Richfella:

Femininity is what?? You must be living under a huge rock in gayland!

Women are the most devious, scheming, slimy, manipulative, back-handed, back-stabbing-motherfuckers. They are simply first-class. If you make the mistake of not seeing one as another player on the table; as someone with interests and motivations but instead as some beautiful, harmless, innocuous lamb - you will be ridden mercilessly! My brother, women are not the paragon of elegance we were taught they are.

If you want to win in this relationship game (yes, I said WIN!), you have to match their ruthlessness and cunning. . .and then surpass it. In kid's parlance, "Only a Ninja can kill a Ninja!"


@ Topic
Sometimes, words can have greater weight/effect than a corresponding action. As Cardinal De Retz once said, "It is even more damaging for a minister to  say foolish things than to do them".

I don't subscribe to using physical force against women (except when you're trying to dispossess one of her virginity . Lol, I once read a very hilarious post here on NL where a guy giving 'Disvirgining Instructions' to some other guy said, "Pin her on the bed and make sure she cannot escape! "

The best way to treat an orally abusive female is to walk away - forever and ever (although I have on occasion been known to make a few girls cry by attacking the chink in their armour with a few choice words ). However, depending on the situation, I could treat you as a fellow combatant if am physically attacked. Rules of engagement.

Guy, I can tell you're a fellow R.G (i.e. Robert Greene) disciple. I'm loving you already. Lol. Nice. Your post deserves a Pulitzer prize.

@ Jalether,

the concept of 'real man' is nebulous and subjective, just like most other subjective judgments. How do you define that? So Aremu General Olusegun Obasanjo (for instance), a serial woman batterer is not a 'real' man? Common'. I've never 'touched' a girl my whole life; but thats because a girl has never insulted and tongue-lashed me to my face. Any girl that is gutter, idiotic, moronic, untrained and senseless enough to call her boyfriend/husband names should be treated as the animal that she is. I would never call her names; if she does that to me then I cannot guarantee that I'll be a 'gentleman'. I repay good with better, and bad with WORSE. Maturity doesn't mean i'll tolerate rubbish from from ill-mannered dog. A 'lady' earns respect by her dignified behaviour, not from the mere, inconsequential fact of her feminity. Fullstop.

I wouldn't even wait to dust the sand off my feet on my way OUT!!

pro01:

Guy, I can tell you're a fellow R.G (i.e. Robert Greene) disciple. I'm loving you already. Lol. Nice. Your post deserves a Pulitzer prize.

Pro01 my brother, I've been your fan for a long, long time. Most times when I login, I first check on you, tai2 (my man) and a couple of other guys. Lol, am presently enjoying how Harakiri [/b]is responding to his withdrawal phase. He'll be fine.

You know, TRUTH, [b]effective [/i]truth is very seductive. God used that Robert Greene guy to point lots of people in the right direction. Timeless unfailing principles. That guy is just masterful.

I have The 48 Laws of Power, The 33 Strategies of War and the one on Seduction and I've read them so many times. I first read The 48 Laws Of Power in my Year One; it was so good I had to steal it (my first steal actually, and I've stolen twice - both justifiable ). Have you read [i]The 50th Law? I look forward to getting it soon.

As it stands, I cannot but literally rule the world. I doff my hat to guys like you who are in the know.

Which make go raise im hand beat woman sef . . . . .there are better wayz of punishin those pets without lifting a finger.

No justification 4 a Man hittin a Woman. even worse when she's just yo Girlfriend. . lyk are u maaaaaad?

however, ladies cn hve bad mouth and Men are only humans. words they say hve more emotional effects than actions so da ladies really need to watch their mouths n wat they say or face wateva they get

[size=14pt]U slap ya babe and u expekt make we clap for u? U lucky sef say she no burst ya head, KPAS!!!![/size]

that's my girl!!deserves a standing ovation for not giving her hands to washermen! i will do the same and walk out of d relationship! if you come back begging, i will reconsider and accept you back if you are a first offender, but if there is a repeat, i will walk out for life!!

I know me - I'll call him a S.O.B and go to the bathroom and cry my eyes out.

If i were the girl's elder brother, I'll commend her for what she did. Then she'll lead me back to you. When i see you, i go start my own. Man-to-Man. After beating you silly, i go dig your head inside one drum of water. I'll warn ya to neva eva lay a finger on my sis again cuz if u do, I'll lay your a.s.s out

shilling:

I know me - I'll call him a S.O.B and go to the bathroom and cry my eyes out.

so S.O.B means son of a beauty?

na2day?:

so S.O.B means son of a beauty?

Of course, what else could it mean haha

Why dont you both grow up? Did your school teacher tell you to keep your hand to yourself? A beg let anyone touch me, me and that person go enter same trousers.

U even proud dey talkin say u slap ur gfrnd? One of d signs of maturity is d ability 2 control ones anger

U even proud dey talkin say u slap ur gfrnd? One of d signs of maturity is d ability 2 control ones anger

shilling:

Of course, what else could it mean haha

just checking, making sure we are on the same page

@ - Poster, It is not nice to slap your gurlfrend no matter her offence.

For me, if my guy slap me, I will tell him "thank you" and BYEEEEEEEEE!

@ O.P chei! Yu don suffer!

@ topic
Ehn! d hand he slapz me wiv had beta stick to ma face o!. . .else! 'll dip it into hot soup!

Hitting a lady isn't the best option to correct her, but u DID! So it's now the worst option and u're never gonna be commended 4 your action. The same thing goes to the lady in question. U both just acted like kids.

Will never react

@poster; U only got a retalliation from her cos u did nt slap her hard enough!

I once had a similar experience, though not my gal but her room mate way back in school, after series of warnings to her, even went as far as very late 1 night to go ask her boyfriend to tell her to stay off my case, but she continued being insultive and won't stop calling me names. It got to the height of it the day she called me "oponun oshi" (stupid fool) and all these just because I was dating her friend and room mate who now hardly spend time in the room but with me in my self-contained. My gal gets first hand info on my past (Av a bad 1 though especially as a player but was serious with ds 1), abt 3 levels were seperating us for that matter. Still Trying to be patient as I've never hit any gal b4, I sat her down in her room spoke to her, told her how angry I was and that the next time she woudn't be so lucky to escape my wrath. Then as I stood up to leave, as if she dared me, she hissed so loud that u would have heard if u were sitting in the next room. At this point I lost it, just d 2 of us in the room (my gal was outside waiting for me to finish my discussion with her), I went straight to her in anger and dealth her a very dirty and resounding slap that she fell to d ground, I dnt stop there o, I followed her up with my belt while she was still reeling on the floor, by now my gal had rushed in to save her, but man it was too late, as neighbours too started rushing in (It was a private hostel), by this time I had beaten d daylight out of her.

And for those of u saying u will get ur broda and cousins blah blah blah, I think she tot thesame way too. Cos, later that night my galfriend came in to call me to tell me I got some ppl outside to c me, I dressed up to meet dem outside my house. It was the bro., a friend of his (both same level as me in sch) and her, to cut it short, I stood up to the 2 of them looked them in the eyes and asked them to bring it on. I dnt need to call on mobs in my street to linch them b4 they do when they c me in a fight, nd if they like they can take me up anywhere, I always av a backup plan for anything am doing. He stepped down and walked away with his sis. still in tears. She was admitted for 2 weeks and stayed back home for another 1 week b4 returning to school.

Finisthed with Uni. same year, later broke up wt my gal (now an ex) but we still talk, she was always telling guys beat her now like she is a punching sack and was always from 1 bf to the other.

Some gals are too insultive for their own good and they just might not find a guy to settle down with. Some NLanders (females mostly) saying they will slap him back, go ahead and slap him back and u av just dug ur own grave which will come after the rent u payed for an hospital bed expires.

Sorry all, story too long, just had to let u in on the details, that som gals wudn't give u a choice!

Uchechiboy2000@yahoo.com

Break up, coz next tym u would probably loose yur head.

omo d best thing do wen she insult u na waka leave am.but as u slap e stil gud but if na me be d omoge i go slap u back for anywere,if na ur manhood manage am.

Richfella:

Pro01 my brother, I've been your fan for a long, long time. Most times when I login, I first check on you, tai2 (my man) and a couple of other guys. Lol, am presently enjoying how Harakiri [/b]is responding to his withdrawal phase. He'll be fine.

You know, TRUTH, [b]effective [/i]truth is very seductive. God used that Robert Greene guy to point lots of people in the right direction. Timeless unfailing principles. That guy is just masterful.

I have The 48 Laws of Power, The 33 Strategies of War and the one on Seduction and I've read them so many times. I first read The 48 Laws Of Power in my Year One; it was so good I had to steal it (my first steal actually, and I've stolen twice - both justifiable ). Have you read [i]The 50th Law? I look forward to getting it soon.

As it stands, I cannot but literally rule the world. I doff my hat to guys like you who are in the know.

Bruv, my hunch was right about you belonging to the R.G school of thought. I call us 'members' of the higher order. Don't mind these "bland and timid masses" that populate NL.

I've not been able to lay my hands on the 50th Law; but the excerpts I read suggest that it's another 'stealable' classic (you know a great book if you can't resist the urge to steal it, i support you on that, lol). R.G never lets you down. Meanwhile have you heard of 'the art of worldly wisdom' by Baltasar Gracian? It is too profound for words to describe; that was the main inspiration for 48 Laws, not The Prince as we all thought. Google it, free copies are available online.

@ Poster A REAL MAN never hits a woman,PERIOD!!! Regardless of how much you are provoked by the woman please walk away. Walking away does not make you any less a man. For goodness sake we know that women are physically weaker than men(most women anyway) so why would you enter into physical confrontation with a woman? Would you enter into a fight with a child knowing fully well you can easily beat up a child? I have no respect for any man that beats women, it is the mark of a lesser man. I am not holding fort for women as it is true that women can be pretty abusive verbally and some women actually beg to be beaten, but hey if a woman is abusive and can not be corrected, walk out of the relationship. REAL MEN DO NOT BEAT WOMEN TO PROVE THEIR MANLINESS ONLY WUSSIES!!!!

guy u r lucky she didnt go for ur groin? slapping a lady makes an immatured guy

Inked_Nerd:

If my boyfriend slapped me, I'd slap him right back. I don't take kindly to people putting their hands on me when they know they wouldn't want someone to do the same to them.

then he will kill you before you even get an opportunity to alert the cops.

@topic.
There are two things involved.

1. Tell him thank you after the slap.
2. Turn the other cheek for him to finish his work in your life.

Quietly pack your bag and leave his house.

Real MEN dont hit women. I think its time someone grew up

If my husband slap me, I will be like Farrah Fawcett in the movie the BURNING BED,

The title of the movie speaks for itself!