Gooday nairlanders, i am a very very shy person, even as am typing this stuff, am already shy and sweating seriously here.

Throughout my secondary school, i never had a girlfriend. Aftwr much pressure and morae given to me by my friends when i was in SS1 to get a girlfriend, i gathered courage and approached the only girl i admired then. After everything, this girl rejected me in an emotional way. After that, i decided not to ever fall for any girl at all. EVER.

So this year i got admission in a University. Although the academic year and lectures began since last year November, i just started last week. So on my first day of lectures, my eyes sighted a very beautiful girl. Then the vow i made in secondary school blew through my mind. And i erased the vow immediately. Besides, The past is gone.

So the problem here is that the girl and i has had 3 eye contact since. But am still shy to walk up to her. I really need advice please.

Put ur maturity in writing and put it in her bag or book. Hope it works. It has worked for some.

The unfortunate part is Naija girls are not mature enough to read minds, they instead expect all men to be mature and always read thier minds even when theyre making no expression while they behave like babies in d name of u know I'm a woman, if you're a man u shd be patient for me. Yeye!

Some with all thier education dont even know men like you exist.

Lol, this method is outdated bro, do u know the kindof calamity that will fall on me if it goes viral

RadicallyBlunt:
Put ur maturity in writing and put it in her bag or book

Take a bold step and give it a try, who knows your light might shine. Don't Forget to also face your book.

Try and get a little bit closer in a normal friendly way that will help cool down the tension then proceed from there

her eyes caught with yours doesn't mean she's into u..your first week at school and you've made women your top priority ..u no go cool down

kill ursef the news may get her attention

Bro. start chasing your GP and crushing before you get crushed away.

U guys should get the fact that i am very stable in academics. Am not boasting. I was the best graduating student in my secondary school, Class of 2016. We were about 355 in total. So i can never get carried away. I just wanto have so fun i didn't had while in secondary school

Hehe.. I've found my doppelganger.. About 6 years younger though..

Brush up your english for a start

...by making a lot of money.

if you don't have confidence u can't do anything so I advise to get up and talk to her

If your mouth can't say a word, I wonder your d1ck will say it when the time comes.

I suggest you just await marriage before these girls use you to play ludo.

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