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Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by Toks2008(m): 9:12pm On Dec 14, 2017 |
TheManofTomorrow: It depends on how you approach it. I have lots of nairaland friends both male and female and it is not always about dating. If a man is tired of being friendzoned then let him move on..is it by force for a lady to say yes? My point is that people should try to be friends with people. ..if you woo a lady and she says NO biko move on and maintain your friendship or delete her number if that will make you sleep at night.Why making it look like a do or die thing? which one is the talks about guys hating being friend zoned. .. 1 Like |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by Prec1ous(m): 9:00pm On Dec 21, 2017 |
TheManofTomorrow: You made all the sense... People will help you if you are deserving a day not because they are friends with you. Marry a man that can cover all your needs so you do not open yourself up to temptations. Every bad thing in this life started from lowering your walls. 1 Like |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by toks208: 7:38pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Lalasticlala I guess this is insightful. |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by toks208: 7:54pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Prec1ous: So that man you want to marry,was there not a first time you two met? If you had not given him the chance to communicate with you how on earth will you ever get to marry him? this is my point,give room for communication and don't just shut people out. I have female friends that have been so helpful in my life and we were strangers before that first hello. |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by jorion(m): 9:08pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Would have been a much better advice if you were referring to making new contacts/connections. For me though, I don't like keeping much friends and the one I keep should share either same character, dreams, goals, ambition etc. Frankly speaking, 5 minutes of conversation is enough to put you in either my bff list or acquaintance list 1 Like |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
ode. |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by Alariiwo: 10:35pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Nice points you've got there.. Also worthy of note is that too much familiarity brings contempt. When you make yourself too easy to access, people will always take you for granted and ride freely on your emotions. In summary, you don't need too many people around, just those that matter, that you can benefit from. 2 Likes |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by emperorzillion: 10:36pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Vikky014:Na u women dey cause most problems of the world.. 1 Like |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by biacan(f): 10:37pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
ChiefPiiko:Chiefpiiko is been a while |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by goestohell: 10:39pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Toks2008: Long and tedious load of hogwash. 1 Like |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Which one is watts - up again na? |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by emperorzillion: 10:46pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
Toks2008:op one nairaland girl don do u strong tin abi Nairaland girls abeg wetin una do this op wey make am voice out hin mind like this anyway u cannot be friends with everyone u meet, that's life and remember it's better u focus on u becoming who the world would like to associate with than u begging for friendship... Another factor is the fact that , many have been through situations whereby too much of being nice to keeping friends have ruined them spiritual, emotionally and financially.. OP I'm not against you at all but from my own view , be the man everyone wants to make friends with both male and female not being the man tryna beg for friendship... Who no wan make friends with Dangote or Otedola 3 Likes |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by VictorRomanov: 11:16pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
kimbraa: Go back and read again. This time do it very slowly, twice if need be. |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by blackprowler: 11:16pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
for the most part Nigerian girls are fools. If a Nigerian girl gives you all her contacts and audience, it means she wants you to go "all the way". If you take her details and relate with her and don't ask to date or "do" her, she will hate you. Nigerian girls don't deserve to be taken as wife cos they've created so much undue pain in relationship with men. (of course that Isn't shared by the 0.1% of men that 80% of them throw themselves unashamedly on. sadly they can only marry 0.1% of the female population and they usually go for those with pedigree and value, after exhausting themselves with overdose from those 80%) 1 Like |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by CornFooPanda(m): 11:20pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
In essence op is saying, "make yourself approcheable" |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by toks208: 11:46pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
emperorzillion: Ki ni eleyi n so?
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Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by Nobody: 11:47pm On Jan 08, 2018 |
True, I have been busy offline. How do you do? biacan: |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by masterP042(m): 12:07am On Jan 09, 2018 |
Abeg, Op use black color font, I couldn't even read this post.. It's very discomforting to read |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by emperorzillion: 12:08am On Jan 09, 2018 |
toks208:boy listen up, Friendship no be do or die ... Seems u don't have class .. because u wannna make friends with people don't mean u have to ridicule urself.. anyone that's not ready to be ur friend, let them go.. Go and make money bro, be a brand to reckon with.. who no wan make friends with Dangote or Otedola.. Nairaland girls abeg pity this op small, una no wan dance to hin reggae .. na one of una don offend am 1 Like
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Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by ibietela2(m): 12:09am On Jan 09, 2018 |
What should i do to the ladies who has refusing to respond to my messages? |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by toks208: 12:16am On Jan 09, 2018 |
emperorzillion: Aja 1 do I look broke to you abi I look like one lacking friends? you have no idea..smh! Please go and sleep..your mumu don do. |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by toks208: 12:18am On Jan 09, 2018 |
ibietela2: Move on. At least you can message them so it means they don't want you so stay in the friend zone. |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by Stanleysteno(m): 1:00am On Jan 09, 2018 |
[quote author=Archangel15 post=63210320]What with the colors[/quoT These words reminds me of a movie titled "ZOOTOPIA" |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by czaratwork: 1:38am On Jan 09, 2018 |
you need counselling. blackprowler: |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by Dindondin(m): 5:40am On Jan 09, 2018 |
kimbraa:no mind the op. But he tried to pass a strong msg to our girls. They should use their brain well to know that being friendly doesn't result to dating. They should be ready to accept t friends & know when to unfriend those that overdo |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by Boyooosa(m): 5:53am On Jan 09, 2018 |
Joislim:I trust u, e go make sense. I would have found the post useless if u r not here. |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by Coldfeets: 5:58am On Jan 09, 2018 |
How do you expect someone to make sense out of something you don't know if it makes sense even though it was supposedly written by you? I just hate seeing that concluding line you so often use in your speech these days. |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by biacan(f): 6:01am On Jan 09, 2018 |
ChiefPiiko:I'm fyn I learnt that you've finally tie the knot congrats Chief |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by Tin07(m): 7:14am On Jan 09, 2018 |
Good one. |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by SolexxBarry(m): 7:23am On Jan 09, 2018 |
Nice one op |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by Nobody: 7:31am On Jan 09, 2018 |
Thanks dear, not yet but very soon biacan: |
Re: When you build a wall around yourself. by ibietela2(m): 7:50am On Jan 09, 2018 |
toks208: I have unfriend them. |
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