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Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by Nobody: 6:02am On Nov 29, 2017 |
LUGBE:its like dem never set u up before.a babe goes to a man's house and screams rape...a UNILAG babe for dat matter.who had believe that crap.the guy is taking the right step in the right direction.let her come and answer how she was raped. |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by Nobody: 6:09am On Nov 29, 2017 |
makydebbie:that's what some female students do.doing Facebook and intagram runz by the side.its my bet this lady went to the guy's house for the usuall runz job and in the process she saw how she could chop the guy by setting him up.no be UNILAG babe again?.i am not saying the man is a saint but this allegation of rape is not convincin.its my bet this lady got hooked up with the guy on social media or someone hooked her up with him and after doin the deed with the guy in his house the money he gave her wasnt satisfying to her hence she had to bring up the rape issue to chop the guy more.now she has bargained more than what she can chew. |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by Nobody: 6:20am On Nov 29, 2017 |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by makydebbie(f): 6:47am On Nov 29, 2017 |
olabisimichael:I know right? She didn't even struggle with the guy, she let him remove her panties and was saying no. Every one keeps screaming she told him platonic, where was platonic when she allowed him cuddle and remove her panties? As far as I'm concerned, this is NOT rape. 1 Like |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by makydebbie(f): 6:48am On Nov 29, 2017 |
lefulefu:Lefu no kill me with laugh this early morning biko. People should drop their emotions for logical issues. "rape rape" and they wanna ignore the circumstances. Phew! Goodmoney dear. |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by Nobody: 8:11am On Nov 29, 2017 |
makydebbie:good morning my dear.e don tey wey some ladies dey use rape as a sort of blackmail to a guy.as someone put am here..even portipha' wife set up Joseph with rape as well....even as long as dat time sef.the annoying thing is dat with all these fake rape stories ..many ppl will tend to disbelieve the genuine ones.this is the first time i am hearing that a rapist dey give cunninlingnus to im victim...but then anything is possible in naija. 1 Like |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by beautiful232(f): 8:20am On Nov 29, 2017 |
romeorailss: romeorailss: |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by makydebbie(f): 8:28am On Nov 29, 2017 |
lefulefu:I tell you, how can you classify this one as rape when she egged the guy on? If portipha's wife dey do since that time, them who we be? People get emotional when this things occur no doubt. Now this is a case of two adults, no be say na adult and child. They know what they were getting into. The nigga told you he wants sex and you told him platonic. When you guys eventually met, you carried your hand to throw platonic out the window. Now, you're coming to shout foul. |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by BumbleBee007: 9:21am On Nov 29, 2017 |
LUGBE: I'd like to remind you in 'CLEAR TERMS' that The New York Times after doing a background check on the lady that ACCUSED United States DEMOCRATIC Senator (MOORE) of sexually harassment sometime in 2006, discovered her claims to be totally 'HOAX' and 'FALSE' and it was broadcast on CNN yesterday for the world to see!!! At the time she claimed to be 16 and that the 'SEXUAL' relationship had ended in an abortion. Those that saw in on CNN yesterday can attest to what i'm saying here. So YES!, It's quite possible she could be lying hence the legal action.... I guess the truth will shortly be unveiled now that the Law's been called in to resolve this...... 1 Like |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by monex(m): 11:44am On Nov 29, 2017 |
ivolt: did you notice you already addressed him as a rapist? That's the prejudice peeps are talking about. the problem with investigating rape and/or sexual harassment is the grey area surrounding the definition of consent. Should consent be explicit or implicit (lack of a "No" or a struggle). how should evidence be collected? there are no recordings of the encounter. it becomes your word against mine apart from explicit consent being sought before, I cannot find any false-accusation proof approach to ensure victims get justice and innocents are not punished. |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by monex(m): 11:47am On Nov 29, 2017 |
Nobodys: should consent be explictly obtained or implicit (lack of a "No" or a struggle). |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by monex(m): 11:54am On Nov 29, 2017 |
ivolt: what evidence do you have to call him a rapist |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by monex(m): 11:58am On Nov 29, 2017 |
tossie101: there was a typo in your post "should" instead of "shouldn't" |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by ivolt: 12:14pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
monex: No, this particular case is different, she explicitly told him she wants no sex before visiting which he agreed to. A struggle is not needed to prove a lack of consent, there are some scenario where struggling will be foolish or impossible, any unwilling partner is simply not interested and any man who proceeds in such a situation is doing so at his own peril. It is disingenuous of some people to suggest that she didn't mean her "no". Remember the guy is not on trial, even if he is, he would never be convicted solely based on the victim's testimony. The court cannot conclusively determine whether a rape took place in this case because a lot of time has passed. The question now is whether the victim has a right to tell her story. Laws can't prevent crime from happening in the first place but it can punish offenders. 1 Like |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by ivolt: 12:16pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
monex: I am free to call him whatever a like, a fool, a brute, rapist whatever. If you need evidence for the case, you will have to head to court. |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by monex(m): 12:17pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
ivolt: for a defamatory claim, the burden of proof is on both parties. The plaintiff (guy) proves that she made the statement and that the statement is defamatory. The defendant (lady) then has to prove that the statement she made is true/factual. only registered media houses, who are defendants in a defamatory claim, are exempt from the second burden. the burden is then passed to the plaintiff to prove that the defamatory statement is untrue. |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by IBENUALHASSAN(m): 12:20pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
Bros,cos you are the one that reported he case first doesn't mean justice will be in your favour.No be who first go police they win case.Don't be deceived. |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by monex(m): 12:21pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
ivolt: that is what will stop true victims from getting justice. When court of public opinion does the work of a jury. Court of public opinions are fleeting and can change with the tides. Meanwhile following your logic, those who call the lady a hoe are free to do so. At the end, the majority voice wins. If most people think she is a hoe for this, she should live with the name or head to court and prove she is not a hoe. |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by Nobody: 12:25pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
ivolt: what a load of unmitigated bullshit it will be nice to see this case in a law court - the 'victim' will explain exactly what she was proposing to do overnight in the place of a stranger she had no business with? maybe she was there to study for a test, practice for a play , audition for a movie role? there is a word for women who stay overnight at strangers houses - hookers |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by ivolt: 12:31pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
monex: I am not a lawyer but I do have some few first hand experience of legal cases. She can't get a prove for an undocumented rape that supposedly happened a few months back. Not being able to prove that she was raped shouldn't be a sufficient condition for a conviction I think the plaintiff will have to prove that she knew what she published was false and still went ahead to publish it. A similar case was when Maje sued Toke for "lying" about him in her biography, it's been close to a year now and the case is not heard of anymore. Who knows maybe Maje has withdrawn his suit after realizing that the odds of winning are against him. I once did a business with a "trusted" person 6 years ago but he disappointed. If I make that claim today, there is no way I can prove my story, but that doesn't make it false. The only way this girl can be convicted if she has no money to hire good lawyers. |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by monex(m): 7:29pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
ivolt:Just read the alleged victims post. I hadn't read it before. What she described there is rape. So if what she says is true, the guy is guilty of rape |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by tossie101(f): 10:30pm On Nov 29, 2017 |
monex:Ok |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by laudate: 1:57am On Nov 30, 2017 |
makydebbie:I have absolutely no sympathy for this guy! If people are making his life unbearable because of this case, he deserves it. The girl was NOT his girlfriend, fiancee or wife. They had no prior relationship. Just because she visited his house for one night, he decided to take advantage. The girls said she told him NO sex. If she decided to drape her body over his bed after she said that, he should have just avoided her like a hot potato! That act was enough to indicate, that she might be unstable.... Now, why didn't he just respect himself and leave her in peace? No, he felt he had to tap her ass. My grandpa's friend used to say "No be everything wey person dey see or smell, na im he dey put for mouth." Even if they dashed him the girl for free, shouldn't he have been wary? His greed for...erm... 'sexual intimacy', blinded his eyes and senses. Now that the chickens have come home to roost, he is complaining. Let thunder fire his blokkos for dia! Was it Cyprian Ekwensi who said: "In the good old days when men were men, and women were won by those who deserved them," this kind of thing wouldn't have happened. In those days on campus, I lost count of guys who gave shelter to babes overnight, and absolutely nothing of an amorous nature took place between them. They would even cook breakfast for such babes, and drop them off the following day at their destination, with no strings attached. Some of those girls ended up becoming like sisters to such guys, or reliable female friends who had your back, no matter what. These days such things don't happen anymore....because the boys or men of today, think with their divcks and not their heads! 1 Like |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by laudate: 2:04am On Nov 30, 2017 |
oyb:Do you have sisters, or daughters? Put them in this girl's shoes. The fact that she stayed overnight in a guy's house, does not give him the license or right to sleep with her. Why didn't he go to a brothel if all he wanted was to get laid? Don't forget that this girl said NO. Was he hard of hearing? What if the girl was HIV infected, or had an STD? Do you know the kind of risk, he ran with his actions? I have brothers and hommies, who had to give shelter to female acquaintances over the years, because such girls were either in dire straits or needed a place to sleep. Yet, nothing happened whatsoever. They ended up respecting those guys, and becoming really good friends. monex:He had sex with the girl, without her consent. 1 Like |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by Nobody: 2:44am On Nov 30, 2017 |
laudate: Do you have sisters, or daughters? Put them in this girl's shoes.i like to believe that i go out of my way to ensure my kids are not so greedy that that they will be sleeping over in the houses of complete strangers for free WIFI or crumbs. my sister certainly would not under any circumstances have stayed overnight at the house of a stranger. i however did see school mates doing just that - runs girls. the problem with your argument is context. i said something earlier - there is a word for women who stay overnight at strangers houses ;hookers. we are all aware that nigerians have monetized sex. if this was a society where university girls were not into runs, one might agree that this was assault. however , in nigeria, where unfortunately, most sex is expected to be compensated, an adult girl going to a stranger's house for an overnight stay knows exactly whats up.
other people, women included, have discussed nigerian girls and the very peculiar way they form. if the girl was not forming in any way, the moment the guy made the first move, all she had to to was get up and get out. a platonic relationship is between people who already know each other not two strangers. i am not going to have sex with you, however i have no problem with staying alone overnight in your place for fun. i am not gong to have sex with you, but i have no problem with staying in your place and cuddling with you on your bed i am not going to have sex with you, but i have no problem with wearing provocative clothing while alone with you i am not going to have sex with you, but when you start cajoling me, i let you take liberties; i do not scream, i do not call for help, i do not run out of the house. i will not pretend to understand the nonsense Nigerian girl inject into mating rituals. Why didn't he go to a brothel if all he wanted was to get laid?brothels/prostitutes on the road are the bottom of the barrel. people with money have multiple alternatives, one of which is people organizing chicks for them. let us not be naive. I have brothers and hommies, who had to give shelter to female acquaintances over the years, because such girls were either in dire straits or needed a place to sleep. you are repeating what i earlier said. were these two acquaintances? were they related in any way? no. they were complete strangers was there a need for the girl to stay overnight with the guy? was she stranded? was the guy working with her on her project? were they members of the same fellowship? was the guy a toaster or a friend? all this the guy raped me is either some show for her boyfriend, or retaliation for unsatisfactory compensation.she has seen the news cycle of sexual predators being unmasked in the west, and is trying to cash in crude naija style. |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by Ishilove: 5:12am On Nov 30, 2017 |
oyb:.
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Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by Nobody: 5:48am On Nov 30, 2017 |
Ishilove: I think I get it now, naija chicks get off on blue ball trolling. 1 Like |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by Ishilove: 6:13am On Nov 30, 2017 |
oyb:I'm not a naija 'chick', i'm a sophisticated, proudly Nigerian lady 1 Like |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by GAZZUZZ(m): 6:20am On Nov 30, 2017 |
oyb: very smart man |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by Nobody: 6:20am On Nov 30, 2017 |
Ishilove: Are you sure? Can you pass the 'free WiFi' test |
Re: 'Rape & Beg': UnilagOlodo Who Was Accused Of Rape Takes Legal Action (Photos) by GAZZUZZ(m): 6:47am On Nov 30, 2017 |
Idrismusty97: good question. Maybe rape has evolved? 2 Likes |
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