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Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by menaxe: 5:56pm On Apr 19, 2010 |
Dear palz,, Blieve me!! I have been actin a gentleman 4 d past 1yr.Since she startd actin in strange wayz,, She abusez and insultz any öne no matter how big! I guess she took ma gentleness as weakness, cos Each time she uses those abusive wordz i alwayz say thank u 2 her,bt d more i do this the more she getz worse wt her disparage, I hv 2 slap her kos it wz too much, Nd hav since apologized 2 her nd her friendz who wanted ma head 4 supper, "She said it ws over". But life kontinuez,"one door closez another openz" i found nu love dt sameday,,were i ws smokin n drinkin ma life out kos of da incident., |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by MissyB1(m): 6:13pm On Apr 19, 2010 |
menaxe:Course mates think I'm not aiight 'cause I'm staring at ma screen and Laughing. You've made ma day, Dude. Rotfl!! MUGU!!!! I can imagine the kinda Girl she is. You should be singing ''Good riddance to ma untrained abusive Ghetto Girlfriend''. |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by stz(m): 10:18pm On Apr 19, 2010 |
SA Goddess:SA i dont grind ladies. Ladies' place is submission and respect. Oh yes the guy fd up but there are better ways of expressing ur anger instead of calling a matured dude idiotic names. On the other hand, the bloke should av ignored the fowl mouthed chik, that would av shown hw mature he is. In cases like these, maturity has a very huge roll to play. |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by na2day2(m): 10:39pm On Apr 19, 2010 |
menaxe: so where is she now, i did like to slap her too! |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by platinumnk(f): 10:44pm On Apr 19, 2010 |
if my bf slaps me? Call the Morgue to collect their new occupant |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by na2day2(m): 10:59pm On Apr 19, 2010 |
platinumnk: NA-2-DAY! |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by madlady(f): 11:02pm On Apr 19, 2010 |
^^If it's you then I would set my brothers on you. |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by platinumnk(f): 11:09pm On Apr 19, 2010 |
na2day?:na u sabi! |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by Dondav(m): 11:22pm On Apr 19, 2010 |
Slap!? My g/f !? U've got to be kidding me. |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by na2day2(m): 12:01am On Apr 20, 2010 |
madlady: girl plzzzzzz! ur sissy brothers? i will use one leg to beat them plump! |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by bluespice(f): 12:38am On Apr 20, 2010 |
why am i not surprised at the drivel so many people have posted here? anyway, hitting anyone is wrong but i will not fault the girl for hitting you back. She called you names, what ever happened to sticks and stones? kids shouldn't be in relationships |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by ssumpta(f): 1:56am On Apr 20, 2010 |
Poster. I find it hard to sympathise with you, even though i stand for mutual respect in rels. Her name calling is disrespectful, but wat might be aggravating her? There's def another side to this story. And drinking and smoking? u ve got a lot of bad habits. U both need time to cool off. And do a lot of talking afterwards. Get a neutral 3rd party to mediate. |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by babygirl22(f): 2:02am On Apr 20, 2010 |
had an ex who slapped me after d slap he dint no wat hit i gave it back to him and kicked him outta my flat wtf my dad hardly hits me and one boy not even a husband wld now raise his miserable hand to slap me |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by bluespice(f): 2:38am On Apr 20, 2010 |
babygirl22:case closed |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by na2day2(m): 3:48am On Apr 20, 2010 |
babygirl22: poor guy, if i was the one i wud have reslapped u only harder so that u will know the difference then i will walk out of ur yeye flat |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by Pweety4me(f): 3:53am On Apr 20, 2010 |
A hand will now become a wrist! |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by selena(f): 5:48am On Apr 20, 2010 |
Slap the hell out of him too. |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by chiogo(f): 5:59am On Apr 20, 2010 |
Same thing the girl did. Tell her I said "Well done". |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
stz: feminity is humble, kind, tolerance, understanding and above all PATient. Ladies of nowadays have allowed the so called jet age to spoil everything. I am against any guy who hits ladies but sometimes these ladies forget there place. My advice is any lady that behaves wild should be treated like a wild animal, maybe it will help train their manner of reaction toward issues. As for the guyz, bros make una work on una ability to ignore even in anger. Two wrongs never make a right Femininity is what?? You must be living under a huge rock in gayland! Women are the most devious, scheming, slimy, manipulative, back-handed, back-stabbing-motherfuckers. They are simply first-class. If you make the mistake of not seeing one as another player on the table; as someone with interests and motivations but instead as some beautiful, harmless, innocuous lamb - you will be ridden mercilessly! My brother, women are not the paragon of elegance we were taught they are. If you want to win in this relationship game (yes, I said WIN!), you have to match their ruthlessness and cunning. . .and then surpass it. In kid's parlance, "Only a Ninja can kill a Ninja!" @ Topic Sometimes, words can have greater weight/effect than a corresponding action. As Cardinal De Retz once said, "It is even more damaging for a minister to say foolish things than to do them". I don't subscribe to using physical force against women (except when you're trying to dispossess one of her virginity . Lol, I once read a very hilarious post here on NL where a guy giving 'Disvirgining Instructions' to some other guy said, "Pin her on the bed and make sure she cannot escape! " The best way to treat an orally abusive female is to walk away - forever and ever (although I have on occasion been known to make a few girls cry by attacking the chink in their armour with a few choice words ). However, depending on the situation, I could treat you as a fellow combatant if am physically attacked. Rules of engagement. |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by missagbaa(f): 2:45pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
If ma boyfriend slaps me,am going to walk out of d relationship nd out of his life. My reasons are 1).nobody wants to b used as a punching bag.once he does it d 1st time,he will start doing it all d time. 2).i see men who hit ladies as weaklings.u dont hav to beat a lady to prove u r a man nd d head of d relationship.there r many ways to tell a lady'u shouldnt hav said dat or done dat witout hitting' eg. Wen i say a lot of things to ma boyfriend"power of d tongue",he leaves me,wont pick ma calls etc till i ask 4 4giveness.it makes me put ma tongue in check wen i want to say sumthing bad to him if i remember he's gonna avoid me for day.so poster u got it all wrong slappin her |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by SALady(f): 3:00pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
aaaaah @Missy B wants to buy her a drink, eeeehhh make that two I'll pay for the second. |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by bluespice(f): 3:22pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
Richfella:will you marry me? |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by jalether(m): 3:23pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
pro01: Even though I partly agree with your assertion, however, one of the main qualities of a real man is the spirit of self control in other words ability to control ones anger to avoid physical violence. let's use Chris and Rihanna's case as an illustration here, the incident has cost Chris several endorsemnet deals, loss of fans worldwide and most significantly dainted his image (indefinitely) he will hardly ever be looked at in a positive light again especially by unforgiving music fans. now Imagine if he had addressed the situation differently that night in the car. all these costs would have been avoided my example may not particularly fit the context of this discussion as the poster is not a celebrity but my point is self control is always the best form of action in such situations especially in a society that looks down upon women beaters and quite rightly so. |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by brutal(m): 3:26pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
poster--if u slap her hard,she no go get energy 2 retaliate. |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by martin1(m): 3:46pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
u no sabi slap . . |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by amyg(f): 7:14pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
U guys r wasting ur talents.d u no dts all it takes 2 produce a naija movie&still b a mega star? |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
bluespice: Lol, depends dear. What are you bringing to the table. . .battle? WWIII? More seriously, what are your dress measurements. . . and the diameter of your ring finger? Me [i]is [/i]gonna buy you a huge, sparkling stone for your [i]utiful [/i]fingers . I know you wouldn't mind though, there's already a long list, cos I'll get to you in 2013 @ the rate of 10 virgins a week. I am building me a golden Imperial Harem guarded by fierce warrior-eunuchs. You [i]is [/i]gonna love it . Warning: Potential harem [i]stock [/i]will be fed to the lions if seal is broken . |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by agathamari(f): 7:43pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
if my man lays a hand on me he better kill me with the first blow, i will beat the tar out of anyone who strikes me or ill die trying |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by baybbootz(f): 8:32pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
lwkmd, Am so loving ur chick.did she break ur head?? But you hav not told us what you did to warrant the calling of names.? |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by na2day2(m): 8:36pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
agathamari: i guess i will be at ur funeral |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by Girl846(f): 10:44pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
I will too shocked to speak or react. I will probably just walk away crying. The relationship will never be same. |
Re: 4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction? by rawswagga(m): 11:31pm On Apr 20, 2010 |
Men I tink both of u hav been seeing each oda too often.bkos to me she does nt regard u a bit,even if u hit(am nt sayin is rit)bt even if u do if she has regards for u she will work out gently nd won't pick yo calls for days till u crawl begging.let us al learn too much of seeing in a relationship makes it worhtless at a point.at 1st it will make it look strong bt later it will make each oda to loos d regards.man if I was d one I will take d slaps bkos I called for it.bet me in her mind she is happy she gave a higher percentage of retaliation.but it was nt wise of her.well that's a piece of ur trecheary act. |
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