Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

First tip; make sure she's not getting it elsewhere.

Why do I feel like she's about to scam and deceive you

Should we tell him?

Nna Mehn...

she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.

On grounds say she be virgin or wetin?
Tips kee, well the first tip be say make sure she be virgin to avoid premium tears .

Second Tip, Change is constant and so is konji. E go hard to tell pesin wey don dey chop before say make eno chop again.

well, you can wait for our resident Pastor for third tip on this.

ALL TIPS IS USELESS IF YOU ARE
1 REGULAR COSTUMER
2 LACK SELF CONTROL
3 HYPERACTIVE
4 NOVIRGIN
5 LUST

I'll advise you to repent and give your life to Christ. Ask God to reveal this woman to you. Allow God to lead you.

Any secret she's hiding, if you have a relationship with God, God will reveal it to you.

It takes the grace of God, discipline and commitment to avoid fornication.

Don't do it because of her, do it because of you and your soul.

Whenever I hear a no sex relationship, I smell scam.

Like a lady said, You need to unmask the identity of this "virtuous woman".

Good luck. You gonna need it.

There is no relation between Sex and pious with God...Both are entirely different...

Sexual relationship with your spouse is not an immoral act...Out of your spouse is immoral..
But since you and your partner agreed on it here you go...:
Fill your mind with edifying thoughts

Read the Bible often..

Do things God's way according to the Bible..

Limit how much you talk about sex if at all you do..

Avoid thinking about sex as much as possible for it is all around in people's words..flirtations..clothing styles..and actions..in the media and entertainment..books and periodicals..
Note: these are tips suitable for persons who believes in abstaining from sex till marriage(those points are deeply related to the Christian faith..)..

Arrrrrrrrrh

Really?

Everyday I come hear to see wonders..

'No sex before marriage' is an act, a discipline and boundaries setting... It's not some thing you just conclude out of the blue moon. You have to understand that this is a decision along with an act guilded by discipline and finalized by setting boundaries.

Your desperation for marriage shall become your undoing if you don't take time.

alphaNomega:
Should we tell him?

No Comrade. Let him face the outcome for he's about to be scammed

Take lots of cold showers

No tips.
Just put the tip, thats all hahahahahahah..

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I can only agree to a no sex before marriage if she's a verified virgin if not I'm out

I will recommend you to wait till you get married to her.

She may be a virgin or not but don't judge her based on her past..

Keep the faith in her,plan the future together,talk to her about financial responsibilities both of you will share when you eventually get married and finally pray together for Gods intervention.

You will definitely have sex with her as much as you want it once you guys get married.

Don't lose focus,Stay Focused!!.

God will surely see you through brother.

What of if she is getting it elsewhere. I don't understand these "no sex before marriage" people. No sex, no problem, but you still go ahead to knack another person

It's honestly not really a big deal as long as both parties are sincere & not getting it elsewhere.

It would force you to be more creative on dates, teach self control, etc etc

Sex would die off a few years into marriage.
It's exciting but not the most important part of it

Scam

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

Then wait
Must you Bleep??

If you walk up to a suya stand, you must taste the suya being grilled so you won't end up being served Grilled Vulture.

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To avoid being scammed, you must do the needful.
That is how one Vulture Griller has been deceiving us on this platform under the guise of fake patriotism but he is a hardcore APC loyalist.
For those of us who knows him and his antics, he can't scam us any longer.

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I don't really have anything to tell you. Maybe you should listen to the guys above and below me.

Op!! Please you don't need this kind of girls. Most of them are repented oloshos. It is when u marry her and sex with her you will know that her puss.y is as wide as river Niger by then it is too late.

No sex nah

Ok. If you don't know your sexual compatibility now, you'll see shege during your marriage.
No use "no sex" gamble with your peace of mind.
Sex is the ultimate. Don't mind whatever anyone tells you cos they won't be there to help you when sexual incompatibility comes up in your marriage.

gadgetplanetng:
It's honestly not really a big deal

It's a very big deal. When you're not compatible sexually, you'll no longer find each other attractive. Love, care and affection dwindles. Trust becomes nonexistent. The house becomes cold. Only time you become chatty is when you're in the midst of other people. You insult and fight everyday (daily entertainment for your street people). You become less focused at work. You start eating outside. You start admiring the waiter that serves you everyday.
Your wife finds comfort in your neighbor who will be penising her in time.

ALL BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T DO WHAT IT DO BEFORE YOU GOT MARRIED.

There are no tips to share to you. Just tell her that there will be no spending till after marriage. Case closed!

Unless she’s still a virgin, many men will have a problem with that. Sexual compatibility is a big issue in marriages, you see the complaints on nairaland all the time

No transfer till after wedding night....besides ask her if she is still a virgin

Another simp, about to be scammed by one daughter of eve.

You better straf her ASAP.

That's how one girl told my guy same thing back then, not knowing she was knacking other guys, then we set her up as she hasn't met one of our guys before, he added her up on fb, chatted n met in an hotel, just after taking pepper soup with yoghurt, the rest na history as he insisted dey take pics while on bed, though not naked but just for our guy to confirm.

On getting home, he showed him all evidence, my guy cried uncontrollably and that was when I knew what's called "PREMIUM TEARS". LOL.