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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by excelsiorfarm(m): 2:43pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
NoLotty7:God forbid that one experience such, the adage says a parent cannot give the child to a lion to kill. Simply mean have to re adjust, what is it they want to really do with their lives? I had seen someone rusticated in part 3 coming back to start at hundred level, go through the process to 500 level & graduate with certificate, now doing okay abroad. I had seen someone graduate with bad certificate in quote & when parent got discouraged I only encourage to send him abroad & now has a masters, also doing fine here in Nigeria. The question is do you just give money without checking their habits, if so, the parents should re adjust. They can still be bent now before they become a reproach totally. May God help us, i had seen many cases turn around, even the one in final year NDA that was expelled. Is not enough to give cash, when you observe a child act or behave reckless, monitor such better. Remember to bring them to the knowledge of God. Fear of God is the difference. Jesus is Lord 2 Likes |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by tete7000(m): 2:44pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
How e tey concern me? Na me born dem? I dey mind my business o. Got enough wahala of my own. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by bujebudanu1(m): 2:44pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Kzdguru: I have the best parents in the world but My parents didn't for ones come to my school for good 5yrs. 1 Like |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by bedspread: 2:44pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
FAMILY NEEDS DELIVERANCE..... WHATS THE SOURCE OF THE MONEY USED IN TRAINING THOSE KIDS 1 Like |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Monjerk: 2:45pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
dguizman: This is likely to be true as I have seen similar thing although it was just one person. Same thing happen to my very close pal's girl friend back then in school, this girl was advice to withdraw from school due to poor grade in two hundred level, but the girl continue to stay in school for two more years without doing anything and graduated with her mate without result. I and my friend went to their department with a letter from the girl's parent to confirm what they told the parent and they were able to open her file for us to see copy of the withdrawal letter but they refuse to give us, when my friend confronted the girl, she deny at first but latter admitted. Just too painful, may God never give us such children. 1 Like |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by homesteady(m): 2:45pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Ruggedfitness: 2:46pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
homesteady: Parenting is all about taking responsibility of a child and when you are responsible for something, every fault that the thing has become your fault. That is what responsibility means. or are you saying that parents aren't responsible for their kids. Also about feedback system, a true parent who is responsible for their kids will know how the child behaves normally and foresee possible anomalies if the child is sent to a school far away, so he will put someone there to watch over him. There was a guy in the army watching over me while I was in school and reporting to my father. So don't tell me about feedback system. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by bigpicture001: 2:47pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Ruggedfitness:....ur quick to blame my guy...for u,hw mny times did ur parents visit u in skl tru your 4 years in skl..y didn't u become a brat.y did u graduate with cert.lemme tell u,they are adult. that's what they prefer,uv done yours as parents. even dou it's painful to parents. they shld b left to face d consequences. nonsense children |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Starboywrites(m): 2:47pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
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Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by adeabimbola700(m): 2:47pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
NoLotty7: Egbon where you dey Go and where You dey come from.... You think this write up or you watch am for Yoruba movie.... This thing dey happen for your family or your neighbor's family..... am not getting this.... � |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by chaarly(m): 2:48pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
leksmedia: my bro. . let's use ourselves as a case study. . not all these write ups to promote websites and blogs. pikin wey im mama and papa train well no fit go school go cast. . if at all e cast, at least he go come back with 3rd class or pass. but at all all my brother, this wan no be winch ooo na bad parenting since childhood. shikena |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by tunary(m): 2:48pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
this one no be ordinary problem |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Ruggedfitness: 2:49pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
bigpicture001: My father only visited once, but he made sure he put in place someone from the army to watch my movements, he also made sure I made friends with a lecturer and give him the lecturers number so that he can communicate with him anything he wants. So, bro that is what I call watching over a child, so I blame the parents |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by dguizman(m): 2:49pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Monjerk:amen |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by leksmedia: 2:50pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
yea we are saying the same thing, The parents didnt do a good job chaarly: |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by umuna(m): 2:50pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
NoLotty7: my dprnt 5 years |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by NoLotty7(m): 2:51pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Ayodejioak:ogbeni,l never marry o,l'm just an SSCE Holder.And besides,here is a public forum that anybody can drop a topic either it's affecting him/her or find it educative for everybody to air their view.NOTE:most of the questions l post here don't affect me in life. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by leksmedia: 2:52pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Drop your contact or chat me up on whatsapp Starboywrites: |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by femi4: 2:54pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
NoLotty7:The parent is at fault, nothing stop them from visiting the school without informing them or seeing the course coordinators of his children |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by chaarly(m): 2:58pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
leksmedia: yes oo brotherly. but that part of visiting the child or tracking/monitoring them. . . no be by those ones o Bros. to be honest, how many times did your parents visit u in school? dem no visit me o well. . on this other side, I will keep on saying this to parents. . don't rush your children in universities especially federal unis. allow them mature well before dem enter school. . so many teenagers in unis now adays dun cast finish. 1 Like |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Sterope(f): 3:04pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
No surprise visits? No academic discourse? |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by NoLotty7(m): 3:06pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Abbycite:MR JUDGE,it may surprise you for me to say this,"l have never cross a university's gate before".l'm an SSCE Holder but very brilliant Boy,Time-keeper(primary school),Time-keeper(SS1-2),Senior Prefect(SS2-3) in a school with a population of 250 candidates seat for WAEC during my time. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Nobody: 3:08pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Freethought: No it will teach them a lesson in accountability and appreciating the sacrifice of others! |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Sterope(f): 3:09pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
I would not advice disowning such a child. There is room for one more opportunity. ednut1: |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
There's one thing for certain There's a reason U might choose to overlook buh there's a reason |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by ensamy(m): 3:12pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
We use to call them NAS ie non academic students. Most of them say they can't go home after dropping out of thier courses , some are there because thier girl freinds got admission, some are jambites that couldn't secure admissions so refused to go back home etc, until when thier so called classmates graduates, then they also graduate themselves after 4 years. Then in the process of waiting for NYSC at home all kinds of stories will come up how some lecturers are victimising them and don't want them to graduate. FIN 1 Like |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by octopusfreaky(f): 3:15pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Parents are to be blame, pay attention to the dumbest thing your child does. If your child turns out wayward when he grows there are traces he must have shown or displayed at childhood. Some parents will overlook demm and say " Omode lo shei won, e fi won so le". Parenting is very hard, it takes a lot of patience, perseverance, love, attention and care. God help all the upcoming parents. 1 Like |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by akinszz: 3:15pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Ghostmode2two:but a child in your care that fails to follow ur instruction, how would such child be able to make it abroad with no guardian? 1 Like |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by loomer: 3:21pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
leksmedia: All these one u dey talk na story. Na primary sch wey u expect to ask for result? To dey go visit at will. Even with your visit, na the thing wey pikin want you to see you go see. 1 Like |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Starboywrites(m): 3:24pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
leksmedia: 07034802789 on whatsapp. |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by Unbeliever(m): 3:35pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Freethought:You are a wise man |
Re: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by ednut1(m): 3:38pm On Jan 03, 2018 |
Sterope:tell me more, a child that deceives his parents for 4 years does not deserve anoda opportunity na |
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