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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Psoul(m): 9:40am On Feb 09, 2018 |
JennieCutie4U: May be the character odour is so much....lol |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Psoul(m): 9:45am On Feb 09, 2018 |
biacan: The way u are following dis guy around ehh. It seems u kw all his posts. U can confide in me, do u crush on this guy? 4 Likes |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Dayg88(m): 9:46am On Feb 09, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: I do not engage in conversations like this because they are usually gender sensitive. That being said, if you read the post carefully, you will understand the message being passed across was never about men being saints or women being the cause for break ups. The message applies to both parties. It is okay if you do not know what you want. But it is bad if we do not know what we do not want. If you (either the guy or the lady) are actually worth keeping, anyone would go any length to make you(in the same context) theirs. A year in a relationship is enough to deduce what we do not want or like in our partners. I just do not support the word dump. It is derogatory. 2 Likes |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Israeljones(m): 9:54am On Feb 09, 2018 |
Saintmary:typical example of a lady crying foul and a show of unintelligible comment.. mind you everything up there is not meant for me... am in my late 20s....i have seen and relate wif smart and intelligent ladies, definitely we have a chunk of them still in this country...... but its a pity wif comment like urs i wonder if any still exist here on NL |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Toks2008(m): 10:00am On Feb 09, 2018 |
LaudableXX: Exactly the point. ..in most cases,a lady knows the wheats from the shafts but they are just wired to settle for the shafts so if as a lady you tend to see a guy with philandering tendencies yet went ahead to date him then you need to check yourself. 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by prejulsuc(f): 10:13am On Feb 09, 2018 |
MissSlimbody:The true is any girl that knows how her onion,a guy will never dumped her instead she will be d one to back out when the need arise. |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Nobody: 10:31am On Feb 09, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: Lol..I actually mean character odour. some people character dey smell 2 Likes |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by MissSlimbody(f): 10:36am On Feb 09, 2018 |
prejulsuc:True. 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Psoul(m): 10:51am On Feb 09, 2018 |
AZeD1: I agree to a quick extablishment of a logic institution cos you will be the first enrollee. Toks2008, please easy wt ur grammar naa. Some ppl are lost. @AZed1, U dump a woman wen u just wake up and decide u no wan do again without giving the girl enough explanation. Parting ways is when both of u mutually agree to quit due to one reason or the other. From wot Toks2008 wrote up there based on genotypic factor or relocation, it means they agree to part ways due to incompatibility in their genotype or because one of them is relocating to another place that may not offer them the "conduciveness" needed to run a smooth relationship |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by ultimate77(m): 10:52am On Feb 09, 2018 |
Jamariwolff:actually u know what? You lack primary understanding. Speaking English and miss targeting. How did you come this far? Just asking? |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by victorioushands: 10:56am On Feb 09, 2018 |
MissSlimbody: He's not embittered, he actually made sense. Ever wondered why so many men settle down with women whom some people consider "below" them. A woman who wants to be had for life learns how to behave and does that. Men have little or no power against such women, they simply fall for them for life. There are few terrible me, though, who still mess up no matter what you give them as a woman. |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by ultimate77(m): 10:56am On Feb 09, 2018 |
Toks2008:man, I wish I can see you to buy you one bottle of chilled wine. I seriously wonder why some ladies think from underneath. I just showed this to my best computer student right now and she's like; the writer is such an intelligent guy. This ladies on Nl are just something else, I'm still seeking for the one who will not attack posts from their useless point of view. 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by nonut: 11:16am On Feb 09, 2018 |
MissSlimbody:Same crap from Nl girls... Leave the message and attack the messenger. If a guy goes into a relationship with you and dumps your sorry ass after one year, you ain't worth it. It's the same with ladies. When they're in relationship that doesn't make sense, they quit. It's as simple as that. How you failed to understand that beats me. |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by skales67(m): 11:17am On Feb 09, 2018 |
Saintmary: A classical representation of what you are passing through from my reply without a solid clue of what to say. 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by mhizcassidy001(f): 11:20am On Feb 09, 2018 |
some guys are just worthless, no matter how much you care for them they will still go astray leaving a gold behind to search for weed after been taught the lesson of there life they will start looking for who to apologise to. dear gfwds if a guy dump you when you have not offended him let him be those devilish spirited ladies out there will teach him a lesson. guys weldon oooo keep enjoying life i pity you[only to those concern] 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by nonut: 11:22am On Feb 09, 2018 |
ManFromJos:A thousand gbosas! You got a good head on your shoulders. Cheers man. 2 Likes |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Nobody: 11:39am On Feb 09, 2018 |
Psoul:Lmao.. say na malfunctioning sex doll.. but you're right Bro.. if u don't support a motion they are proposing, they'd just label u as a misogynist.. its quite disappointing,. )"^Ied 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by adekhingz(m): 11:39am On Feb 09, 2018 |
yomibelle: I checked ur profile picture. NIce shape.
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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by FRANKOSKI(m): 11:43am On Feb 09, 2018 |
how about those of you breaking Christ's heart by sinning? |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Nobody: 11:46am On Feb 09, 2018 |
nonut:Lol.. thanks bruv.. i was just saying my own bit tho.. i appreciate |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by AZeD1(m): 11:47am On Feb 09, 2018 |
Psoul:So you think everyone that broke up because of genotype or relocation did it mutually? Or you think everyone who broke up with their partners gave an explanation? See why I said we need a logic class? You can't make up things on the fly and claim what you said is logically. So a guy who leaves the country without telling his partner, is that "dumping" or "parting mutually"? |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Psoul(m): 11:51am On Feb 09, 2018 |
ManFromJos: That's exactly what their problem is. They don't entertain opinion outside what they beliv. They failed to realize that men are not created to function that way. Even wen men are dancing to ur tune, thet are just doing that for peace to rein not dat u are in possession of their mumu button. Well, I don't blame them. They are created that way so that they can easily be manipulated by men. If not tell me hw u can convince a girl to remove her clothe for u to chop her and she will agree. After that u dump her. Another guy will come wt that same strategy d former used in breaking her heart and she will still fall for it. That one will chop and run, still next comes wt the same style and she will still fall for it. I don't call it bn a mumu. Our creator made them so for men to enjoy. If women get men brain ehnnn..... It may take u more than 5yrs to convince one girl to give u access to go in-between her. |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by moe100(m): 11:59am On Feb 09, 2018 |
MissSlimbody:nawa oo..is that u? u ugly oo 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by nonut: 12:03pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Some guys meet a lady and within a few months, they get married to the lady. What does it tell you? He has seen something new he never experienced in his previous relationships. Most times some guys are not even ready for marriage, but they meet a lady they admire so much and before you could say Jack, they're married. The fear of losing that lady pushes them to marry her cos other men might be interested too. The ex then goes around telling anyone who wants to hear how she was used and dumped. If I'm a woman and I get dumped after a year of serious relationship, I'll try and upgrade myself. I'll even try to know why the guy dumped me and see if it's something I can change. I know women who were dumped for someone else because they weren't educated or graduates. Some guys won't get married to women who are idle or without any form of skill etc. Some won't get married to lazy or dirty women. The list goes on and on. No woman is expected to be perfect, but there must be something that makes you stand out and different from the other bunch. 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by LaudableXX: 12:25pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Toks2008: You are still repeating the same mistake, by blaming only women, for their wrong choices. Many men do the same thing, too. There are several serial philanderers, who also repeatedly choose the wrong kind of men or women to date. It has nothing to do with gender, but everything to do with their psyche, self-esteem or state of mind! |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Psoul(m): 12:28pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
AZeD1: You are overwhelmed wt what u think you knw and it makes u not to calm down to read other ppl's opinion and to also comprehend it to make a rational argument. |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by ezelous: 12:38pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Toks2008:kai see finishing o!
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Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by LaudableXX: 12:45pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
nonut: Guy, you are generalising. Like I explained earlier, the 'curse of the familiar' sometimes affects relationships that have gone on, for a year, or more. And it can lead to a split, if care is not taken. The man who marries a new girl within weeks of meeting her, may do so simply because she is still an exciting novelty to him, and not necessarily because she is better than the former girl he left behind. He might marry the new girl, and the things she used to do before marriage that tripped him, might now come to an end. A man who dates a lady who is not educated or a graduate, and turns round to dump her for that reason, deserves a tongue-lashing. He knew quite well that she wasn't educated or a graduate before he started dating her, didn't he?? Or was he blind? So why did he date her and then use such a lame excuse, to dump her later? In the old days, some of our fathers and grandfathers paid for the education of their wives, through school. I always advise people, to try and build a friendship with someone you are attracted to, before dating or getting into a relationship with that person. During the friendship phase, you can tell a lot about the person - if he/she is lazy, or idle or lacks a skill. If you are not satisfied with the traits they show during the friendship period, then you can both go your separate ways peacefully, without getting entangled in a relationship. But unfortunately, the word patience and wisdom disappeared from the dictionaries of a lot of people, many years ago. |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by LaudableXX: 12:57pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Dayg88: No sir. Read the OP's post again! He specifically targeted women, and he did so repeatedly. That is why the women on this thread are so opposed to his views. And I think I understand where they are coming from. If he had been gender-neutral, then his comments would have attracted less opposition. The truth is that what he said also applies to men, but he failed to put that into context and failed to balance his views. Both men and women often make wrong choices, when it comes to dating. It has nothing to do with gender, but with a person's decision-making skills, worldview, self-esteem, psyche and lack of clarity. 1 Like |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Psoul(m): 1:03pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Gangster1ms: Buy a intimacy gadget |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by Barzinime(m): 1:04pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Jamari on point? I give up on you too Ladyhippolyta88: |
Re: If A Man Dates You For a year or more And latter Dumps You,check Yourself. by AZeD1(m): 1:06pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Psoul:You can't make something subjective a rule doing so makes having a rational argument almost impossible. The OP stated "If a guy lives a relationship after a year, the lady should herself". Really? You have no idea why the relationship didn't work but you assume it's most likely the lady's fault? Does that make "sense"? 1 Like 1 Share |
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