splenzard:


thanks bro, but she's a cultist like I said earlier, I've tried beating her but it's as good as flogging a dead horse, she's hardened

GoldNiagara:
I am sure you are more confused than you started out. She has committed a crime simple.You will help her by just reporting to the police.She will be made to write an undertaken not to touch her again and then the police can compel her to also leave the house. You can go further by pressing charges, she will be charged to court for assault and battery. Allow her spend at least a week at kirikiri prison, then apply to withdraw the suit. Arrange with the prison officer to make her wash toilet well. She will come out a born again Christian and renounce cultism.

EternalTruth:
that is why she needs prayers

Hashimyussufamao:
I will deal with her for you. Tell her to send her account details together with her BVN.

crankey:
Invite your sister over, let her meet you in the campus. find out what the problem was..........
Don't raise your voice, don't preach, be understanding..... but tell her where she went wrong.....
....try to get her to visit you more...... every now and then take her out.....bond and talk.....make plans together...

She is lonely and desperation is setting in, that is why she is hanging out with the wrong crowd. If you can help her get admission, even if it is a polytechnic... (Bori or PH polytechnic Rumuola should be easy to get in) you will see the difference in no time.....

Hashimyussufamao:
lol, simple stuff how Much u go transfer for me first?

jeff1607:



Bros try and use your head


married men who have daughters with busy schedules nko? so been busy is an excuse not to morally train his daughter abi?


go to secondary schools, you see boys protecting their siblings and preventing them social vices



in some neighborhoods, you can't get too close to some girls because people fear their brothers

the list goes on and on

if you can't protect your siblings who will?

being in school ain't an excuse, so engineering students don't go on holidays abi? even b4 he got admission




when you are the first born protection and guidance comes automatically to u




if brothers did their job we won't ve slay queens

tola4think:
nurturing a child itself requires wisdom,am sure at some point in development of your sister your mum would have noticed her excesses but turned blind eye.your sister didn't wake up one day to become a cultist and start doing drugs,someone gave her the freedom and she abused it

Princeoflimpopo:


nor b if e work first

FluffySucre:


What is it Last time I checked training a child is the job of a parent not the siblings, he should leave school to stay home and do his mother's job. He has his life to live abeg, some people are saying beat her up, what if, God forbid he dies while trying to beat her. He will be in the great beyond seeking this same mother he fought and died for going to do omugwo later...

Teetopz:
ur mail

jeff1607:



I agree that training a child is the parent's responsibility, but when such a parent is no more would you turn away your eye?

this is Africa, parents aren't the only ones who train up a child, the community has a role to play. When one wants to involve himself with a family, he looks at the behavioural patterns of such families, that is why families don't joke with the upbringing of their wards.

what is family to u, if can't risk your life for them.

we do things just to make our loved ones family and you run back to family when all cards are down, now Dats family

FluffySucre:


Op isn't an orphan, Dad is late Mum is alive, it's his mum whom younger sis is Beating. So there is a parent and that's his mum, asking him to come raise hell for not doing her job doesn't make sense. And About family, they re not always those related by blood. My late Dad May He Continue To Rest In Perfect Peace learnt that the hard way too... Quick question, will you tell him same thing if it was his younger brother who beat up his Dad?

jeff1607:



Are u African? what happens to a child when he becomes orphaned?

I never said he should raise hell or use violence there are ways to discipline a child, it's easy for the elder bro to claim n manage parent's properties when they either or meet their demise but looking after siblings is difficult.


about beating one's father if the elder bro can't handle the situation then elders or relatives get involved. I never encouraged violence , hope this answers nsyour question sir but you didn't answer mine

FluffySucre:

am a lady

jeff1607:




like seriously?

jeff1607:




like seriously?

FluffySucre:


Yea

jeff1607:




Darisgod ooooooooo

Ephhay:
Communication is the solution. Op, learn to communicate with her, talk to her calmly, advice her with Love. Don't beat, she is no longer a child please. You are her elder brother try to let her know that you are going to be there for her if she wants to talk, not gra gra and beating. I am sorry she touched your mom, she actually bleeped up.

KushyKush:


Is it me or you really look like someone I've seen somewhere outside Lagos.

Ephhay:
I don't know

KushyKush:

It's from iworoko.

Ephhay:
You probably know me then

KushyKush:

After hours of guessing hard...probably in a bus heading from osekita back to iworoko or social justice hostel

Ephhay:
I didn't stay at iworoko though, but I guess you have probably seen me around Eksu.

KushyKush:

Probably. It's been a long time though. Left Ekiti in 2016.

I stayed at adebayo but have got guys at iworoko.