Been dating this Nigerian man for three months now. He moved here specifically for graduate school. Odd things about our relationship. 1. We never added each on social media, Besides Snapchat. 2.Conveniently has a place to crash after working late (Uber) 3.Communication has always been bad because we live opposite schedules relating to work.

He says he private because he has been badly hurt in the past from exposing his life and people leaving him. So I accepted we are just in our period of growth.

Today I showed up at his apartment and found another woman chillin on the couch casually watching a movie wrapped in a blanket. He told he was earnestly studying for final exam.

But this was the first time I met or heard of her name. I asked other questions which pointed this wasn’t the first time and they’re others. We talk every single day but he forgets to tell me these types of details?

Should I believe this is normal or acceptable because he’s from another country . I know I’m not just an “angry black” women. Need perspective on this secretive Nigerian. Trust or question?

So you are a Black American dating a Nigerian?

This story de one kind self

cruchenutii:
So you are a Black American dating a Nigerian?

Yes living in America

Leave him n come and date

Oxster:
This story de one kind self

What do you mean?

Aelnru24:


What do you mean?

Dun worry,,now I understand,,,Well,,leave him and come n Date Me

It is possible they are just friends.

hold ur Nigerian niggi tight...we are unique.

Question him,he shouldn't be hiding anything from u since he said he loves u.......he should be real and keep his acting for soap Opera

you didn't catch him cheating, there's nothing to worry bout... At least he gave you an answer!!

Or maybe you don't trust your Niqqa
If there's Trust you don't mind hearing stories like he was on the bed with another Lady Naked!!
And you be like I Trust my Niqqa nothing went down he Loves me, he won't do such.. That's it

Y'all werk on Trust

I dont see why you should date someone who is not open to you. Its a relationship, I think you should find another man.

Aelnru24:


Yes living in America

This is just a regular cheating attitude, it has nothing to do with you dating a Nigerian. I mean, I have friends who fall in love with young beautiful Black American ladies, It has nothing to do with green card honestly.

Except you are an old Black American woman. How old are you? & how old is the man in question?

cruchenutii:


This is just a regular cheating attitude, it has nothing to do with you dating a Nigerian. I mean, I have friends who fall in love with young beautiful Black American ladies, It has nothing to do with green card honestly.

Except you are an old Black American woman. How old are you? & how old is the man in question?

24/28 It is a cheating attitude, building trust is important. It’s the fact he said he tells me what is necessary. He specifically makes reference to what he’s accustomed to in Nigeria.

Aelnru24:


24/28 It’s not a cheating attitude, building trust is important. It’s the fact he said he tells me what is necessary. He specifically makes reference to what he’s accustomed to in Nigeria.

Accustomed to in Nigeria? Please, let No one lie to you. There is no such thing, Nigerian women are too brutal & jealous for even such to occur. Except you are a celebrity, then it will become a business instead of relationship & even with that, Heads will roll at some point.

Complicated

gat nothing to say. OYO is your case