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10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 2:23pm On Jan 09, 2018
I had a vision that these Year will be full of Marriages. That's why I've come to assist People on Romance Forum with few articles.
Nevertheless, there are many Reasons why African Guys double-date. But, here's Ten Major Reasons why African Guys Double-date:
1. HEART-BREAK.
This is the Number 1 reason. How would you expect a guy to feel when someone/people he loves eventually & willfully breaks his Heart many times? Guys who double-date because of this reason bear in mind the adage "don't keep your Eggs in one Basket." Knowing that if he double-dates; when one breaks his Heart, the other amends it. So Ladies, stop giving Guys Broken Hearts.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 2:32pm On Jan 09, 2018
2. EMOTIONAL ABUSE.
They(Ladies) say it doesn't matter but truely, it matters. Emotional Abuse is the worst you could ever lay on guys. When you humilate, ignore, yell at your guy/guys. For instance, constantly calling guys "Broke Guys." That depression creates a deep wound in their hearts. The guys will be tempted to double-date, just to keep up with other ladies that will make them feel happy. So Ladies, try to tolerate their/his situation & find a lasting solution to it.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Elparaiso(m): 2:40pm On Jan 09, 2018
Drnice:

1. HEART-BREAK.
This is the Number 1 reason. How would you expect a guy to feel when someone/people he loves eventually & willfully breaks his Heart many times? Guys who double-date because of this reason bear in mind the adage "don't keep your Eggs in one Basket." Knowing that if he double-dates; when one breaks his Heart, the other amends it. So Ladies, stop giving Guys Broken Hearts.

So by breaking their hearts, he's safeguarding his? No excuse for cheating abeg.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 2:40pm On Jan 09, 2018
3. FEMINISM.
When you claim to have equal right, power, opportunities as to your guys. Ladies, when you try to practice Feminism in your Relationship, it could push your guy/guys away to other ladies to reach his goals. Even the Bible mentioned of "Wives be Subject to your Husbands," it didn't say ".. be Equal to your Husbands." So Ladies, if you want to keep your guy/guys to yourselves alone, then keep Feminism out of your Relationships.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 2:48pm On Jan 09, 2018
4. HEREDITARY.
The adage "like Father, like Son." When the Father is that type that goes after things in skirts, both little & old. At the same time, the(his) Son/Sons looking up to become like their Father, it's then passed from Father to Son/Sons. or when guys look up to Public Figures & tend to behave(imitate) like them. You hear of BabyMamas, the guy will also give way to double-dating. So Ladies, always watch out the type of guys you go for & their family background.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 2:56pm On Jan 09, 2018
5. THE NORM.
This part is more to the Rich Kids. When you as a lady is confronted by your Parents/Family/Friends to stick to your standard(rich-to-rich, poor-to-poor, educated-to-educated, unskilled-to-unskilled, etc). Meanwhile, you are so much in love with him & because of the Norm he gets away to other ladies. So Ladies, try adjust your standard of dates.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 3:04pm On Jan 09, 2018
6. TEMPTATION(SEDUCTION).
Mostly 85% of guys are tempted through seduction(including Men of God & myself). You as a lady, you expose your guy to Clubs, Loose-Girlfriends, Visitations; when you know you have no (sexual/attractive) qualities compared to other ladies(in clubs, vistations, etc) you expose him to. In return, he goes after those ladies behind your back. So Ladies, be sensitive enough to correct such mistakes if or when made.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 3:10pm On Jan 09, 2018
7. REVOLUTION.
When ladies actively chase & revolve from one guy to the other. Guys hate Ladies who act such, hence they termed ladies as "Sex Instrument." Guys are pushed to double_date if when they've feelings that their ladies are revolving in relationships. So Ladies, who fall into this category should please stick to one guy provided the guy is faithful to her.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 3:18pm On Jan 09, 2018
8. DOMINATING.
Most ladies have that urge of dominating over the guys. You try to be incharge, maybe because you have more wealth than him or you have his secret than yours to him. When guys notice that you have that idea of dominating over them, they'll pretend to be loyal to you whilst they date other ladies including dating your best/close friend. So Ladies, leave it up to tge guys to be incharge but let your opinion count too.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 3:26pm On Jan 09, 2018
9. DISHONESTY.
Ladies, if you are not trusted by your guy/guys; then your relationships with them/him is at stake. Ladies who lie, cheat, defraud their guys are 100% likely to give out their to other serious ladies. Later, you call it "betrayal." lady, you betrayed yourself not him nor your female friends who betrayed you. Don't go for his wealth, first build your love with trust & see him offer the things you need. So Ladies, try to be honest atleast 80% in Honesty.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 3:41pm On Jan 09, 2018
10. CHANGE.
Every human is adaptative to change. Change here means when guys move from one Place/Country to another. They are filled up with illusion, that the ladies they left are somewhat not valuable anymore. They intend to mingle with other Ladies in Places/Countries they travel to. Remember the adage "Out of Sight, is Out of Mind." So Ladies, to avoid this from happenin. Try as much to reach your guys/guy on phone(maybe thrice a week), as this might replace such illusion. Or if possible, ask to travel to with him(but, 98% of guys won't agree to this option).

N.B: Please drop your Contributions & Questions below. Yours is highly appreciated.
Courtesy: Drnice.
cc: mods, farano, seun, lalasticlala, rocktation.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Drnice: 4:03pm On Jan 09, 2018
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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Sirheny007(m): 4:34pm On Jan 09, 2018
Let me tell you...
African guys double date for the same reason you mix egusi and vegetable soup at the restaurant.
Shikena.
grin grin

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by veekid(m): 4:35pm On Jan 09, 2018
sarrki:
They are dogs

which breed is your father?

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by donstan18: 4:35pm On Jan 09, 2018
The only thing that can stop a cheat from cheating is DEATH.

Any other piece of writeup or epistle will be seen as trash and garbages until proven right.

Ten reasons kor, ten commandment ni

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by ebujany(m): 4:35pm On Jan 09, 2018
Meanwhile

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Spaxon(f): 4:35pm On Jan 09, 2018
spreads mat......

Tunde did u buy enuff popcorn

I'M JUST HERE TO READ COMMENTS grin grin grin

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Nobody: 4:36pm On Jan 09, 2018
undecided


A relationship without a side chick is like a Government without opposition (not advisable)


-Alexistaiwo (2018)

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by binsanni(m): 4:36pm On Jan 09, 2018
mitchew double waiting

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Draei: 4:36pm On Jan 09, 2018
Well, for guys who double date,
This ain't for me, next thread plz!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Nobody: 4:37pm On Jan 09, 2018
if ladies cant eat eguisi for 4 straight nights how are we the men folks suppose to bleep the same babe for a long time..

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by YINKS89(m): 4:37pm On Jan 09, 2018
Ok
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Sirheny007(m): 4:37pm On Jan 09, 2018
binsanni:
75372297AD

Your JAMB REG No??

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by sarrki(m): 4:37pm On Jan 09, 2018
They are dogs

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by hoygift(m): 4:37pm On Jan 09, 2018
Hh
Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Sirheny007(m): 4:38pm On Jan 09, 2018
sarrki:
They are dogs
Wetin you find come romance section

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by LastSurvivor11: 4:38pm On Jan 09, 2018
Op dey talk about double date while some of us dey quadDATE..

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Hotshawarma(m): 4:38pm On Jan 09, 2018
sarrki:
They are dogs
which breed are the males in your family because im sure one of them double dated before or still doing it...

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jan 09, 2018
First of all, what's a double date?

Google it!

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Lovetinz(m): 4:39pm On Jan 09, 2018
GREED!
A guy I met told me the correct reason:
If you have 1million naira in your pocket
and you found 1hundred thousand on the street, will you pick it or not?
There it is- Temptation and Greed.

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Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by Aristotle96(m): 4:40pm On Jan 09, 2018
Hotshawarma:
which breed are the males in your family because im sure one of them double dated before or still doing it...
I guess "nkita" breed grin

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