lefulefu:
Its her way of telling u she doesn't find u sexually attractive

taylor88:
She's taking it huge somewhere else

Purebeerry:
What if she is testing you or maybe she needs time before jumping into bed with you.

There is no rush in life you know .

elantraceey:



That's not always true lefu

lefulefu:
well for a lady that's a virgin that might be understandable .See, there are some ladies that have multiple boyfriend...so in order for some not to feel so sexually lose they will be giving it to the main boyfriend while in the case of the side boyfriends they practice the no sex relationship.its all game and the girl that's sharp is good in it..or like i said earlier it could she loves the guy's personality but don't find him sexually attractive.u know it might the guy's self esteem if such a lady were telling him she can't have sex with him cos she don't find him sexually attractive.that will be somehow na. A lovely cold morning to u.hope u had a sweet new year celebration?

RadicallyBlunt:
I feel great with it. If she's someone I want to marry, its even me who will tell her that its a sex-free relatnshp before she thinks of saying it. A woman you want to marry, you don't sleep with her anyhow until youve married her. Even in marriage it shdnt be a rush, else the sizzle will fizzle and the sexual excitement will fade out too soon...then d temptation for having another adventurous variety outside marriage comes in. Thats why a couple would sleep two weeks on same bed and wont have sex especially about middle age...the agility has come down, children are grown up...the same couple that behaved as if they can't survive without sex when they were younger.

If an unmarried guy keeps sleeping with his gf too often, abt a month after wedding, he'll start getting irritated out of sexual familiarity and fading out. It takes discipline to keep to the same set of breasts and vagina throughout life.

elantraceey:


There are ladies like that but not all and by the way a lady doesn't necessarily need to be attracted to a guy to have sex with him, if a lady wants a no sex relationship then first you should ask if her reasons why and not just jump into such conclusions.

Morning to you too, I sure did though I fell quite ill but a lot better now, I believe you're good?

RadicallyBlunt:
I feel great with it. If she's someone I want to marry, its even me who will tell her that its a sex-free relatnshp before she thinks of saying it. A woman you want to marry, you don't sleep with her anyhow until youve married her. Even in marriage it shdnt be a rush, else the sizzle will fizzle and the sexual excitement will fade out too soon...then d temptation for having another adventurous variety outside marriage comes in. Thats why a couple would sleep two weeks on same bed and wont have sex especially about middle age...the agility has come down, children are grown up...the same couple that behaved as if they can't survive without sex when they were younger.

If an unmarried guy keeps sleeping with his gf too often, abt a month after wedding, he'll start getting irritated out of sexual familiarity and fading out. It takes discipline to keep to the same set of breasts and vagina throughout life.

greiboy:
All well and good,

Since we are looking after our futures here, I will simply also demand for " no spending relationship"

So that I can also save enough money for my future

lefulefu:
well if she says no sex in the relationship i am not going to force her and neither Will i ask her why.. E no be my business na.oh sure i am good....d hamathan no be here ooo .

RadicallyBlunt:
I feel great with it. If she's someone I want to marry, its even me who will tell her that its a sex-free relatnshp before she thinks of saying it. A woman you want to marry, you don't sleep with her anyhow until youve married her. Even in marriage it shdnt be a rush, else the sizzle will fizzle and the sexual excitement will fade out too soon...then d temptation for having another adventurous variety outside marriage comes in. Thats why a couple would sleep two weeks on same bed and wont have sex especially about middle age...the agility has come down, children are grown up...the same couple that behaved as if they can't survive without sex when they were younger.

If an unmarried guy keeps sleeping with his gf too often, abt a month after wedding, he'll start getting irritated out of sexual familiarity and fading out. It takes discipline to keep to the same set of breasts and vagina throughout life.

Purebeerry:
What if she is testing you or maybe she needs time before jumping into bed with you.

There is no rush in life you know .

elantraceey:


Lol, if you really like her and you're interested in sex then it's something you both need to talk about na and come to a compromise .... Na everywhere o, thank God for the short holiday sha, enough sleeping things

ubunja:
if i dont fvck a girl within 3 days of getting to know her i lose interest.
if i wanted a relationship without sex i would date a virgin.

VERDA:


While you made some very valid points,I think your analysis is wrong in some aspects,life is not black and white,a relationship that will loose its spark in marriage will do if the couples don't understand how keep things going whether they stay in a sex free relationship for 10 years before marriage,its all in the mind and our ability to understand and mantain the right perspective pertaining relationships and marriage,the origanl reason a no sex relationship was encouraged(besides the religious reason),was so that both couples would see and learn to appreciate the deeper person....sex is a powerful force and has a way of clouding judgment and blinding us to certain things,those that have risen beyond the strong control of sex and understand what a relationship should be about would maintain a lovely relationship long after marriage whether or not sex was frequent pre marriage....I have often pondered at the logic behind the whole "if you sleep with her now,what will be left after marriage or if she keeps seeing you and cooking and funny stuffs like that,what would be left after marriage"...Once two people who claim to love each other enter into a relationship FOR THE RIGHT REASONS...with a heart open to learning and growing in knowledge and understanding about life,love and relationships,they can withstand every storm. My oponion tho....Sorry for my long epitsle.

Maychang:


How would you know she is a virgin?

Maychang:


How would you know she is a virgin?

EOOJ:
long but cool...