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For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Daniel2289(m): 6:38pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Simple ways to initiate sex like a boss And get what you want every single time In a previous opinion poll, we tried to understand how women asked for sex and of course, the result further shows that women aren’t as open or direct while asking for sex as men. A big percentage of women who voted in the poll – 60% - say they can only drop hints here and there and hope that the men won’t miss the cue to give ‘it’ to them. This attitude to sex can’t really be faulted as women have always been taught to subdue their sexuality and rein in such tendencies. A 24-year-old female Pulse reader says in anonymity that: “That's how most of us were programmed to be. “Everything in our upbringing programs us to be shy [and timid] to demand for sex.” But then, if it's what you want, you should always try and reach for it, right? Here are steps to initiating sex and getting it every single time: 1. YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE CERTAIN. There is a chance that he’ll say no. And there’s also the chance that he’ll go with the flow. Actually, it’s more likely that he will do the latter. Guys hardly say no to sex, and all you need do is make that move. You’ll be surprised that it’s not as difficult as it seems. 2. LET GO Whether it’s shyness, traditional beliefs, worry or fear of being curved or called a hoe, you need to let go. Of course you don’t want to appear too thirsty and all that, so you might want to stick with dropping those subtle hints here and there, but by all means, if you want it go for it. Go ahead and shoot your shot. [Provided he’s not married, engaged or in a relationship with another.] 3. DON'T BE TOO VAGUE Ok. While it may be difficult to demand for sex in clear terms, you still can’t afford to be too unclear. You’ll end up frustrated. This is because guys don’t want to read your mind or figure out difficult riddles because of knacks. Just say what you want or let your hints be as clear as possible so they don’t get lost on them. Especially in this age where rape and sexual assault are being spoken against ever so loudly, guys are being extra cautious. So if you really want to get it, you might need to actually ask for it. 4. DON'T STOP AT INITIATING So after he gets the hint and he agrees to it, you know it doesn't end there right? You need to carry that same energy into the act. You can't begin it and fizzle out midway through. No, babe. It does not work that way. Make the sex worthwhile, you need to make it bang. 1 Share
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Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Twoclans(f): 6:52pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Daniel2289 I like been open to learning, but please I have a question. Are this steps for a guy I am already in a relationship with or for a guy I am crushing/loveing up on? I need this information because I am trying to give lefulefu signals but the guy is not getting it. Maybe he thinks my ukwu is flat. Lefulefu oya come and see the step I will use on you. |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Authoreety: 6:55pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
U need to make it bang! Gbam! Sex is sweeter wen ur gal initiates it From xpirience 1 Like |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Daniel2289(m): 6:57pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Twoclans:Funny u. U are back with ur questions again. I will go for a guy u are in a relationship with. |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Twoclans(f): 7:12pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Daniel2289: LOL, yeah your points will work in a relationship . Let me go back to the drawing board on lefulefu's case . |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Nobody: 7:14pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
*Pen and paper at the ready* Was that it |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Daniel2289(m): 7:15pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Twoclans:OK na. Where is Lefulefu self. |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Authoreety:Not when you are tired as in very tired from work.. |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Twoclans(f): 7:25pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Daniel2289(m): 7:38pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Twoclans:Ok oooooh. |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Twoclans:iyam about reading the steps one by one. But hey a girl don't need to do much when she wants to give a guy the signal. Just a little she does and the guy will code. |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Daniel2289(m): 7:41pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
lefulefu: |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Twoclans:i like u.u seem nice characterwise and u hardly get into any drama or unnecessary fight in here but i never see ur pix na. |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Daniel2289(m): 7:45pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
lefulefu:No be lie. Twoclans where are u? |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Twoclans(f): 7:46pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
lefulefu: I send you things offline and you don't even check I like you more than you can imagine Lets run away from daniel2289's thread before we derail it for him. Sorry OP it's not in my character. 1 Like |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Twoclans(f): 7:49pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Daniel2289: Present sir |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Daniel2289(m): 7:50pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
If u say so. Ok oooh. [quotes author=Twoclans post=64647702] I send you things offline and you don't even check I like you more than you can imagine Lets run away from daniel2289's thread before we derail it for him. Sorry OP it's not in my character. [/quote |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Daniel2289:nice points. A girl really don't need to put much effort if she wants to initiate sex.she don't even need to voice it to her man.all she need do is just wear a semi transparent nightgown if its in the evening...sit on her guy's knee and twirl herself around her guy's lap with her bumbum and voila! The guy will be on the top gear. As for that number 2...no sane guy will ever refer to his girlfriend or fiancee as a hoe cos she's sexually free with him. In short nothing more would a guy wish for than to have a lady that enjoys sex as much as he does. Ladies should feel sexually comfortable with their man. |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by MrMystrO(m): 7:55pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Hmmm Lovely... i wish my girl could do this more often |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Twoclans:oya wait lemme carry u and run away with u from OP's thread. |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Daniel2289(m): 7:58pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
lefulefu:Niceeeeeeeeee!!! True talk. 1 Like |
Re: For Women---- Simple Ways To Initiate Sex Like A Boss by Daniel2289(m): 7:59pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
MrMystrO:Find a way to show her this topic. It may help. |
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