Any special gains in marriage? I don't think so.

You have spoken well

shaybebaby:

Nope, but it's a factor when considering bringing babies into the world.

Kekx:




Nice point, you mean factor for which party?

Both, I guess

Yup, both.
I'm okay drinking garri (which I love by the way) with my man. But I'll be darned if that is all I can offer my child.
You make the babies together, you both provide for the babies together. If you can't do that yet, no point. However that should not be a hindrance to enjoying being together.
On top, that garri, we will spoon feed each other. If it's mosquitoes biting when there is no electricity, we can make a game of who kills the higher number.

Romance doesn't need to be dead because of a lack of finances.

SirBaro:
You have spoken well

Thank you.

shaybebaby:

But don't worry, she's out there.
It may sound cliche but two heads are really better than one.
I get that society puts a big responsibility on men regarding finances but look for someone willing to work to achieve the same dreams as yourself.

The beginning might not ideal but sharing the same dreams means you both work towards the same goal.

For sure dear
She waiting for me to come marry her
But that one na 2023

pedrilo:
Just what I thought.
"You" have always been afraid to look for me. Lol

Nah, you have always been afraid to challenge the expectations set by society. Hence you didn't recognise what has always been in front of you.

How he comports himself and treats others around me is more important than his income level to me

amani63:
For sure dear
She waiting for me to come marry her
But that one na 2023

See, the kind of gal like I described wouldn't be waiting.. She'd be developing herself in the meantime so she can be of value to herself and hence be of value to her future partner too.

If you are waiting to make your first billion and she is working towards making hers in the meantime, when you meet, there will be two billion to work with.

Even if she didn't make hers, she has developed the right skills and experience to maximise yours. And needless to say, if you don't make yours and she has hers, you can start life together and build on what you have at that point.

shaybebaby:

Yup, both.
I'm okay drinking garri (which I love by the way) with my man. But I'll be darned if that is all I can offer my child.
You make the babies together, you both provide for the babies together. If you can't do that yet, no point. However that should not be a hindrance to enjoying being together.
On top, that garri, we will spoon feed each other. If it's mosquitoes biting when there is no electricity, we can make a game of who kills the higher number.

Romance doesn't need to be dead because of a lack of finances.

Lol, i was moved by those bolded lines

Now I get, verily saying that it won't be cool to you if your children rolls in a drum of uncomfort.

shaybebaby:

Define nice ladies.

Girls that call to check on me, do stuffs for me, make me laugh, take me out, good listeners, not always basking on what to get from me...

lol, dude you are quite funny, can you spit out sugar when it's put in your mouth? even if you are the one will you reject a 300k salary job for a 35k own?

When the desirable is not available then the available becomes desirable. No woman will pass up on the chance to marry a guy on a 300k salary for a guy on a 35k own. but in the absence of the availability of this guy then the women lower their expectations.

inbtw, dude it's like u haven't understood that most people no longer marry for love.

Marcelo290:
Girls that call to check on me, do stuffs for me, make me laugh, take me out, good listeners, not always basking on what to get from me...

Then you contradict your initial post of finding these sort of girls only on social media.

So which one is it?

Kekx:


Lol, i was moved by those bolded lines

Now I get, verily saying that it won't be cool to you if your children rolls in a drum of uncomfort.

That's right.

shaybebaby:

Nah, you have always been afraid to challenge the expectations set by society. Hence you didn't recognise what has always been in front of you.

I recognize a smart and fun lady when I come across one. It's in you shaybebaby and I'm a fan already.
Let me get back to work now before I collect query for your matter lol. Cheers

shaybebaby:

See, the kind of gal like I described wouldn't be waiting.. She'd be developing herself in the meantime so she can be of value to herself and hence be of value to her future partner too.

If you are waiting to make your first billion and she is working towards making hers in the meantime, when you meet, there will be two billion to work with.

Even if she didn't make hers, she has developed the right skills and experience to maximise yours. And needless to say, if you don't make yours and she has hers, you can start life together and build on what you have at that point.

what you say is true

pedrilo:
I recognize a smart and fun lady when I come across one. It's in you shaybebaby and I'm a fan already.
Let me get back to work now before I collect query for your matter lol. Cheers

Have a great and productive day.

shaybebaby:

Then you contradict your initial post of finding these sort of girls only on social media.

So which one is it?

I never meant to make generalizations, but finding those kinda girls on the media is very easy than getting them in reality.

On the media, everyone tries to, or at least pretends to be good, not neglecting the fact that there real good ones.

Ighotago? you dig?

shaybebaby:
Any/none of the above.

I require other things not listed in there. Eg, can't be unemployed, must have something doing and he must be dedicated to it as well. Hardworking wherever and whenever the tasks demand it.

So as long as that criteria is met, his income means nothing to me.

I have my own hands, can earn my own money thank you.

I agree with everything you have stated,To me his money is secondary i can make my own money but he should have a vision and passion and be determined,I share those qualities as well as long as i can see that he knows where he is going to and has plans like i do i would date,court or even marry him regardless of his social status.Seriously speaking the money we make together is better than the money he makes alone.

shaybebaby:
That's right.

Lol, alright. Noted.

shaybebaby:

Too bad, I'm taken already.

Aww...and i was looking forward to starting something up with you.

habsydiamond:
I don park for here waiting for the lady to comment...if u pick 300k I go sound u hot ...... complete am ursef

Hahaha

Oxster:


Hahaha

u know see say dem loyal straight..

Marcelo290:
I never meant to make generalizations, but finding those kinda girls on the media is very easy than getting them in reality.

On the media, everyone tries to, or at least pretends to be good, not neglecting the fact that there real good ones.

Ighotago? you dig?

I think that applies to both genders when it comes to social media so I concur.

But as some I knew used to say "discipline is what you are in the dark".

Ladyhippolyta88:
I agree with everything you have stated,To me his money is secondary i can make my own money but he should have a vision and passion and be determined,I share those qualities as well as long as i can see that he knows where he is going to and has plans like i do i would date,court or even marry him regardless of his social status. Seriously speaking the money we make together is better than the money he makes alone.

Words on marble.

A guy that earns 100k in Plateau is richer than his colleague that earns 150k in Lagos. location is Paramount

duchez:

Aww...and i was looking forward to starting something up with you.

Take heart, you may yet find someone even better than you perceive me to be on here.

habsydiamond:
u know see say dem loyal straight..

I trust u nah,,de hot go hot pass hotting hotter

Oxster:



I trust u nah,,de hot go hot pass hotting hotter

yeehpa....I just know say u no go kill me.....

duchez:

Aww...and i was looking forward to starting something up with you.

How some dudes will just come online and embarrass themselves, i don't understand.

habsydiamond:
yeehpa....I just know say u no go kill me.....

Ahhh,,no nah,.ur opinion fine
..gals greedy ehh

Oxster:


Ahhh,,no nah,.ur opinion fine
..gals greedy ehh

dem come dey beat around the bush....

Oxster:


Ahhh,,no nah,.ur opinion fine
..gals greedy ehh

Hello darling, Hiya