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Techniques For Texting/chatting In A Relationship by Partnerbiz(f): 7:06am On Dec 02, 2017
Disclaimer: I have to state this:-

*I am not asking you to become all rigid, turning
your relationship into a military one.

*The use of these techniques would solely depend
on your relationship and your discretion.

*These techniques are common sense, but
(unfortunately) some people don't know them.

*There are definitely exceptions, if those exceptions
work perfectly for you- VoilĂ 

Type-Send and Forget We are all familiar with that
feeling of texting a loved one and virtually sitting
on the phone, waiting for his/her reply - turning
yourself into an accurate time-keeper (lmao).

Don'tsend that message because you wanna get a reply
but because you wanna pass a message. It helps
to keep your sanity in check.

Do me -I Do You:

Ladies are very guilty of this,
now for the hommiez.....if you're the one that
sends text/chat more often, she doesn't text/chat
you back, get hold of your dignity, text/chat when
she reciprocates, don't appear too pushy/needy.
Let her know how important it is to you, for her to
initiate a text/chat.


Back and Forth :

This is very simple, that awkward
moment you chatting with someone and you turn
to some "Chris-Tucker"...doing all the texting/
chatting while she drops "Aii" "K" or she totally
ignores. Communication should be two way, if you
send a ping (or whatever), wait for her to reply
before sending another, don't bombard her with
pings.


Be Versatile:

It's not everyday you guys would talk
about Politics (maybe because you're a political
Scientist). Endeavour to diversify, talk about
random topics that range from entertainment
,spiritual, inspirational to intellectual. Find time
within those chats to tease/flatter your partner.


Don't text fight :

This is a fast relationship killer, it
slowly kills the vibe to talk, because you don't
know the next thing you would say - that would
result in a fight. Misunderstandings are easier to
settle in person, because you can see the person's
facial expression(s), hear his/her tone and know
where to draw the line. It isn't like that while
chatting, so avoid it.


Chill for a minute:

Please don't make a habit outta
this, it only helps to keep the excitement/attraction
up as at when due. Some people will receive a
ping and read it before it delivers sef, then you
would be asked something like, "nawa oo, you no
even allow the message land"...lol. So, keep the
suspense up, let him/her be excited, waiting to
read your reply.


Once again, there is only one technique that can
effectively work for/in your relationship - that's
your technique.
#kisses#
Re: Techniques For Texting/chatting In A Relationship by Rubbiish(m): 7:10am On Dec 02, 2017
Ignoring one's chat basically stem from disinterest...
If someone got interest in u, he or she wouldn't ignore your messages...
Re: Techniques For Texting/chatting In A Relationship by Nobody: 7:45am On Dec 02, 2017
grin

I prefer calls than texting coz i like to talk.. grin

I learned that text messages has no emotions...it's all depend on a person how s(he) gonna read the message... wink

Texting is really boring.. lipsrsealed

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Re: Techniques For Texting/chatting In A Relationship by Rubbiish(m): 8:06am On Dec 02, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
grin

I prefer calls than texting coz i like to talk.. grin

I learned that text messages has no emotions...it's all depend on a person how s(he) gonna read the message... wink

Text are really boring. lipsrsealed
@bold Not entirely true...
There are certain times u just need to mix the calls with text...
Re: Techniques For Texting/chatting In A Relationship by Partnerbiz(f): 9:25am On Dec 04, 2017
Rubbiish:
Ignoring one's chat basically stem from disinterest...
If someone got interest in u, he or she wouldn't ignore your messages...

hmmm
Re: Techniques For Texting/chatting In A Relationship by Partnerbiz(f): 10:57am On Dec 06, 2017
Rubbiish:
@bold Not entirely true... There are certain times u just need to mix the calls with text...
yea

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