lefulefu:
mehn u are good

Lol! it's not me ooo. It's Google.

lefulefu:
mehn u are good

Brotherly.. When you go buy your own Venza

biacan:
Emm wen do you want the tweaking class to start

the twerking class will start after the new year celebration .i heard dat slim babes always make the best twerkers .twisting dem hips like a firedancer .

lefulefu:
the twerking class will start after the new year celebration .i heard dat slim babes always make the best twerkers .twisting dem hips like a firedancer .

See this guy I take style get bodyooo I go knock you down

LadyMarionette:



Lol! it's not me ooo. It's Google.

and i was just about thinking of hiring u as my own private English tutor .chai! Copy and paste babe .

biacan:
See this guy I take style get bodyooo I go knock you down

wich body u get? . U reach mamagee or eniola badmus? .

Jupxter:



Brotherly.. When you go buy your own Venza

i don't want Bini boys to kidnap me for ransome so i won't be the Venza now.if dem kidnap me u go fit pay for my ransome? .

lefulefu:
wich body u get? . U reach mamagee or eniola badmus? .

Nor be by body nah by streanght..... o with the way wey I dey see you.....the kind of you go good to pen for wall


what I'm I saying hmmm

lefulefu:
i don't want Bini boys to kidnap me for ransome so i won't be the Venza now.if dem kidnap me u go fit pay for my ransome? .

Me pay ransome ke?

aBEG o. I'm just a man climbing up the ladder o ! 100Naira here, 50 naira there, make money complete.

No worry, i fit come over carry placard

biacan:
Nor be by body nah by streanght..... o with the way wey I dey see you.....the kind of you go good to pen for wall


what I'm I saying hmmm

hahahahaha ..i gbadu u sha.u are an open minded babe.

lefulefu:
and i was just about thinking of hiring u as my own private English tutor .chai! Copy and paste babe .

Lmao! See what honesty can cause, abeg who pushed me to confess? You can still hire me o, my repertoire includes a smart phone that lets me mooch off its intelligence. Biko, I need money and hope for 2018

lefulefu:
hahahahaha ..i gbadu u sha.u are an open minded babe.

Nor body dey feed me for nairaland so I'm free to air my opinion......... I don't even want to nor what they say about me

Jupxter:





y'all always talking about snitching snitching snitching.....

There should be a rule of no-sex chatting etc. And everything else is cool.. Don't you think ?

even if no sex is involved in the chat,an immature guy can still implicate a lady that sent him a pm.now imagine this scenario...a babe send pm to a guy she fancy here.during their chatting the babe come tell the guy she thinks he's goodlooking.that she loves the shape of his lips and his complexion. ..or dat she believe he might be a good kisser.if na guy wey like attention he will screenshot such chats and upload on nairaland and the rest of the guys here will be screaming olosho! Olosho! Olosho! .

LadyMarionette:



Lmao! See what honesty can cause, abeg who pushed me to confess? You can still hire me o, my repertoire includes a smart phone that lets me mooch off its intelligence. Biko, I need money and hope for 2018

@I need money and hope for 2018, like how much you dey find? Can you hustle for the pay

lefulefu:
even if no sex is involved in the chat,an immature guy can still implicate a lady that sent him a pm.now imagine this scenario...a babe send pm to a guy she fancy here.during their chatting the babe come tell the guy she thinks he's goodlooking.that she loves the shape of his lips and his complexion. ..or dat she believe he might be a good kisser.if na guy wey like attention he will screenshot such chats and upload on nairaland and the rest of the guys here will be screaming olosho! Olosho! Olosho! .

It's childish, it's boils down to fear.

I've done social media dating just once, if iwill ever do it again, once the relationship dey build, one party should deactivate the account. The less popular party should,secondly, it should be taken to physical level,where everything will be in person. But when fear stops this entire process, then we can say fear inhibits intimacy which is why many of we will say it's an excuse.If there's no dirty chats, none of that, i don'tsee if i'm a lady why i wont accept pms. This is my own take on the matter oh ! Na fear and insecurities na him dey cause all these problems. Also, a man that genuinely loves a woman in this mdern age, shouldn't ask for a nude pic, if he wants to see it, he should go see her in person, trust is easily broken that easily gained, even the Bible says,it's easy to wage war againt a town and win, than winning lost trust. May God give us wisdom to make smart decisions sha ! With patience, tolerance, wisdom, we will get it right !


Cc : martin0

Cc: walepackage

Cc: hasbydiamond

Cc: lefulefu

Jupxter:




@I need money and hope for 2018, like how much you dey find? Can you hustle for the pay

I can work for the pay. FI no dey sweet me like real dough. You got vacancy for a hustler? What kinda hustle are we talking?

lefulefu:
victory song

Oh well

lefulefu:
victory song

Oh well

Jupxter:



It's childish, it's boils down to fear.

I've done social media dating just once, if iwill ever do it again, once the relationship dey build, one party should deactivate the account. The less popular party should,secondly, it should be taken to physical level,where everything will be in person. But when fear stops this entire process, then we can say fear inhibits intimacy which is why many of we will say it's an excuse.If there's no dirty chats, none of that, i don'tsee if i'm a lady why i wont accept pms. This is my own take on the matter oh ! Na fear and insecurities na him dey cause all these problems. Also, a man that genuinely loves a woman in this mdern age, shouldn't ask for a nude pic, if he wants to see it, he should go see her in person, trust is easily broken that easily gained, even the Bible says,it's easy to wage war againt a town and win, than winning lost trust. May God give us wisdom to make smart decisions sha ! With patience, tolerance, wisdom, we will get it right !


Cc : martin0

Cc: walepackage

Cc: hasbydiamond

Cc: lefulefu

u have a point but then na the chat screenshots drama dey discourage many of them and dats very common in the romance section.take for example the celebrity section...the ladies there are bolder and i believe its because many of the guys there act maturedly.na for this section many ladies dey get cold feet and u can't blame them.wen the friendship goes south u will see some ppl uploading and pasting someone's home address,family pix and all, cos she sent the pix to u on whatsap wen the goin was good.na wa.

LadyMarionette:



I can work for the pay. FI no dey sweet me like real dough. You got vacancy for a hustler? What kinda hustle are we talking?

Lol, put a lid on your thoughts my dear...


Send me a PM, let's get sweating

lefulefu:
u have a point but then na the chat screenshots drama dey discourage many of them and dats very common in the romance section.take for example the celebrity section...the ladies there are bolder and i believe its because many of the guys there act maturedly.na for this section many ladies dey get cold feet and u can't blame them.wen the friendship goes south u will see some ppl uploading and pasting someone's home address,family pix and all cos she sent the pix to u on whatsap wen the goin was good.na wa.

That exposes the other party to danger o ! Except we want them killed. Some of the ladies actually have enemies oh, especially the ones that are very much vocal. What do we do? Find love in our local area, no be by force to do social media relationships. But then, everything in life comes with its risks and rewards, i believe if a lady's fear is healthy, she should look between what do i stand to gain against what she stands to lose, in between the two is why they can decide if they will reply pms or not. Personally, online relationships isn't easy, i've been there...the hurdles in e-dating is harder because of the challenges and fears that comes with the terrain, even me wey dey talk deactivate account self that one fit no work. Wooo, guy i tire..God go epp us

LadyMarionette:



Lmao! See what honesty can cause, abeg who pushed me to confess? You can still hire me o, my repertoire includes a smart phone that lets me mooch off its intelligence. Biko, I need money and hope for 2018

hahahajahaha

Jupxter:



That exposes the other party to danger o ! Except we want them killed. Some of the ladies actually have enemies oh, especially the ones that are very much vocal. What do we do? Find love in our local area, no be by force to do social media relationships. But then, everything in life comes with its risks and rewards, i believe if a lady's fear is healthy, she should look between what do i stand to gain against what she stands to lose, in between the two is why they can decide if they will reply pms or not. Personally, online relationships isn't easy, i've been there...the hurdles in e-dating is harder because of the challenges and fears that comes with the terrain, even me wey dey talk deactivate account self that one fit no work. Wooo, guy i tire..God go epp us

na so e be ooo

lefulefu:
na so e be ooo

I give up.

Jupxter:



Lol, put a lid on your thoughts my dear...


Send me a PM, let's get sweating

Ha, me and you? Sweating? Systems, I no do again o!

Thanks for the offer though.

LadyMarionette:




Ha, me and you? Sweating? Systems, I no do again o!

Thanks for the offer though.

Hahaha... Whining, no take me serious.

richythePH:


there needn't be laws or rules like that but these ladies should at least show some dignity and not chat dirty or fvck and dick thats sends them a pm


i personally i'm tired of that useless excuse


if they dont do silly things at all or if they're able to discern the sensible to do silly things with there wont be any reason or thing to be exposed

You don't need to chat dirty with people or sleep with them for them to expose you. What about secrets shared between? The thing is, one needs to be careful especially as a lady cos we bear the brunt of any stupid & immature action on the part of the guys more. I don't know about you but friendship means a lot to me. Now, whether it's online or offline friendship, I have this unwritten promise that no matter what, I don't fight dirty. Have never & will not do that. I can't spill your secrets, I can't expose your discussions with me etc. And I expect same courtesy & maturity. I definitely dont blame any lady who says she's sceptical here. I am as well. Cos there are a lot of creeps, freaks, jerks, immature boys and fuckboys around especially on a faceless forum like this. They are usually the ones that kiss and tell. Some don't even "kiss". All they do is TELL.

A lot of us have great friends from here offline. But you won't know. Some things are better left private. Whether you are just friends or dating, some things are better kept private.

Oh and btw, you don't need to judge anyone who does whatever the hell they want to do with their life. Adults have the right to make their own decisions and that includes, sexting, exchanging nudes, sleeping with random boys and girls. Sounds incredible right? But then, that's the person's life. Not yours or anyone's!

MissJoy29:

You don't need to chat dirty with people or sleep with them for them to expose you. What about secrets shared between? The thing is, one needs to be careful especially as a lady cos we bear the brunt of any stupid & immature action on the part of the guys more. I don't know about you but friendship means a lot to me. Now, whether it's online or offline friendship, I have this unwritten promise that no matter what, I don't fight dirty. Have never & will not do that. I can't spill your secrets, I can't expose your discussions with me etc. And I expect same courtesy & maturity. I definitely dont blame any lady who says she's sceptical here. I am as well. Cos there are a lot of creeps, freaks, jerks, immature boys and fuckboys around especially on a faceless forum like this. They are usually the ones that kiss and tell. Some don't even "kiss". All they do is TELL.

A lot of us have great friends from here offline. But you won't know. Some things are better left private. Whether you are just friends or dating, some things are better kept private.

Oh and btw, you don't need to judge anyone who does whatever the hell they want to do with their life. Adults have the right to make their own decisions and that includes, sexting, exchanging nudes, sleeping with random boys and girls. Sounds incredible right? But then, that's the person's life. Not yours or anyone's!

Even real life adventures has its risks...

..I bet my slippers on this fact, there's no one who would date without telling anyone about it. I repeat none, everyone tells at some point, to some extent, by some degree, but then maturity places a demand on utter secrecy of conversations. If things don't go bad, the road would be smooth, it takes a rough turning to actually know whats up. We can't measure people in good times only. We can only know ourselves better when we hit rough patches, that's when humans show color. As for me, i onced stop trusting the entire mankind, but that's locking oneslf into a false existence, let's test the waters, lets experiment, in the process we can know who is for keeps and who is for the dustbin...abi?

Jupxter:




Even real life adventures has its risks...

..I bet my slippers on this fact, there's no one who would date without telling anyone about it. I repeat none, everyone tells at some point, to some extent, by some degree, but then maturity places a demand on utter secrecy of conversations. If things don't go bad, the road would be smooth, it takes a rough turning to actually know whats up. We can't measure people in good times only. We can only know ourselves better when we hit rough patches, that's when humans show color. As for me, i onced stop trusting the entire mankind, but that's locking oneslf into a false existence, let's test the waters, lets experiment, in the process we can know who is for keeps and who is for the dustbin...abi?

It depends on what you tell. Must you tell everything? Like you said, MATURITY places demands on utter secrecy of conversations. That's it right there! That's the part people violate. Nothing is private anymore.

MissJoy29:

It depends on what you tell. Must you tell everything? Like you said, MATURITY places demands on utter secrecy of conversations. That's it right there! That's the part people violate. Nothing is private anymore.

So sad. So so sad !


Must " people ", not me oh... Biko kwa !

richythePH:


okay

so you saying y'all ladies neither send nor accept pms cos y'all are afraid they'd snitch on u when u chat dirty or fvck them right?

You don't eve need to do these things. If someone can kill his conscience to say he caught me prostituting, then I wonder what more can be said if intimacy and secrets are shared.

Jupxter:



So sad. So so sad !


Must " people ", not me oh... Biko kwa !

Lol...ok o.