Jzhane 28/12/2017 Marriage No Comments

Dear Admin,

Please i need your help. Am newly married to a guy i love so much.Our marriage is less than one year.
My husband loves his family but has a lot of respect for his elder brother. In-shut the way he talks about and carry this his matter was a major concern when we were courting. Its as though his elder brother is everything. I thought that was no big deal. So, i didn’t have to worry so much, believing everything will fall into their right places once we get married. But, it like am in a dream world now, as things keep deteriorating right in my eyes.
The major one now that is making me cry out for help, which i cannot no longer tolerate is my husband elder brother’s first visit. He has spent just two days with us, but is fond of always dashing into our matrimonial bed room without knocking, whenever he has just anything to say or ask his brother, not caring if we are naked or even making love. He has done this three times now. I held myself out of respect for my husband the first two times he did it. But on the third time i had to raise my voice after he left the bedroom, so that he could hear me saying that this is our bedroom for God sake and i demand some privacy....Read More

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Fff

Like you've mentioned, issues like this should habe been sorted out while courting.
Now that you're in there, the major thing you need to do first is talk huge sense into your husband. Make him see reason why there should be a limit/boundary.

Immortalz:

Like you've mentioned, issues like this should habe been sorted out while courting.
Now that you're in there, the major thing you need to do first is talk huge sense into your husband. Make him see reason why there should be a limit/boundary.

Didn't you read that the husband takes the brother as all in all?

@poster you use your head.
Lock the room when you guys are in.

Also give him areas to occupy.
Don't just allow him to enter everywhere.

This is how you will do it, always be attentive to him and always be setting the rules.

Don't ask permission from your husband.

Do everything in love and humility.
It's the solution

Dear Poster,
This require wisdom so you don't cause rift between your hubby and brother.
As someone rightly said, lock the door each time you are in your bed room with your husband.
You should have shouted to his hearing.
This is what you ought to have spoken to your hubby in a calm manner.
Just act wisely.

ORAGBON:

Jzhane 28/12/2017 Marriage No Comments

Dear Admin,

Please i need your help. Am newly married to a guy i love so much.Our marriage is less than one year.
My husband loves his family but has a lot of respect for his elder brother. In-shut the way he talks about and carry this his matter was a major concern when we were courting. Its as though his elder brother is everything. I thought that was no big deal. So, i didn’t have to worry so much, believing everything will fall into their right places once we get married. But, it like am in a dream world now, as things keep deteriorating right in my eyes.
The major one now that is making me cry out for help, which i cannot no longer tolerate is my husband elder brother’s first visit. He has spent just two days with us, but is fond of always dashing into our matrimonial bed room without knocking, whenever he has just anything to say or ask his brother, not caring if we are naked or even making love. He has done this three times now. I held myself out of respect for my husband the first two times he did it. But on the third time i had to raise my voice after he left the bedroom, so that he could hear me saying that this is our bedroom for God sake and i demand some privacy....Read More

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The things bloggers write for traffic.
There's no need giving advice to someone not on nairaland

that man wants to see your unclad body, and he derives pleasure in that. Pick up the advice of those above me. ensure that the door is always under lock and key.

Might not be totally correct

Geosystem:
that man wants to see your unclad body, and he derives pleasure in that. Pick up the advice of those above me. ensure that the door is always under lock and key.

Romanic:
Dear Poster,
This require wisdom so you don't cause rift between your hubby and brother.
As someone rightly said, lock the door each time you are in your bed room with your husband.
You should have shouted to his hearing.
This is what you ought to have spoken to your hubby in a calm manner.
Just act wisely.

Thanks, this been told her. We just want to get more opinion's

I concur to your suggestions too.

ekensi01:


Didn't you read that the husband takes the brother as all in all?

@poster you use your head.
Lock the room when you guys are in.

Also give him areas to occupy.
Don't just allow him to enter everywhere.

This is how you will do it, always be attentive to him and always be setting the rules.

Don't ask permission from your husband.

Do everything in love and humility.
It's the solution

ORAGBON:
Might not be totally correct

well you said ' might' . well methink its not normal for someone to just bash into a matrimonial room without knocking on the door , or better yet wait for the husband to come out from the room before you discuss whatever you want to discuss. the behaviour of that so-called brother is uncool and suspicious

But what if it has not done on him yet that his younger brother is married? mind you he is not married yet and might probably still(unconsciously) looking at them as boy friend and gal friend. Just my thut

Geosystem:

well you said ' might' . well methink its not normal for someone to just bash into a matrimonial room without knocking on the door , or better yet wait for the husband to come out from the room before you discuss whatever you want to discuss. the behaviour of that so-called brother is uncool and suspicious

Take charge....

My dear lady.

Hmmmmm!!!

Very dicey.

You need to apply wisdom.

Lock your door anytime you are with your husband.

ORAGBON:
Jzhane 28/12/2017 Marriage No Comments

Dear Admin,

Please i need your help. Am newly married to a guy i love so much.Our marriage is less than one year.
My husband loves his family but has a lot of respect for his elder brother. In-shut the way he talks about and carry this his matter was a major concern when we were courting. Its as though his elder brother is everything. I thought that was no big deal. So, i didn’t have to worry so much, believing everything will fall into their right places once we get married. But, it like am in a dream world now, as things keep deteriorating right in my eyes.
The major one now that is making me cry out for help, which i cannot no longer tolerate is my husband elder brother’s first visit. He has spent just two days with us, but is fond of always dashing into our matrimonial bed room without knocking, whenever he has just anything to say or ask his brother, not caring if we are naked or even making love. He has done this three times now. I held myself out of respect for my husband the first two times he did it. But on the third time i had to raise my voice after he left the bedroom, so that he could hear me saying that this is our bedroom for God sake and i demand some privacy....Read More

http://livelystones.com.ng/handle-husband-elder-brother-excesses/

Apparently he wants to see your unclothedness

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Thats The Problem With All These Elder Brothers That Refuse to Marry...



You Must Have Been Erecting is Dick unknowingly...



When Next He Comes In Unannounced look At His Trouser...


If He Has A Big Dick Just Pull It Out and Help Him With Mouth Action after Chewin ginger...

Nawaoh.......

Some men can very stupid.

The lady should lock her door anytime she is with the husband.

DeadRat:




Thats The Problem With All These Elder Brothers That Refuse to Marry...



You Must Have Been Erecting is Dick unknowingly...



When Next He Comes In Unannounced look At His Trouser...


If He Has A Big Dick Just Pull It Out and Help Him With Mouth Action after Chewin ginger...

What type of nonsense is this ?
Some people just like to look for trouble.
Always lock your door each time you are inside your room with hubby.

ORAGBON:
Jzhane 28/12/2017 Marriage No Comments

Dear Admin,

Please i need your help. Am newly married to a guy i love so much.Our marriage is less than one year.
My husband loves his family but has a lot of respect for his elder brother. In-shut the way he talks about and carry this his matter was a major concern when we were courting. Its as though his elder brother is everything. I thought that was no big deal. So, i didn’t have to worry so much, believing everything will fall into their right places once we get married. But, it like am in a dream world now, as things keep deteriorating right in my eyes.
The major one now that is making me cry out for help, which i cannot no longer tolerate is my husband elder brother’s first visit. He has spent just two days with us, but is fond of always dashing into our matrimonial bed room without knocking, whenever he has just anything to say or ask his brother, not caring if we are naked or even making love. He has done this three times now. I held myself out of respect for my husband the first two times he did it. But on the third time i had to raise my voice after he left the bedroom, so that he could hear me saying that this is our bedroom for God sake and i demand some privacy....Read More

http://livelystones.com.ng/handle-husband-elder-brother-excesses/