kimbraa:
He has a choice to either hang on or take his leave. But the point is, the said lady may not be ready for such a life time commitment as marriage and needs time.

Okay. I get your point, but one quick question.

When you date someone for like two years and the person assumes it's time for you two to get married, proposes to you, and you said no.
So u expect the guy to wait, abi? Wait for what exactly? What is the guarantee that if the guy does wait, he'll get what he wants?

Jadoskii:
Naturally I'll relegate her to the role of side chick;without her knowledge sha oo ( buh if she az gud reasons for rejecting mon proposal,I'm game ..if not) I'll promote the side chick ( divine favour)....

hardebayho:


Okay. I get your point, but one quick question.

When you date someone for like two years and the person assumes it's time for you two to get married, proposes to you, and you said no.
So u expect the guy to wait, abi? Wait for what exactly? What is the guarantee that if the guy does wait, he'll get what he wants?

I said he has a choice to either wait or walk away if he knows what he wants.

hardebayho:
No ooo... Why would I end it? Because she says no? I would just keep being stupid and waste my precious time with someone who doesn't want to be with me...


Mtcheww

Hahaha exactly

kimbraa:
I said he has a choice to either wait or walk away if he knows what he wants.

Okay ma.. Now, I get ur point

Mariinee:
It isn't always like that. The very thought of marriage can be terrifying for some people.

Anyways, I think a guy would always know if the lady he is about to ppropose to would say yes.

Some ladies can be very unpredictable n unstable
Your sig tho