I met a girl Nkechi in Facebook....I showed my interest in her and she accept my love....I later know that she was a mother of 2 kids....but she lost the senior kid and remain the second one which is a girl of 3 years old....but after explaining about the kids and her age....because our age year is the same but she was 3 months older than me...I still love her and wish to marry her....after some months of chatting together on social media applications....the love have really grown-up that she can't do without calling my number a day...to cut the story short.....she disappeared without saying anything for completely 4 months...during this 4 months....I met a girl Yetunde on Facebook because I thought Nkechi will never come back....Yetunde is really a full grown up girl....in her picture....she looks like 18....not too big....not too slim....very pretty and cool...I told her that I love her and will love to spend the rest of my life with her....after some days of conversation with her about my love with her....she actually accept me and fall in love...it was after that....that I know that she was 15 years of age and still in SSS 3....I was really surprised at her age....because she's really a grown up girl with a lot of beauty in her....she was really begin me to wait for her....because she was still a Virgin and she want to have her first sex on her wedding night and her wedding will be when she graduate from school.....my age is 26....she keeps on and on begin me to wait for her and she was on phone yesterday crying out loud begin me to really wait for her..... Nkechi is of my age and 3 months older than me....she came back online last week and said the reason why she disappeared without saying anything is because she lost her brother and her phone a long the way....she want me to continue the relationship with her.....
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I met Nkechi some months ago and we are into each other....Nkechi is mother of 2 kids but lost one....Nkechi disappeared for more than 4 months without saying anything.... After weeks of waiting for her to come back....I have to move on and I met a girl which is really a beauty and grown up girl....but I later find out that Yetunde is 15 and still in SSS 3.... Yetunde is the religious beliefs girl....she really wants me to wait for her until she graduate from university and no sex before marriage.... Nkechi came back last week....and want the conversation to continue....Nkechi is 3 months older than me....she really wants me to be her man....
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Am currently not ready for marriage because of my current financial situation....my business went bad some months ago and I was trying to get something else doing this coming year....or travel to USA next year to work for 2 years
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So please.....should I wait for Yetunde until she graduate and that will be 4 Years to come....which means Yetunde will be 19 and I will be 30.....or I should go with Nkechi?

Lol...

The Facebook Lover.... Stuck between a recycled and un-recycled...

My honest opinion....go back to secondary school

Darling....
I don't think you are ready for a relationship at all.

let me start from you:

I don't know what seems to be the rush with Nigerian men (No offense) but before considering a serious relationship to anyone, you have to be at a certain level of stability.
Have an apartment, a steady source of income, something more to offer than love. And I'm sorry, but you don't seem to have that. You can't even decide a simple issue of who you're in love with. What do you know about Nkechi? Do you know her full name? Where she lives? What she does for a living? Her parents? How will you claim to be in love with someone and you were not there in her darkest moment (when she lost someone) and you could get so detached that you fell out of love with her and are now crazy about someone else. How many hours do you spend on Facebook?

Nkechi is a single mother. Before considering pursuing anything with her, think of the baby. It is not just I can handle another man's kid. It is, are you comfortable enough to take care of a baby? What do you know about the baby daddy? And his family? Where are you going to live with her? I would like to believe Nkechi is more matured than clubbing and cinemas and right now she's thinking of a home for her and her baby... She needs someone future conscious. How much do you have saved up? Can't it take care of the baby up till at least ss3 in case of an emergency? I am of the opinion that a man that doesn't have enough to take care of my first kid until college is not ready for me. And a woman that doesn't have enough for the second is needs a job not a man. When you're together, you'll figure out how to save for the third.

Yetunde.
Please don't allow anybody hear you say you're in love with a fifteen years old secondary school girl. It doesn't matter how matured she looks, mentally and emotionally, she's still a baby. What makes you see a future with a baby that doesn't even know how beer taste?
What make you think she's going to mature into the woman for you? And you're discussing virginity and sex with her online..
Shame!
Tell her to read her book and forget about man and relationship until she's in college.

And you too... Stop Facebook hook up until you're in the right place to have a family.

Pls it's too early to start some funny folks

Who else doesn't understand this write-up

cummando:
My honest opinion....go back to secondary school

dis is not about secondary school or whatever....need a serious advice....I won't be here if I knew what to do

StrawberryGloss:
Who else doesn't understand this write-up

I don't I swear.

duduade:
Lol...

The Facebook Lover.... Stuck between a recycled and un-recycled...

yeah....it's a Facebook love....but it's really more than that right now....

At 26 you want to go out with a girl of 15? I'll advice you marry Nkechi that's if you are ready to marry

Oyindidi:
At 26 you want to go out with a girl of 15? I'll advice you marry Nkechi that's if you are ready to marry

daylyt:

Na who be this derailer?

Some members said they don't get the point.....
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I met Nkechi some months ago and we are into each other....Nkechi is mother of 2 kids but lost one....Nkechi disappeared for more than 4 months without saying anything.... After weeks of waiting for her to come back....I have to move on and I met a girl which is really a beauty and grown up girl....but I later find out that Yetunde is 15 and still in SSS 3.... Yetunde is the religious beliefs girl....she really wants me to wait for her until she graduate from university and no sex before marriage.... Nkechi came back last week....and want the conversation to continue....
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Am currently not ready for marriage because of my current financial situation....my business went bad some months ago and I was trying to get something else doing this coming year....or travel to USA next year to work for 2 years
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So please.....should I wait for Yetunde until she graduate and that will be 4 Years to come or go back to Nkechi?....

Leave the both of them. Why will you be dating a 15years old girl, are you a paedophile?

Yetunde 18...15...SS3..... yetunde 18....15....SS3...nnkechi goooooo.....Nnkechi go again....nnkechi goooooooooooo.....nnkechi come come back....she come back sotay she no come go again....she come say she one marry me....Op restructure Ur write up pls....

habsydiamond:
Yetunde 18...15...SS3..... yetunde 18....15....SS3...nnkechi goooooo.....Nnkechi go again....nnkechi goooooooooooo.....nnkechi come come back....she come back sotay she no come go again....she come say she one marry me....Op restructure Ur write up pls....

I said she looks like 18 and please don't mind my write up....I do that when I'm nervous about something

Olagokefedrick:
I said she looks like 18

your repetition is too much edit Ur write up na if u re sure u need advice

Confused tale.Wish u well in ur adventure

Oyindidi:
Na who be this derailer?

bro

favourmic:
bro

OK

Is like your pastor said your wife will come from facebook abi.hey the worst thing that can happen to a man is to wait for a girl for sometime nah nah.bro it is possible that you havnt seen any of them.guy write both of them off your mind..and face your financial life.