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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by delishpot: 3:39pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
NoLotty7: Na to take them go psychiatric hospital go check their brain. After that, na to do midnight prayer for dem. On the other hand, had they told you that they were tired of school, would you have accepted it? They prolly had to keep collecting in order to keep the scam undetected. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Nobody: 3:40pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
leksmedia: Bro, am a student and i know some student all your Formula won't work with. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Kezmanp(m): 3:42pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Add salt to dere lives |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Sterope(f): 3:44pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Yes, it seems like it but then they may be fighting their personal demons and were prolly too chicken to come out to me. I will like to give it one more try to satisfy myself that at least I fought for them. ednut1: |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
It's not their fault. Many children just can't cope with the bad standard of the Nigerian education system . Lots of people who I heard had failed here go abroad to do well spectacularly. many put in efforts and work harder than most but still fail because their capacity isn't suited for this environment. your best option is to sit them down and talk, ask why they think they didn't do well and what they think would be the next thing to do. My suggestion, find ways to send the ones still interested in schooling abroad. Trust me a lot of brilliant individuals are been wasted here. Not everyone has the ability to memorize like they do in most University here. 1 Like |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Snow02: 4:02pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
MrOjay1:I don't totally agree but you have a point here |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by bigpicture001: 4:33pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Ruggedfitness:... |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
NoLotty7:Na to go learn trade. No need to shout or flog because the money is gone. Just send them to learn trade and start life from there that is all |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by MhizzAJ(f): 4:55pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
bigpicture001:Best comment i've read so far on this thread Highest the parents can do is just to give that child a second chance... |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by dingbang(m): 5:16pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Slap |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by sisisioge: 5:31pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Na to give them extra one year to decide how they wish to serve their country after which they are to leave my house for good. We aren't gonna be fighting o, they just need to start supporting themselves ni, a feat I have prepared them for for 5years! Awon omooshi. BTW, that one year latitude is like grace for them to restrategize. I no come Lagos come count brifge! |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by mechanics(m): 5:55pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Eyah, it's a common practice in the higher instituting, we call them NFA- No Future Ambition, what you need to do is to keep praying for them to change, you can't disown them nor abandon your responsibilities to them. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Abdul3391(m): 6:11pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
bujebudanu1:them no behave for na naija na Yankee u wan send them go |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Ghostmode2two(m): 6:31pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
abdeiz: You think that would solve the problem? |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Josephamstrong1(m): 6:47pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Use them as burnt offering or send them go Libya. I swear dem go learn. Truth is they're now bone in the neck. Call them on a family meeting. Tell them you want to settle dem as school no come work out. Ask them what they would want to do outside school...cos school is now outta the picture. When they've decided, go ahead and tell them that you're selling their inheritance to establish them and the remaining properties are for other three. Watch their reactions and take it up from there. If you don't do anything to establish your kids, hmmm... That a pending tsunami. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Nobody: 6:53pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by bujebudanu1(m): 7:03pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Abdul3391: Wen dem no see free money and free food chop .dem go behave very well |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by abdeiz(m): 7:15pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Ghostmode2two:Yes..it worked for me |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by trustworthy1(f): 8:26pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
How genuine is the admission in to the university? I know of someone that got a fake admission in one federal university. The girl discovered it was a fake admission in her final year which means no certificate for her even though her gp was 2.1 as of them. The girl had to start all over again in another state university. she is in final year now. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Henricarter(m): 8:34pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
This type of children would be selling your properties daily and if you not careful they would sell you join inside your house one day, am talking out of experience |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Ghostmode2two(m): 8:34pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
abdeiz:ok |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Yhemit(m): 8:35pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
mechanics: they're plenty in federal univ'. free accommodation for them to survive for years on campus halls. #second chance is cool. some factors - 1 - protest leaders (suspension ish) 2 - bad results in a course (carry over and not been able to pay on time) 3 - lecturers (victimisation of students) 4 - peer groups (smokers, stabbing classes, clubbing....) 5 - missing registers (attendances ) 6 - group work / project 7 - poor grades 8 - lack of information (info about test/exams time) some people missed exams why reading in my school library before. 9 - no getting motivated (your folks) 10 - manipulation during admission processing. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Ghostmode2two(m): 8:40pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
NubiLove: I am waiting for your next advert on vagina reduction. Those women who have sampled different sizes of cassavas that always complain of their partners small size should start taking medications for the reduction in size of their kpekus. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by amnotapervert(m): 9:17pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
northvietnam:what does buhari have to do with this now haba |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by frankson1(m): 9:32pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
[quote author=leksmedia post=63857303]I will blame the parents. This is the height of bad parenting, So your child is studying in a University for 4 years and you don't think its important to visit the child at School. You didnt care to ask for their result, or receipt for every payment, even after seeing receipt, you should even verify. here are things every responsible parent should do 1. Visit your in school at least 4 times a year 2. Pay surprise visits on weekends 3. Have their time table so you can easily predict where they are having lectures and pay them a visit during lecture (though I wont advise you go in to look for them, It can be embarassing) 4. Have people that can help you monitor them , be careful you are not putting them in wrong hands 5. Have someone old and responsible like a fatherly or motherly figure they can be accountable to, this has its own disadvantage too, you just 6. Call them often especially at night, you can easily track whether they are in or out 7. Be friendly with your children, give them some flexibility to express themselves [/quote All these in the UNIVERSITY? Anyways, even if parents tried, those kids would have still covered their tracks. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by sirxbit(m): 9:38pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
leksmedia:For university? Continue |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by olumidazz: 9:48pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
The ones that came home with certificates what did they do with it. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Abdul3391(m): 10:22pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
bujebudanu1:u think so |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by bewacharlie(m): 11:18pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
leksmedia:so , u want my parent to come and check me for school 4times a yr, every weekend visit, ekiti-maiduguri , thats not a point bro |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by prinzfavian(m): 11:41pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
I would mind my business, amebo is nor good. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by lilmax(m): 11:52pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Ruggedfitness:lol....at 20 you still responsible for your child being responsible? guy go sit down we choose our paths at last, either good or bad, we will always face the consequences |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by bujebudanu1(m): 11:53pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Abdul3391: I have one elder bro like that. Nigga was omo jaiyejaiye.e no gree go uni.my p man come send am jand.this nigga is responsible now |
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