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Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(m): 4:51pm On Dec 07
Dear Lively Stone,

My wife has not spoken to me for almost two weeks. What happened two weeks ago was that we had an argument which we said certain words. My wife works on the Island . Two months ago,she was transferred to a new unit in her office. That office came with different responsibilities from her former office.

What led to the quarrel is that she said she was promoted in this new office but she refused to say how much is her new salary. Secondly,she started to password her phone. And she used to be n her phone chatting after work. Sometimes,chatting late into the night. She also starts to come home very late. As late as 11pm sometimes.

All these changes came with her new office and I have been telling her that I dont like the changes. Because to me,not telling me how much she earns now is making me suspicious. Plus,she password her phone. I mean why will she do that if she is not hiding anything. I dont believe that it is because of the children she is doing that. Anytime she is chatting,she will say it is official work she is doing. Coming late is the final suspicion for me.

Two weeks ago,I couldnt take it…I demanded to see her phone which she refused. In anger,I took the phone and smashed it.....see more

...www.livelystones.com.ng
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by boookworm: 4:54pm On Dec 07
Don't let this post distract u from the fact that Ronaldo has won his 5th Balon D'Or tonight in Paris, to equal Messi's 5 times record. after Messi blew a 4-1 lead. Now it's 5-5

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Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by DopeBoss(m): 5:06pm On Dec 07
It's obvious her boss is banging herundecided

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Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(m): 5:19pm On Dec 07
hmnn.
DopeBoss:
It's obvious her boss is banging herundecided
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by Meekmind(m): 7:01pm On Dec 07
All this sh*t just make me dread settling down... imagine facing this in a marriage, something that I cannot even cope with in a relationship....My ex no do reach this one b4 I dump her....









I detest senseless and needless issues in relationship

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Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by muller101(m): 8:20pm On Dec 07
Nobody forced you to marry. Carry your cross
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by Keneking: 8:22pm On Dec 07
But where is Lalasticlala sef
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(m): 10:51pm On Dec 07
That is too harsh my dear friend[Qquote author=muller101 post=63074187]Nobody forced you to marry. Carry your cross
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Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by habsydiamond(m): 10:59pm On Dec 07
equal to ....olowo to gba iyawo ole ni yen ooo
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(m): 8:23am On Dec 08
Hmnnnn
habsydiamond:
equal to ....olowo to gba iyawo ole ni yen ooo
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by Bidobado: 8:28am On Dec 08
muller101:
Nobody forced you to marry. Carry your cross

Very harsh and unkind words.. Not necessary.

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Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by Bidobado: 8:31am On Dec 08
ORAGBON:
hmnn.

The signs are obvious Bro and you asking after having your suspicions means you already know what's going on but want confirmation from others.
Late nights, passwords, concealing financial information are red flags, if not, isn't relationship about honesty, transparency and mutual respect. Something is not right and you know it, pls don't let me say the obvious.

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Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by Sulukag: 8:54am On Dec 08
These are the challenges of marriage bro,it not something one can forsee. At this point i think you need to talk to her and also pray that God should disgrace whoever is diverting her attention from you,something is not right bro.
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(m): 10:42am On Dec 08
Nice one my broda
Sulukag:
These are the challenges of marriage bro,it not something one can forsee. At this point i think you need to talk to her and also pray that God should disgrace whoever is diverting her attention from you,something is not right bro.
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by jjman2322: 10:56am On Dec 08
I feel for you bro.. I think the problem is most Nigerian men arent strong enough..

Try this: When shes home one day, get into the room with her.. Tell her you want to see her phone right now, and if she doesnt want to give it to you then you're getting divorced..

Your woman is cheating/ or about to cheat.. When a woman is all about you she can't wait to talk to you, meanwhile your woman is ignoring you.

Just do what I said, you need to shock her back into reality..

Be like listen i think youre cheating on me, and I want to see your phone now, as in right now. If you don't want to hand it over to me, then no worries, but good luck being single because i want a divorce.

This is a win-win for you.. If she refuses to give you her phone, it means 100% shes cheating in which case you need to leave that marriage.. If she gives you her phone and she's not doing anything, then you can relax, and explain shes acting suspicious.

Bottom line is all im trying to say is grow some balls man.. Ive never been walked all over by any girl because I make it CLEAR to them that IM 100% OKAY without them, and they will continue to be my girl as long as they dont MESS UP, and once they MESS UP its over. They end up respecting me because of this.

You need to bluff sometimes man, make it seem like you will be fine without your woman, and that shes the one that has to convince you to stay with her... Do that and you will have any girl in the palm of your hands..

Im 32 years, never been cheated on or treated like crap.. The moment your girl first stopped talking to you was the moment I would have walked out and stopped talking to her.. There are billions of women in the world, no need to be unhappy with one..

Be an ALPHA bro.

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Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(m): 11:38am On Dec 08
hmnnnn
jjman2322:
I feel for you bro.. I think the problem is most Nigerian men arent strong enough..

Try this: When shes home one day, get into the room with her.. Tell her you want to see her phone right now, and if she doesnt want to give it to you then you're getting divorced..

Your woman is cheating/ or about to cheat.. When a woman is all about you she can't wait to talk to you, meanwhile your woman is ignoring you.

Just do what I said, you need to shock her back into reality..

Be like listen i think youre cheating on me, and I want to see your phone now, as in right now. If you don't want to hand it over to me, then no worries, but good luck being single because i want a divorce.

This is a win-win for you.. If she refuses to give you her phone, it means 100% shes cheating in which case you need to leave that marriage.. If she gives you her phone and she's not doing anything, then you can relax, and explain shes acting suspicious.

Bottom line is all im trying to say is grow some balls man.. Ive never been walked all over by any girl because I make it CLEAR to them that IM 100% OKAY without them, and they will continue to be my girl as long as they dont MESS UP, and once they MESS UP its over. They end up respecting me because of this.

You need to bluff sometimes man, make it seem like you will be fine without your woman, and that shes the one that has to convince you to stay with her... Do that and you will have any girl in the palm of your hands..

Im 32 years, never been cheated on or treated like crap.. The moment your girl first stopped talking to you was the moment I would have walked out and stopped talking to her.. There are billions of women in the world, no need to be unhappy with one..

Be an ALPHA bro.
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by jjman2322: 11:47am On Dec 08
ORAGBON:
hmnnnn

no need to over think.. your wife hasnt spoken to you in two weeks, she refuses to tell you stuff, shes being secretive, she locked her phone, she comes home very late at night, shes on her phone late night talking to random people..

AND YET you refuse to even confront her about it or be a man.

Ive told you what to do, its all up to you..

In this life you're either an ALPHA male or a BETA male..

An Alpha male would not accept being treated like this.. your wife is treating you like a small boy and you're there taking it from her.
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(m): 12:48pm On Dec 08
Assumption! is a destroyer of relationships
DopeBoss:
It's obvious her boss is banging herundecided

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Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by DopeBoss(m): 2:15pm On Dec 08
ORAGBON:
Assumption! is a destroyer of relationships
Bro there's a big difference between "Assumption" and "Fact" undecided
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(m): 6:19pm On Dec 08
He has not caught her red handed. What if?
DopeBoss:
Bro there's a big difference between "Assumption" and "Fact" undecided

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Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(m): 6:32pm On Dec 08
God bless
Sulukag:
These are the challenges of marriage bro,it not something one can forsee. At this point i think you need to talk to her and also pray that God should disgrace whoever is diverting her attention from you,something is not right bro.
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by DopeBoss(m): 7:07pm On Dec 08
ORAGBON:
He has not caught her red handed. What if?
Oh he wants to catch her first b4 he gets the fact right well he just might never catch her if she plays her game wellundecided ...Btw with all you listed above it's no rocket science that she's cheating on himundecided
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by Stellamariss(f): 8:34pm On Dec 08
boookworm:
Don't let this post distract u from the fact that Ronaldo has won his 5th Balon D'Or tonight in Paris, to equal Messi's 5 times record. after Messi blew a 4-1 lead. Now it's 5-5
hahaha, guy pls don't make me to laugh too much abeg. I have sore throat and is paining when I laugh
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(m): 10:49pm On Dec 08
You may be correct. But where is the trust then? What if he his responsible for her change of attitude?
DopeBoss:
Oh he wants to catch her first b4 he gets the fact right well he just might never catch her if she plays her game wellundecided ...Btw with all you listed above it's no rocket science that she's cheating on himundecided
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by boookworm: 12:26am On Dec 09
Stellamariss:
hahaha, guy pls don't make me to laugh too much abeg. I have sore throat and is paining when I laugh
Oh. Sorry 4 making u laugh. And u look beautiful by the way
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(m): 8:33am On Dec 09
Hmnnnn
boookworm:
Don't let this post distract u from the fact that Ronaldo has won his 5th Balon D'Or tonight in Paris, to equal Messi's 5 times record. after Messi blew a 4-1 lead. Now it's 5-5

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Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by DopeBoss(m): 10:21am On Dec 09
ORAGBON:
You may be correct. But where is the trust then? What if he his responsible for her change of attitude?
Relationship Is Based On Trust Right?? Had It Been That He Trusts His Wife Frm D Start There Won't Be Any Suspicions And We Wnt Be Arguing Over D Matter Right Nwundecided, Btw He Clearly Stated Dat His Wife Attitude Changed When She Got Promoted So I Dnt Get Hw He's Responsible For Her Attitude Changeundecided
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by Romanic: 10:53am On Dec 09
Its possible the lady has something she is hiding.
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(m): 7:29pm On Dec 09
All these assumptions not fair. We didn't hear her part of the story
Romanic:
Its possible the lady has something she is hiding.

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Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by ORAGBON(m): 7:38am On Dec 10
grin
Keneking:
But where is Lalasticlala sef
Re: Help!i Don’t Understand The Changes With My Wife,she Will Not Speak To Me by Stellamariss(f): 11:37pm On Dec 13
boookworm:
Oh. Sorry 4 making u laugh. And u look beautiful by the way
Thanks

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