abi ohhh, u sef notice aam!!

@ Topic,

I don't think it can ever be equal, . . . . . . . . . .

Someone would definitely have the shorter end of the stick. . . . . . . . .

Hey guys,

I am presently in that kinda situation. I love this guy so much that it took so much time to realise he dosent feel the same way . Anyway, i have decided to sever the relationship and move on although am doing it little by little so that i wont feel too hurt. Its not worth it and believe its not easy either breaking up but if one can drop sentiments then he can move on.

Cheerio.

if you lov him, kip lovin him. Coz thats lov. Someday, he'll c the light

hmmm, nice thread yur!
I remembered a Topic dat says, OF WAT USE IF MY GIRLFRIEND IF I CANT HAVE SEX WIV HER`

all our Luvly nairaland sistas wer all tellin d guy dat he doesnt deserve d girl dis or must relationships be all about sex & stuffs but now here we go,

`LUVIN SOM1 WU DOESNT LUV U BACK AS MUCH`

Must I remind d Poster dat Luv doesnt happen over night, it grows wiv time, so u can also wait till he luvs u d way u want him to or bounce,

It is quite a painful experience for you to love someone, who doesn't love you in return, I've had such an experience before

hang on girl its just a matter of time things will turn around positively don't you believe i think he loves you.

loving someone that does not love you? . i question that love as it is based on hidden motives usually finacne.

i mean "finance"

In every relatnshp,one of d parties must be a sucker 4 d union 2 work,bt nt wen d luv is one-sided. As som1 noted earlier,there cnt be equal measur of luv in a rtnshp. Jst be sure if he luvs u or nt,if he doesnt be bold enuf 2 leave. Ú cnt force luv on som1.

He might love u bt juz pretendin he does not.but if u knw 4 sure that he doesnt,why waste your time?girlfriend free yourself from all the heartbreaks


yes my sis i agree with u.

get out and find someone new.he doesnt deserve you.

And will ur mother beat u if u aint in a relationship ?

, drop him like his RED HOT!!!!

cook love portion give the person

I have just quit a relationship wherein my bf said he just cannot love, we have been together for 5 months and we kinda got into the relationship without uttering the 'Iloveyous' until lately he asked me if I love him and I said yes but when I asked the same question he answered I just cannot love, imagine the shock I got, I was gobsmacked how can somebody who has been very possessive, dedicated, and all actions that lead me into thinking he loves me doesn't love me after all? this has been on my mind and still wondering, how is this possible? cried a river coz I really love the idiot but what can I do but move on, to date he still calls me and buzz me in my msn but I just have to ignore it even though I miss him so much, can somebody please explain what game he's playing? m hurting too much, I just want to know how can this be possible (

My dear, what's the point in loving someone who doesn't love you back? Its a no brainer, no one needs to tell you what to do, u know it already,

Is it possible he has love for you but perhaps he's not in love with you? Big difference. If this is the case I would honestly reevaluate your relationship. At the end you don't want to have that " I gave my all to him and i'm drained" feeling.

Love for you but not inlove like what brotherly love, friendly love? asking too much if hes only in for that

@poster, let me share my story,i luved my doll real much that i made sure i callled her almost every day( nd she calls lyk thrice a month). And i made sure that i would get for her anything she desired as long as it was within my ability. Now i decided to let her be and not bother her anymore( she made me feel as if i was bothering her) but do u think i would love someone else as much, i dont think so even if i do i wont make the mistake of making it too obvious( once bitten twice shy).

OP.
Please take it easy and keep enduring~~~

You cant no for sure that you love your partner more than he love you some people cant express their love, I learned that the hard way plus listening to this song "Nowhere" by 112 you should check it out.

D word love most time can be measured in very unacceptable manners. But love isn’t find or loving the perfect person. It’s all about finding and loving the imperfect person to perfection.

D moral fact is that when ru given all you have and doing all you could to make the relationship work out for good, and your spouse is not appreciative and always asking for more when she/he know you have given all you have already. If you can run with yours two leg’s I will hire a wheelbarrow pusher to transport you to unknown destination

Other factor which reflects on your post is that he or she meant not be finding the relationship anymore interesting. But due to the fact that somehow along d years of being together he/ she do felt d real meaning of love then. But now it’s about time to change d play head or cleaner

Sometimes it is so easier to confuse jealousy of someone with love. Because men are territorial and at times possessive doesn't mean he loves you.

There are times you may doubt the love someone have for you but if you're going to be in a relationship you must feel it deep

down in your and soul. You should never have to doubt a person's love for you. It is definitely not worth it.

well, if he doesnt love , the signs are there for u to c n decide but many ladies n guys choose to ignore these signs cos they believe he/ she will develop love for them someday. The truth is, he/ she will never learn or grow to love . You are simply wasting ur.time.n.resources. Please take the bold step n leave his or her sorry ass. You deserve better n tell urself that you are special cos theres no other person in the world like u.
I have been there before n truth is is when i look back i just laff n kall myself stupid cos i did everything to please him. I kall himthree times daily n he never return ma kall. His excuse if its in ma naturr not to kall n some other stuff. I thank God dat i used my tongue to count my teeth before it was too late

I know it's impossible for love of us will be equal.
But.. to be honest, it hurts.

I'm with my boyfriend, and everyone in our lives know about.
I woke up this morning, first thing that came to my mind..was him.
I spent all morning .. very happily. Everywhere i went, i felt like i was floating. I even smiled to people i dont know.
I actually thought , and made fun of myself..this's crazy. Cos i'm so crazy in love with him.

I got back home and talked to him..
I told him...I love u.
To hear he say.. I like u a lot.