nairalanders please help me out on this one.

Welll, l, l, l, l it depends on the circumstance surrounding the breakup.
IF, i was amicable, then why not?, but otherwise, Nah

yes

if both of you get along well

without F***king each other

but if there is a risk of sleeping with each other again den NO

^^^i feel u

nope, not in my case, because once debe, will ever debe,

that's the verse and chapter in my diary!

ermmm, it really depends on d kinda break up dat occured, for me,i think its really gud to remain friends with an ex, afterall,breakup no b quarell or fight, lol.BUT,d friendship shud hv its boundaries, if noteh!!i kno a friend dat has like slpt with her ex on like 3 diff occaasions, although she has a boyfriend rite now dat she loves, so u c,its advicable althou,boundaries must b set and adhered to.

Only if it will not pose a threat to ur present relationship.

whenevr i bcm frnds with my ex who i might still love i get confused and end up hating him so i would not advice anyone to be friends with an ex. cut contact altogether

It depends on †ђξ Feelings U̶̲̥̅̊ still have ƒό̲̣r̲̅ him/her

I won't wanna see him physically cos I no trust myself.

Why not, I'm still friends with two of my ex, we found out we could not cope with each other so we gradually distance each other.
Now we meet but never in a secluded corner or calling at odd hours. Just meet, "hi , whats sup, bye" limit conversation especially if she is married or seriously engaged

Nautillus: Welll, l, l, l, l it depends on the circumstance surrounding the breakup.
IF, i was amicable, then why not?, but otherwise, Nah

i totally agree with u!

I am friend with a guy I have dated and he has met my husband.

Out of respect he doesn't come around the house. We would hang out with mutual friends but never alone.