark.
As far as I'm concerned, this is not rape. She's just guilt tripping angry
Imagine she even got a head. How did he overpower her when he was underneath grin

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Laveda(f): 9:37am On Nov 26
JeffreyJamez:



If we are to go by the Dictionary meaning of Consent, the moment she allowed hm take of her shorts, that was when she consented to his wish. So y'all should cut that "No consent" crap out biko.

Lol. According to some people, rapists give heäd to smoothen the process.

I'm only trying to be nice

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by lenghtinny(m): 9:40am On Nov 26
Laveda:


I understand perfectly, if you read all my comments, I said she's got her own part of the blame.

That she slept over didn't mean he should rape, but the story she gave didn't just makeup for all these.

Like some girls will say, even if you dress in a very provocative manner, you shouldn't be raped, they forget these are the things that triggers rape.

No, I'm not justifying rape, but when you find yourself in a society like ours, one has to be very cautious.
This is clearly not rape angry

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by makydebbie(f): 9:46am On Nov 26
Gofwane:
mhmmmmmmm.... as usual, an unbiased analysis. Always making sense!
Happy Sunday. smiley

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:46am On Nov 26
Laveda:


Lol. According to some people, rapists give heäd to smoothen the process.

I'm only trying to be nice

..and the "Victim" will just lie down there ba

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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by ogorwyne(f): 9:47am On Nov 26
LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking Unclad for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.
Wetin carry her go d guy house? If the guy had offered her cash to have his way who told you she wouldnt have accepted? Did she tell her so called bf before embarking on her foolish uber trip? No one is condoning rape or whatever. But truth be said this lady got what she wanted. Her post reeks of stupidity. She is lucky to be alive, it could have been 'rape and kill'.

With everything that's been going on in our society some girls are still forming ' am a social and free person'. She threw caution to the wind and got what she wanted. Am standing on the fence on this.

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