u are on point..so true

roarik:
u are on point..so true

U speak with much confidence pwetty

roarik:
u are on point..so true

U speak with much confidence pretty

roarik:
u are on point..so true

you speak with much confidence pretty

Please this is so bad on all levels!

Virginity is a personal choice, just like life is a personal choice. Why do you think someone should be jealous of you for the fact you are a virgin? If your understanding of virginity is about being above others morally then you don't even have self worth but hide behind the walls of virginity to give you one.

Virginity signifies purity in a sexual sense! It ends there! It doesn't make you different from others cos believe me there are non virgins who have a heart of gold that I bet you don't have!

What of girls that lost their virginity through rapes? Or through mental abuses? Or those little girls in the north that had no say about their virginity being married off to men old enough to be their fathers? They should be jealous of virgins eh?

This is quite strange and it shows the mentality of a average Nigerian about it by the comments I read. Virginity automatically makes you a gold!

I laugh. O.p work on your self esteem. You don't need validation for being a virgin, it is your choice. Kindly respect that someone could lost her virginity by being raped. And about those friends you saying that try to make one join them at the same level, I would say it is only someone that doesn't have self worth or self respects that would bow to peer pressure.

donstan18:


I love the maturity you used in replying her.

They obviously proved your thread right by commenting with Jealousy and hate.

When you see pained non-virgins, you'll know, especially the ones that lost it because of okpa and nutri-C.

Being a Virgin is dope for those that cherish and loves it.
Being a non-virgin is also dope for those who ain't Jealous of virgins.

If you are truly a virgin.... Thumbs up, It ain't easy.


drops pen!

Thank u, am grateful.

Ginaz:
Please this is so bad on all levels!

Virginity is a personal choice, just like life is a personal choice. Why do you think someone should be jealous of you for the fact you are a virgin? If your understanding of virginity is about being above others morally then you don't even have self worth but hide behind the walls of virginity to give you one.

Virginity signifies purity in a sexual sense! It ends there! It doesn't make you different from others cos believe me there are non virgins who have a heart of gold that I bet you don't have!

What of girls that lost their virginity through rapes? Or through mental abuses? Or those little girls in the north that had no say about their virginity being married off to men old enough to be their fathers? They should be jealous of virgins eh?

This is quite strange and it shows the mentality of a average Nigerian about it by the comments I read. Virginity automatically makes you a gold!

I laugh. O.p work on your self esteem. You don't need validation for being a virgin, it is your choice. Kindly respect that someone could lost her virginity by being raped. And about those friends you saying that try to make one join them at the same level, I would say it is only someone that doesn't have self worth or self respects that would bow to peer pressure.

You think so?

Not true! This is so not true. Where do y'all get this silly ideas from sef? So, I'm gonna be jealous of a girl cus she's a virgin? Hahahaha

[quote author=Ginaz post=63206585]Please this is so bad on all levels!

Virginity is a personal choice, just like life is a personal choice. Why do you think someone should be jealous of you for the fact you are a virgin? If your understanding of virginity is about being above others morally then you don't even have self worth but hide behind the walls of virginity to give you one.

Virginity signifies purity in a sexual sense! It ends there! It doesn't make you different from others cos believe me there are non virgins who have a heart of gold that I bet you don't have!

What of girls that lost their virginity through rapes? Or through mental abuses? Or those little girls in the north that had no say about their virginity being married off to men old enough to be their fathers? They should be jealous of virgins eh?

I guess u did not understand me. Am not trying to undermine non-v, moreover its tough being a V these days. What i meant what that out of guilt, SOME NOT ALL virgins feel jealous.

Ginaz:
Please this is so bad on all levels!

Virginity is a personal choice, just like life is a personal choice. Why do you think someone should be jealous of you for the fact you are a virgin? If your understanding of virginity is about being above others morally then you don't even have self worth but hide behind the walls of virginity to give you one.

Virginity signifies purity in a sexual sense! It ends there! It doesn't make you different from others cos believe me there are non virgins who have a heart of gold that I bet you don't have!

What of girls that lost their virginity through rapes? Or through mental abuses? Or those little girls in the north that had no say about their virginity being married off to men old enough to be their fathers? They should be jealous of virgins eh?

This is quite strange and it shows the mentality of a average Nigerian about it by the comments I read. Virginity automatically makes you a gold!

I laugh. O.p work on your self esteem. You don't need validation for being a virgin, it is your choice. Kindly respect that someone could lost her virginity by being raped. And about those friends you saying that try to make one join them at the same level, I would say it is only someone that doesn't have self worth or self respects that would bow to peer pressure.

Make it loud and clear, babez!

I'd like for ya'll to understand my point. A girl can't be crowned a Good Girl cause she is a Virgin, your character earns you that status. But ya'll can't deny the fact that some virgins are been tagged Old School cause of their choice for sexual purity. Go to higher institutions, a girl with non-virgin friends is often victimized by her peers, why? She has something the have lost,so its either she Joins them or she is out. What do u call that? Mind you, I said some Non-virgins not all.

donstan18:



You think so?

Ya I do, everything in life is about choices. If you wanna marry you gat to make choices same with a smoker offering cigarette to someone that doesn't smoke. He has to make a choice if he wants to be a smoker or not.

Same with virginity. I am not saying being a virgin Is bad but you goading it over someone that is not, is wrong. A little girl in my hood has started sleeping around she is not yet 15. Her parent would beat her and drive her out of the house for days.

She didn't just decide to sleep around, lack of parental care and guidance was responsible. What she needs now is love and care not beatings!

What I am saying is, a lot of bad situations can messed up the mind. Hardships, hunger, starvation, lack of love and abuses are reasons some people made a choice of losing their purity. You can't judge them you don't know the pains.

I used to judged them but when I saw how people were suffering and how parents don't give a Bleep about their kids, all they do is born and born without a single sense of responsibility can you honestly blame them?

If the o.p was in one of those crucial and critical situations would she be saying these? Let's be holy unto the lord only cos everyone has their own hell.

Virginity is a choice. Na God go help, cos girls are doing silly things just for hunger not to kill them. Even boys too, going into yahoo some for greed some cos of hunger.

The street is messed up, what everyone needs is love not being judged. Na condition make crayfish bend like my friend would say.

Jochabed:
I'd like for ya'll to understand my point. A girl can't be crowned a Good Girl cause she is a Virgin, your character earns you that status. But ya'll can't deny the fact that some virgins are been tagged Old School cause of their choice for sexual purity. Go to higher institutions, a girl with non-virgin friends is often victimized by her peers, why? She has something the have lost,so its either she Joins them or she is out. What do u call that? Mind you, I said some Non-virgins not all.

The struggle is real. Even you with your black hat like a medieval witch's hat (only thing missing is a broom) too is saying "y'all"? When you aren't American.

Shows your struggle is internal, trying to feel better about about some of your choices or lack of.

Yous a virgin? Good for you. Thinking of losing it? Your choice. Want to keep it? Your business. Ultimately, only you get to decide what you do with your body. Mates might pressure you but if you do the do, it's all on you, your choice and no one else's fault. (except for rape)

[quote author=Ginaz post=63207823]

Ya I do, everything in life is about choices. If you wanna marry you gat to make choices same with a smoker offering cigarette to someone that doesn't smoke. He has to make a choice if he wants to be a smoker or not.

Same with virginity. I am not saying being a virgin Is bad but you goading it over someone that is not, is wrong. A little girl in my hood has started sleeping around she is not yet 15. Her parent would beat her and drive her out of the house for days.

She didn't just decide to sleep around, lack of parental care and guidance was responsible. What she needs now is love and care not beatings!

What I am saying is, a lot of bad situations can messed up the mind. Hardships, hunger, starvation, lack of love and abuses are reasons some people made a choice of losing their purity. You can't judge them you don't know the pains.

I am not here to judge non-v, circumstances led to them loosing it. I understand the pain the also go through for being non-v.

shaybebaby:

The struggle is real. Even you with your black hat like a medieval witch's hat (only thing missing is a broom) too is saying "y'all"? When you aren't American.

Shows your struggle is internal, trying to feel better about about some of your choices or lack of.

Yous a virgin? Good for you. Thinking of losing it? Your choice. Want to keep it? Your business. Ultimately, only you get to decide what you do with your body. Mates might pressure you but if you do the do, it's all on you, your choice and no one else's fault. (except for rape)

Lol..But thanks anyway.

festwiz:
Hmm?! Which do you belong to?

Never mind, just checked your dp.

..... she be Sister Nkechi!

Na them dey get hymen wey strong like original American jeans. You will need a scissors before you can dis virgin them and Sometimes only scissors is not enough sef, you will have to add it with fasting and prayers

Gofwane:
..... she be Sister Nkechi!

Na them dey get hymen wey strong like original American jeans. You will need a scissors before you can dis virgin them and Sometimes only scissors is not enough sef, you will have to add it with fasting and prayers

Lol...But thank u,and God bless.

Ginaz:


Ya I do, everything in life is about choices. If you wanna marry you gat to make choices same with a smoker offering cigarette to someone that doesn't smoke. He has to make a choice if he wants to be a smoker or not.

Same with virginity. I am not saying being a virgin Is bad but you goading it over someone that is not, is wrong. A little girl in my hood has started sleeping around she is not yet 15. Her parent would beat her and drive her out of the house for days.

She didn't just decide to sleep around, lack of parental care and guidance was responsible. What she needs now is love and care not beatings!

What I am saying is, a lot of bad situations can messed up the mind. Hardships, hunger, starvation, lack of love and abuses are reasons some people made a choice of losing their purity. You can't judge them you don't know the pains.

I used to judged them but when I saw how people were suffering and how parents don't give a Bleep about their kids, all they do is born and born without a single sense of responsibility can you honestly blame them?


If the o.p was in one of those crucial and critical situations would she be saying these? Let's be holy unto the lord only cos everyone has their own hell.

Virginity is a choice. Na God go help, cos girls are doing silly things just for hunger not to kill them. Even boys too, going into yahoo some for greed some cos of hunger.

The street is messed up, what everyone needs is love not being judged. Na condition make crayfish bend like my friend would say .

Those are the things I wanted to read,

Desperate times calls for desperate measures,

Some virgins that lost their didn't do it by choice, something prompted it leaving them choiceless and with no choice than to lose it.

Jochabed:
I'd like for ya'll to understand my point. A girl can't be crowned a Good Girl cause she is a Virgin, your character earns you that status. But ya'll can't deny the fact that some virgins are been tagged Old School cause of their choice for sexual purity. Go to higher institutions, a girl with non-virgin friends is often victimized by her peers, why? She has something the have lost,so its either she Joins them or she is out. What do u call that? Mind you, I said some Non-virgins not all.

What you say doesn't make sense I'm sorry to say. So someone would force you to join them or not? You don't have a choice of saying yes or no? Would they kill you if you don't?

Your assessment doesn't hold ground. Peer pressure is rampant. I don't like makeup and don't like making my hair most times. When I was in school, you need to see the stares I got. I was tagged a plain girl, some said I don't have class right in my face . But did I say they were jealous?

No cos it's a peer pressure, they want you to be like them cos they don't have the guts to be like you.

Why I'm angry it's cos your tittle is not right. Non virgins jealous of virgins? Really? it is discriminating to those who had a rough start. Like that 15yr old girl

I should as well open a thread on makeup girls jealous over non makeup girls. Does it make sense?

Jochabed:
Lol..But thanks anyway.

Anytime, happy to serve up doses of reality.

Ginaz:


What you say doesn't make sense I'm sorry to say. So someone would force you to join them or not? You don't have a choice of saying yes or no? Would they kill you if you don't?

Your assessment doesn't hold ground. Peer pressure is rampant. I don't like makeup and don't like making my hair most times. When I was in school, you need to see the stares I got. I was tagged a plain girl, some said I don't have class right in my face . But did I say they were jealous?

No cos it's a peer pressure, they want you to be like them cos they don't have the guts to be like you.

Why I'm angry it's cos your tittle is not right. Non virgins jealous of virgins? Really? it is discriminating to those who had a rough start. Like that 15yr old girl

I should as well open a thread on makeup girls jealous over non makeup girls. Does it make sense?

ok, i understand.

Jochabed:
Lol...But thank u,and God bless.

Ammmeennn!! Halaluyah

Have a nice day, sister Nkechi abi na sister Chidalu sef.

Gofwane:
Ammmeennn!! Halaluyah
Have a nice day, sister Nkechi abi na sister Chidalu sef.

Lol

Jochabed:
Lol

lol loler lolest!

Jochabed:
Lol

Babe, you're the one I've been looking for all my life. Please where are you?

QueenSekxy:
jealous you with that your cap

nne,,I envy intelligency not that smelly cùnt of yours. .

This one is pained

Jochabed:

yeah! any problem?

you have a very virginic look. I might be wrong though.

donstan18:




When you see pained non-virgins, you'll know, especially the ones that lost it because of okpa and nutri-C.


drops pen!

ahahahaha, what the fxck man.