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After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by NoLotty7(m): 2:03pm On Jan 03
Hello nairalanders,after four years of training two of your children in the unversity at the same time you discover one day that both of them don't attend classes not to talk more of bringing certificate back home.however,during their first year,they always bring all admission's scripts and slips.you gave them their school fees,feeding allowances,buy clothes and many other items for their comforts throughout the four years.

Less l forget, if any of them is having party celebration e .g birthday,street is full with different busty ladies and flashy guys called themselves as course mates.

Note:they are male and female.second and third in the family of 5 children. If you are one of the parents or the guardians, what will do to them. I heard it one day in a bus. Let us hear you.

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by NoLotty7(m): 2:06pm On Jan 03
cc:Lalasticlala

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by dguizman(m): 2:09pm On Jan 03
there is nothing I can do to them o my bro,just leave them to move around the street.as a parent,u have done your part and that is what they choose to offer their self..but op u are wicked o..you are the OP,you are still the FTC.

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by bujebudanu1(m): 2:24pm On Jan 03
As good parents.u can't leave them to wander about cos u both feel the pains and embarrassment.the best is to keep pushing them.open business for whoever wants it.if name Yankee them wan go.send them there. Dey eye go open one day

If u leave them.they will sell or house.ur car.ur properties wen they need money

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by koolgee(m): 2:29pm On Jan 03


I wouldn't want to conclude on what I would do

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Ruggedfitness: 2:29pm On Jan 03
First, the parents deserve the blame for what is called negligence. Most parents these days give excuses and assume things when training their children. They claim their work is taking a toll on them and they can't provide the necessary attention the child needs.

The ones that provide the attention do it wrong, they don't know that the world has changed and children are easily deluded compared to the past, there are more vices than before and in this world, the only thing that truly exists as fun is immoral things. Most parents neglect these things and say "who want spoil go spoil"...

For me, I don't know what to do because I can't imagine myself in such situation. But I advise the parents to start introducing corrective measures to bring the children to the right path, it will be harder now that they are grown.

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by northvietnam(m): 2:29pm On Jan 03
Buhari why

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by leksmedia: 2:29pm On Jan 03
I will blame the parents. This is the height of bad parenting, So your child is studying in a University for 4 years and you don't think its important to visit the child at School. You didnt care to ask for their result, or receipt for every payment, even after seeing receipt, you should even verify.

here are things every responsible parent should do
1. Visit your in school at least 4 times a year
2. Pay surprise visits on weekends
3. Have their time table so you can easily predict where they are having lectures and pay them a visit during lecture (though I wont advise you go in to look for them, It can be embarassing)
4. Have people that can help you monitor them , be careful you are not putting them in wrong hands
5. Have someone old and responsible like a fatherly or motherly figure they can be accountable to, this has its own disadvantage too, you just
6. Call them often especially at night, you can easily track whether they are in or out
7. Be friendly with your children, give them some flexibility to express themselves

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by castrol180(m): 2:29pm On Jan 03
This is fantasy of the highest order.

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Emeskhalifa(m): 2:29pm On Jan 03
Eyyaaaa look wat village winch av done to those boys.

Sir, wen was the last time u pay tithe to ur pastor??

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Treasure1919(f): 2:29pm On Jan 03
We should join u in discussing a question u were not asked to answer? Op stay on your lane oooo

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by gabazin080(m): 2:30pm On Jan 03
AH they want to be like buhari, we heard he is educated but no certificate to prove it.


if am their father that means they have collected their inheritance

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Ayodejioak(m): 2:30pm On Jan 03
grin

It chills my blood to hear people tell their life stories like these and still lie in the end. OP, you Did not hear it in any bus. These are your kids, admit it. Han Han, Mr lion angry

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by falconey(m): 2:30pm On Jan 03
Not surprised, the country is poo!

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Ayoswit(f): 2:30pm On Jan 03
It is not a good idea to leave them to their Fate. I have seen a family where such a thing happened, only for their uncle to confess of being the one responsible. This may not be the case all the time, so its good we should apply wisdom in handling such problem.

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Kelly2713(m): 2:31pm On Jan 03
let me sit down here and read comments

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by chloroform: 2:31pm On Jan 03
i will just wake up to reality that it's not real, and you only heard the story on the bus.
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by MrOjay1(m): 2:31pm On Jan 03
shocked




Those children are the real MVP


They recognised on time that education was no longer the key but just a key.


They should be commended for their bravery,for they are following the footsteps of Mark Zuckerberg.


Education is no big deal.


Fvck education!


Go and hustle for the money then come back and buy all the degrees you want.

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Abbycite(m): 2:31pm On Jan 03
I think this is a true life story of the op.........judging by the english ;DI think this is a true life story of the op.........judging by the english

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by johnime: 2:31pm On Jan 03
na wa o.
Na to leave them to God. They will learn from life.
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Dottore: 2:31pm On Jan 03
The trumpet of their village witches is in middle pitch. They had better stand firm and fight the battle before the trumpet blows louder
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Badonasty(m): 2:31pm On Jan 03
NoLotty7:
Hello nairalanders,after four years of training two of your children in the unversity at the same time you discover one day that both of them don't attend classes not to talk more of bringing certificate back home.however,during their first year,they always bring all admission's scripts and slips.you gave them their school fees,feeding allowances,buy clothes and many other items for their comforts throughout the four years.

Less l forget, if any of them is having party celebration e .g birthday,street is full with different busty ladies and flashy guys called themselves as course mates.

Note:they are male and female.second and third in the family of 5 children. If you are one of the parents or the guardians, what will do to them. I heard it one day in a bus. Let us hear you.


Use them as sacrifice to ogun

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by free2ryhme: 2:31pm On Jan 03
NoLotty7:
Hello nairalanders,after four years of training two of your children in the unversity at the same time you discover one day that both of them don't attend classes not to talk more of bringing certificate back home.however,during their first year,they always bring all admission's scripts and slips.you gave them their school fees,feeding allowances,buy clothes and many other items for their comforts throughout the four years.

Less l forget, if any of them is having party celebration e .g birthday,street is full with different busty ladies and flashy guys called themselves as course mates.

Note:they are male and female.second and third in the family of 5 children. If you are one of the parents or the guardians, what will do to them. I heard it one day in a bus. Let us hear you.


disown them
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by hakeem4(m): 2:31pm On Jan 03
The only thing those children can be useful for is to be used as bad examples to their siblings

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by joenor(m): 2:32pm On Jan 03
I'm sure they both have a plan, just leave them a lone. God know you have tried.

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by chaarly(m): 2:32pm On Jan 03

For if the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do? (Psalm 11:3)
As a parent or guardian, this is heartbreaking! but the parents/guardian are to be blamed! what did the bible say. . . Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
coming home with a 3rd class or even a pass is even better than coming home with no certificate at all. As a parent, if you have this type of children, then you have failed as a parent.
let me be frank with you (o na frank ke'onye) the only solution is 21days fasting and repentance, then maybe God will have mercy
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Moreoffaith(m): 2:32pm On Jan 03
awon omo were.
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by joepentwo(m): 2:32pm On Jan 03
I no gt answer o grin mk i start to pray nw so that God co see me tro

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by majekdom2: 2:32pm On Jan 03
Leave them alone. You have done your part!

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Tolbanks(f): 2:32pm On Jan 03
Hmmmm! This is serious ooo...

Trace their bad shits to their background...

There's something that must have gone wrong there!

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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by ipobarecriminals: 2:33pm On Jan 03
sad they probably gain admission. thru OLUWOLE. and got flushed out after 4 yrs..Most university. dey do dat well.

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