I feel so bad, it has gotten to a point that I've thought about Suicide, I'm just fed up of this life as nothing is working for me since mid last year.
I realise that when you're broke your so call friends will desert you, for weeks I've been finding it difficult to sleep, I need someone to tell me everything is going to be fine. I'm sad.

Send me a mail let's discuss this.

joseboy199:
Send me a mail let's discuss this.

Alright Sir, I've sent it

Hmm, many here are in situations that worst than yours. How do you want someone that graduated like 2years ago and never saw where to work to get small money to feel. Thank God in any situation you find yourself.

Strikethem:
Hmm, many here are in situations that worst than yours. How do you want someone that graduated like 2years ago and never saw where to work to get small money to feel. Thank God in any situation you find yourself.

Hummm, Thanks
Thank God

Bro keep thanking God and praising him for the gift of life.. he knows what u re passing through, sometimes it's just to make us stronger ..

If u take a look at the Bible even Job, Joseph, Daniel and other anointed men of God at a point in their life went through pains and God knows but it's just for different reasons .. even Jesus Christ went through pains ....

AkinolaST:
I feel so bad, it has gotten to a point that I've thought about Suicide, I'm just fed up of this life as nothing is working for me since mid last year.
I realise that when you're broke your so call friends will desert you, for weeks I've been finding it difficult to sleep, I need someone to tell me everything is going to be fine. I'm sad.

You even have fone , you even have internet to chat

U de complain

You even have light to charge ur thuraya fone


Just believe God u wud smile

Don't fold ur hands , meet people , cos if u stay inside your house , u nor go see work

before You think you are in the worst situation?
Think of people who are in jail with little or no hope of freedom, And think of those in the hospital clinging to life.

AkinolaST:
I feel so bad, it has gotten to a point that I've thought about Suicide, I'm just fed up of this life as nothing is working for me since mid last year.
I realise that when you're broke your so call friends will desert you, for weeks I've been finding it difficult to sleep, I need someone to tell me everything is going to be fine. I'm sad.

You are only human and it's natural to feel sad and depressed if it seems you are the only one God forgot.
Fact is there is nothing like friends. Friendship only works for pre adolescents that have no responsibilities.
Even you would move away from someone not at par with you. Most of the people you associate with when in school were students like you and not some apprentice artisan. artisanship is great by the way.
Having stated the obvious reality, the best revenge for those that have looked down on you is to be successful. Try to be prayerful, keep a very low profile, try to acquire a skill that is high in demand and diligently work towards achieving your goal.
Noticing other people's progress is an unnecessary distraction. Stay away from those that make you feel inadequate or self conscious as some people try to validate to themselves that they are doing good by making others look bad in comparison to themselves.
It's very important you look for a service that is in constant demand and acquire the skills necessary to render it. paper qualifications is no guarantee these days. There are thousands of graduates being turned out but there is no new industry to accommodate them, instead they are folding up.
You could also try agriculture. I just read the thread on the front page of a lady that successfully raised 51 broilers. since you have free time on your hands, you could give it a try and get free knowledge from willing members always eager to volunteer valuable information.
You don't know how fortunate you are to be literate, own a phone with data and be a member of this forum. many are networking and getting life changing business ideas and connections.
It all depends what each person chose to do with their free time and opportunity.
If you think life is difficult and contemplate suicide, you don't want to know what misery is for eternity. imagine being dead and feeling miserable and useless in an uncertain place, the only difference is that you can't commit suicide to eescape that uncertainty while you could still make it while alive .
I sincerely wish you the best and pray things work out better for you.

Finally I can smile, thanks for the words of encouragement

AkinolaST:
I feel so bad, it has gotten to a point that I've thought about Suicide, I'm just fed up of this life as nothing is working for me since mid last year.
I realise that when you're broke your so call friends will desert you, for weeks I've been finding it difficult to sleep, I need someone to tell me everything is going to be fine. I'm sad.

my bro if i tel u wat i pass through, u wld tank God for ur situation

AkinolaST:
Finally I can smile, thanks for the words of encouragement

You'll be fine.

Suicide is not the way out, it's not even an option. Okay?
Sometimes, when you hear other stories, you'll be grateful about yours, take care.

Everything will be fine

maybe you don't have a dream that wouldn't let you sleep.

AkinolaST:
I feel so bad, it has gotten to a point that I've thought about Suicide, I'm just fed up of this life as nothing is working for me since mid last year.
I realise that when you're broke your so call friends will desert you, for weeks I've been finding it difficult to sleep, I need someone to tell me everything is going to be fine. I'm sad.

Suicide my friend is NOT the answer...Juz remember that the life is like a wheel sha. Sometimes ur down below but soon u will reach the top too.

Remember, even rich ppol feels lonely as well.. They are even more have time to trust others, they are scared being used that's why most of them isolate themselves from their so called friends too...

Money is NOT always the answer to ur problem.

AkinolaST:
I feel so bad, it has gotten to a point that I've thought about Suicide, I'm just fed up of this life as nothing is working for me since mid last year.
I realise that when you're broke your so call friends will desert you, for weeks I've been finding it difficult to sleep, I need someone to tell me everything is going to be fine. I'm sad.

Brokenness and betrayal happens. Usually together. Don't let it get to you. It's not very easy. But trust me you'll be more than fine.

Nigerians don't believe in depression, but I tell u it's real... With the current economic situation, I have met people complaining bitterly about life and stuffs that echoes depression. But let's still strive and hope because when there's life there's hope. I have been there op.

Henrodah:
Nigerians don't believe in depression, but I tell u it's real... With the current economic situation, I have met people complaining bitterly about life and stuffs that echoes depression. But let's still strive and hope because when there's life there's hope. I have been there op.

Depression is real. Suicide is real. Mental health shouldn’t be a closed door topic anymore.

chiddyok:

Brokenness and betrayal happens. Usually together. Don't let it get to you. It's not very easy. But trust me you'll be more than fine.

Strong Words. Thanks

my dear pls be encouraged..life will never be fair unless God intervene..thank God for the gift of life,you are far better than many,pls never give up, the sun is gonna shine, kindly DM me lets talk, remain bless

Dimples129:
Everything will be fine

WinningSun:
maybe you don't have a dream that wouldn't let you sleep.

Thanks

showstopperss:
my dear pls be encouraged..life will never be fair unless God intervene..thank God for the gift of life,you are far better than many,pls never give up, the sun is gonna shine, kindly DM me lets talk, remain bless

I've done that

i have three quotes for you.
when the journey gets tough only the tough gets going.
There is light at the end of a tunnel.
when there is life there is hope.

AkinolaST:
I feel so bad, it has gotten to a point that I've thought about Suicide, I'm just fed up of this life as nothing is working for me since mid last year.
I realise that when you're broke your so call friends will desert you, for weeks I've been finding it difficult to sleep, I need someone to tell me everything is going to be fine. I'm sad.

Bro come closer, no closer,-------

I said closer, you are still far off------

slap-slap. You need slaps

People have been in worse off situations and came out of it.

Everything is going to be fine. As long as you can eat at least once a day, you will survive. Drink lots of water like 3 litres daily, it will fill you up so you don't get hungry often.

Now you can use those legs to move the streets and search for something.

AkinolaST:
I feel so bad, it has gotten to a point that I've thought about Suicide, I'm just fed up of this life as nothing is working for me since mid last year.
I realise that when you're broke your so call friends will desert you, for weeks I've been finding it difficult to sleep, I need someone to tell me everything is going to be fine. I'm sad.

akin my dad and mum are still alive, but my sister and I live like we are orphans; I graduated last year and my sister is in her year one now. I realized that at the end of the tunnel you are surely going to see the light;but that is if you are ready to take up responsibilities, then opportunities shall come your way.

AkinolaST:
I feel so bad, it has gotten to a point that I've thought about Suicide, I'm just fed up of this life as nothing is working for me since mid last year.
I realise that when you're broke your so call friends will desert you, for weeks I've been finding it difficult to sleep, I need someone to tell me everything is going to be fine. I'm sad.

since the beginning of this year I have been going through the same thing.


the thing is frustrating and annoying so I understand okay.

you need help, know one can, except you help yourself okay, suicide is not an idea plz take the thought out of your mind.

you need to step out, and also know that you're not the only one going through such, okay, I wish you luck.

AkinolaST:
I feel so bad, it has gotten to a point that I've thought about Suicide, I'm just fed up of this life as nothing is working for me since mid last year.
I realise that when you're broke your so call friends will desert you, for weeks I've been finding it difficult to sleep, I need someone to tell me everything is going to be fine. I'm sad.

send mail make we discuss... your case isn't impossible

Have seen worst in life.but because I refused to be intimidated, I didn't give up..now I give God thee glory.

AkinolaST:
I feel so bad, it has gotten to a point that I've thought about Suicide, I'm just fed up of this life as nothing is working for me since mid last year.
I realise that when you're broke your so call friends will desert you, for weeks I've been finding it difficult to sleep, I need someone to tell me everything is going to be fine. I'm sad.

Suicide is never an option.

I'd like to share some words from the scriptures with you.

1 Samuel 30 1- 6.

And it came to pass, when David and his men were come to Ziklag on the third day, that the Amalekites had invaded the south, and Ziklag, and smitten Ziklag, and burned it with fire;

2 And had taken the women captives, that were therein: they slew not any, either great or small, but carried them away, and went on their way.

3 So David and his men came to the city, and, behold, it was burned with fire; and their wives, and their sons, and their daughters, were taken captives.

4 Then David and the people that were with him lifted up their voice and wept, until they had no more power to weep.

5 And David's two wives were taken captives, Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, and Abigail the wifeof Nabal the Carmelite.

6 And David was greatly distressed; for the people spakeof stoning him, because the soulof all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: but David encouraged himself in the Lord his God.

If you read through the story you'd see how David went about achieving victory. Life may have have battered you down but like David you can encourage yourself in God. Dont be discouraged, never give up. Things may be stormy now but believe me it can't rain forever. Read Psalms 34: 4-6. Pray, be positive and work towards your goals.

Life is beautiful. This is just a learning curve. An experience you must go through to be the person God wants you to be. I'm looking forward to celebrating your success story.

Die nah..... and the struggle continues!!!

Suicide? If that will make you happy, you should do it. I can help you get some drugs, if you don't mind.









The things you take for granted someone else is praying for. You're here talking trash because you have no money.

AkinolaST:
I feel so bad, it has gotten to a point that I've thought about Suicide, I'm just fed up of this life as nothing is working for me since mid last year.
I realise that when you're broke your so call friends will desert you, for weeks I've been finding it difficult to sleep, I need someone to tell me everything is going to be fine. I'm sad.

I understand you .not only in the 9ja but most parts of the world its difficult to get jobs after school. I was very much depressed after I graduated with no job for four years (I compensated my myself by doing MSC during that period sponsored by my dad ) .

it was hell.

Can someone say unemployment is more serious than sickness

Please don't think about suicide .
If it be try and change location and don't look down on menial jobs