LUGBE:


Which truth are you expecting, can't you deduce the truth already, the fool called olodonation is just trying to protect his business, you can imagine. You think the lady can cook up such story.

The man is a beast. What an arrant nonsense. He want to further intimidate the lady knowing fully well she is a student.

The girl could have dealt with him instead of complaining online.

The beast didn't go to court rather wrote to police, he is guilty as i earlier said but the lady didn't manage the situation well.

makydebbie:



I'm forced to think you're the lady sef. She's a student and she's hoeing around abi?

She accused a guy of rape and he shouldn't take legal actions to defend himself? Do you know what will happen to his reputation because a girl couldn't sit her ass down but was prick hopping?

majekdom2:
you are a learner. Na today wey women dey form victim. U never hear of potiphar's wife and Joseph before

majekdom2:
you are a learner. Na today wey women dey form victim. U never hear of potiphar's wife and Joseph before

olabisimichael:


Don't mind this emotion first before common sense prevail bandwagon!
You claimed someone raped you more than a year ago
From your story, it obvious:
You are a friend to the accused
He invited you to his crib over free wifi (funny stuff)
You went to him along on Uber to his place
He bought eateries along the place
You got to his place, got exhausted
You guys are alone in the house, no friends involved
Change cloth, wear boxer on a shirt!
The young man started his advances
You rejected it until you gave in after cunnilingus (plate washing)
You cried that night, he begged you!
He call Uber to take you back to school
End of Rape related story!
What is Rape in this story?
No forced entry
No use of compelling weapon
No friends or 3rd party involvement
He never tear any of your clothes
No claim of being sized up with drug induced drink
Who rape using MouthAction as means? Perhaps he used the licki lickkky to subdue you but can't call it rape! If someone rapes you while burying his head under your torso, you can pass him out by breaking the coke bottle on his head!
That girl can lie for Nigeria at the Olympics!

lefulefu:
that's what some female students do.doing Facebook and intagram runz by the side.its my bet this lady went to the guy's house for the usuall runz job and in the process she saw how she could chop the guy by setting him up.no be UNILAG babe again?.i am not saying the man is a saint but this allegation of rape is not convincin.its my bet this lady got hooked up with the guy on social media or someone hooked her up with him and after doin the deed with the guy in his house the money he gave her wasnt satisfying to her hence she had to bring up the rape issue to chop the guy more.now she has bargained more than what she can chew.

makydebbie:
Lefu no kill me with laugh this early morning biko.

People should drop their emotions for logical issues. "rape rape" and they wanna ignore the circumstances. Phew! Goodmoney dear.

romeorailss:

Uwafodo tietie

romeorailss:

Uwafodo tietie

lefulefu:
good morning my dear.e don tey wey some ladies dey use rape as a sort of blackmail to a guy.as someone put am here..even portipha' wife set up Joseph with rape as well....even as long as dat time sef.the annoying thing is dat with all these fake rape stories ..many ppl will tend to disbelieve the genuine ones.this is the first time i am hearing that a rapist dey give cunninlingnus to im victim...but then anything is possible in naija.

LUGBE:


Which truth are you expecting, can't you deduce the truth already, the fool called olodonation is just trying to protect his business, you can imagine. You think the lady can cook up such story.

The man is a beast. What an arrant nonsense. He want to further intimidate the lady knowing fully well she is a student.

The girl could have dealt with him instead of complaining online.

The beast didn't go to court rather wrote to police, he is guilty as i earlier said but the lady didn't manage the situation well.

ivolt:

No, this would have been avoided if the rapist conducted himself, banned her from visiting him
when she suggested she wants no sex or sent her away when she refused his advances.

Nobodys:
oga. it's obvious u didn't read the story she posted. according to her, she started struggling and fighting him when he gave her a head. she said she cried and begged. so which story are you quoting??...
I know in this case everyone might be lying. the girl or the guy. buh let's not forget that one of them might be saying the truth
....from what I can depict the guy is trying to save his reputation..... the girl will probably lose in court even if she is saying the truth....and yes a girl can go to a Guy's hux and sleep there without actually wanting Sex. .
.I have seen cases where the girl' s hormones controlled her until the sense of force brought her to her real senses. I have also seen cases where a girl cooked up a story against a guy.....



lesson to all. CONSENT is very very important.wether you have given her head of even fingered her. as long as she didn't force you to do those things. you have no right to force her. no matter what. we are not animals so we shouldn't act like one......if you feel like a girl owes you sex then you. an go to a judge and tell him that and let's see what will be your judgment......

ivolt:

If you can reason properly, you will understand that stories
and possibilities don't win a case, evidence does.

"What if's" are meaningless in a real case.
Even if the guy decides to use that line, he would have
to prove his case and that is the beauty of the
justice system, no one will believe you because say so.

It is always about evidence.

tossie101:


Oga u too dumb!!.Or abi u blind too?
read my oost again

monex:


did you notice you already addressed him as a rapist? That's the prejudice peeps are talking about. the problem with investigating rape and/or sexual harassment is the grey area surrounding the definition of consent.

Should consent be explicit or implicit (lack of a "No" or a struggle).
how should evidence be collected? there are no recordings of the encounter. it becomes your word against mine


apart from explicit consent being sought before, I cannot find any false-accusation proof approach to ensure victims get justice and innocents are not punished.

monex:


what evidence do you have to call him a rapist

ivolt:

Showing that a story was written about you does not make you win a case of libel.

Take this home with you: Truth(in this case personal and relative) is absolute defense against defamation allegations

ivolt:


I am free to call him whatever a like, a fool, a brute, rapist
whatever.
If you need evidence for the case, you will have to head to court.

ivolt:


No, this particular case is different, she explicitly told him she wants no sex before
visiting which he agreed to.
A struggle is not needed to prove a lack of consent, there are some scenario where
struggling will be foolish or impossible, any unwilling partner is simply not interested
and any man who proceeds in such a situation is doing so at his own peril.

It is disingenuous of some people to suggest that she didn't mean her "no".

Remember the guy is not on trial, even if he is, he would never be convicted
solely based on the victim's testimony.

The court cannot conclusively determine whether a rape took place in this case
because a lot of time has passed. The question now is whether
the victim has a right to tell her story.

Laws can't prevent crime from happening in the first place but it can punish offenders.

monex:


for a defamatory claim, the burden of proof is on both parties. The plaintiff (guy) proves that she made the statement and that the statement is defamatory. The defendant (lady) then has to prove that the statement she made is true/factual.

only registered media houses, who are defendants in a defamatory claim, are exempt from the second burden. the burden is then passed to the plaintiff to prove that the defamatory statement is untrue.

ivolt:


No, this particular case is different, she explicitly told him she wants no sex before
visiting which he agreed to.
A struggle is not needed to prove a lack of consent, there are some scenario where
struggling will be foolish or impossible, any unwilling partner is simply not interested
and any man who proceeds in such a situation is doing so at his own peril.

It is disingenuous of some people to suggest that she didn't mean her "no".

Remember the guy is not on trial, even if he is, he would never be convicted
solely based on the victim's testimony.

The court cannot conclusively determine whether a rape took place in this case
because a lot of time has passed. The question now is whether
the victim has a right to tell her story.

Laws can't prevent crime from happening in the first place but it can punish offenders.

monex:


there was a typo in your post "should" instead of "shouldn't"

makydebbie:
I'm forced to think you're the lady sef. She's a student and she's hoeing around abi?

She accused a guy of rape and he shouldn't take legal actions to defend himself? Do you know what will happen to his reputation because a girl couldn't sit her ass down but was prick hopping?

oyb:
what a load of unmitigated bullshit

it will be nice to see this case in a law court - the 'victim' will explain exactly what she was proposing to do overnight in the place of a stranger she had no business with?

maybe she was there to study for a test, practice for a play , audition for a movie role?

there is a word for women who stay overnight at strangers houses - hookers

monex:
what evidence do you have to call him a rapist

laudate:

Do you have sisters, or daughters? Put them in this girl's shoes. The fact that she stayed overnight in a guy's house, does not give him the license or right to sleep with her. Why didn't he go to a brothel if all he wanted was to get laid? Don't forget that this girl said NO. Was he hard of hearing? What if the girl was HIV infected, or had an STD? Do you know the kind of risk, he ran with his actions?

I have brothers and hommies, who had to give shelter to female acquaintances over the years, because such girls were either in dire straits or needed a place to sleep. Yet, nothing happened whatsoever. They ended up respecting those guys, and becoming really good friends.


He had sex with the girl, without her consent.

Do you have sisters, or daughters? Put them in this girl's shoes.

The fact that she stayed overnight in a guy's house, does not give him the license or right to sleep with her

Don't forget that this girl said NO

Why didn't he go to a brothel if all he wanted was to get laid?

I have brothers and hommies, who had to give shelter to female acquaintances over the years, because such girls were either in dire straits or needed a place to sleep.

oyb:

other people, women included, have discussed nigerian girls and the very peculiar way they form. if the girl was not forming in any way, the moment the guy made the first move, all she had to to was get up and get out.

i am not going to have sex with you, however i have no problem with staying alone overnight in your place for fun.

i am not gong to have sex with you, but i have no problem with staying in your place and cuddling with you on your bed

i am not going to have sex with you, but i have no problem with wearing provocative clothing while alone with you

i am not going to have sex with you, but when you start cajoling me, i let you take liberties; i do not scream, i do not call for help, i do not run out of the house.

i will not pretend to understand the nonsense Nigerian girl inject into mating rituals.

Ishilove:

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oyb:


I think I get it now, naija chicks get off on blue ball trolling.

oyb:



i like to believe that i go out of my way to ensure my kids are not so greedy that that they will be sleeping over in the houses of complete strangers for free WIFI or crumbs. my sister certainly would not under any circumstances have stayed overnight at the house of a stranger.

i however did see school mates doing just that - runs girls.


the problem with your argument is context. i said something earlier - there is a word for women who stay overnight at strangers houses ;hookers.
we are all aware that nigerians have monetized sex. if this was a society where university girls were not into runs, one might agree that this was assault. however , in nigeria, where unfortunately, most sex is expected to be compensated, an adult girl going to a stranger's house for an overnight stay knows exactly whats up.



other people, women included, have discussed nigerian girls and the very peculiar way they form. if the girl was not forming in any way, the moment the guy made the first move, all she had to to was get up and get out. a platonic relationship is between people who already know each other not two strangers.

i am not going to have sex with you, however i have no problem with staying alone overnight in your place for fun.
i am not gong to have sex with you, but i have no problem with staying in your place and cuddling with you on your bed
i am not going to have sex with you, but i have no problem with wearing provocative clothing while alone with you
i am not going to have sex with you, but when you start cajoling me, i let you take liberties; i do not scream, i do not call for help, i do not run out of the house.

i will not pretend to understand the nonsense Nigerian girl inject into mating rituals.


brothels/prostitutes on the road are the bottom of the barrel. people with money have multiple alternatives, one of which is people organizing chicks for them. let us not be naive.



you are repeating what i earlier said.

were these two acquaintances? were they related in any way? no. they were complete strangers
was there a need for the girl to stay overnight with the guy? was she stranded? was the guy working with her on her project? were they members of the same fellowship? was the guy a toaster or a friend?

all this the guy raped me is either some show for her boyfriend, or retaliation for unsatisfactory compensation.she has seen the news cycle of sexual predators being unmasked in the west, and is trying to cash in crude naija style.

very smart man

Ishilove:

I'm not a naija 'chick', i'm a sophisticated, proudly Nigerian lady

Idrismusty97:


In the history of Mankind, Over the course of millions and millions of years of Evolution. In all history books and all known records of human civilization and welfare. When have you ever heard, see or read about a rapist giving head to his victim?

good question. Maybe rape has evolved?