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Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Tozara(m): 9:53am On Feb 13, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Thanks, ma'am. Dashing common sense to those who don't have it is always a delight. 4 Likes |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Saao(m): 9:55am On Feb 13, 2018 |
Xisnin:please you really need to work on yourself. You can't have a decent conversations without insult? May God deliver you. |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Saao(m): 9:57am On Feb 13, 2018 |
Daisy17:abi, I wish u the best in ur marital life |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by flyDixon: 10:00am On Feb 13, 2018 |
Authoreety:You can never get it wrong when it come to the lips........ It tells it all. 1 Like |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Authoreety: 10:02am On Feb 13, 2018 |
flyDixon:u sabi |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Authoreety: 10:06am On Feb 13, 2018 |
Tozara: Broda, pls abeg no vex o.... bt u aint making sense 2 me! free me joor |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by nawtyme: 10:08am On Feb 13, 2018 |
Xisnin:Stop trying to score cheap points. Verbal abuse causes people to commit suicide. You can't beat the above people because you simply can't beat them. Trust me if you can you would. I was thinking you would ask the ladies not to be abusive rather than trying to justify their actions. Say no to physical or verbal abuse. 1 Like |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Daeylar(f): 10:21am On Feb 13, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Here dear, Don't mind him, He isn't saying anything reasonable, The problem with nairaland babies is that if there is a topic involving a man and a woman, no matter how wrong the man is the babies will still try and put the blame on the woman, But if the woman is wrong they won't waste time to condemn the woman, There is nothing wrong with a woman leaving a marriage where there is domestic violence, that is the ideal, I don't even know what's their pain? Are they trying to justify violence? Nonsense. 5 Likes |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by andyanders: 10:29am On Feb 13, 2018 |
In as much as we condemn violence in any marriage, from the subjects point of view, no one should just say the husband was at fault without getting to find out from the two. I somehow witnessed a scenario yesterday whereby a married woman slapped her husband in public but the guy never reacted or responded to that, but took a walk after the incidence. There are men who are demons and there are women who are demons too. Violence depends on individuals involved. Most marriages were contracted through live-in lovers kind of relationship, whereby a lady gets pregnant and the marriage is been forced by either party. A lady could be having an accommodation problem and end up marrying the guy who accommodated her. Some marriages has been contracted through sympathy by either side. I had to marry him/her because of what he did for me and not that I loved him/her. At the end, trouble starts coming up in-between. Domestic violence could be either way. Op just narrated hers, but the guy who is now at the receiving end by public opinion might not be the one at fault. Many women as a result of maybe, the present situation of things in the country could start vetting out their anger on their husband. We pray not to be victims of domestic violence. I love what the lady did by walking out of the relationship when she noticed threat whether it was the guy's fault or hers, take a walk rather than staying to see to the end if you consider your life to be in danger. For the public opinion, let us not start apportioning blames when we have never witnessed who was at fault in cases like this. We love to condemn one when we hear one sided story. A lady kills her husband,we condemn, a man kills the wife, we condemn without getting to fin out the reasons for what went wrong.Let us wait and listen and proffer solution to people who are in a abusive relationship. None of was there when they contracted their relationship. |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:34am On Feb 13, 2018 |
Daeylar:I would start using this word to refer to some of them"nairaland babies"thanks. 1 Like |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Daeylar(f): 10:37am On Feb 13, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Lol, that's what I call them, They don't act like fully grown human beings much less the men they tout themselves as being 2 Likes |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:38am On Feb 13, 2018 |
Daeylar:Some are Jamb candidates. 1 Like |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by runto: 10:58am On Feb 13, 2018 |
Women should know that the first three years of marriage is a period where you know yourselves more ,during this period misunderstanding happen a lot ,unresolved issues linger more , heart are broken severally ,but one thing I have realised ,patience and maturity can resolve some issues ,while counselling and prayers plays a great role in another part. Once you can't resolve your issues in the first three years , its better to walk away. Based on God standard ,if you are truly a child of God ,honestly all storm will be calm. If you are not familiar with religion ,just walk away. |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by torvickof1312(m): 11:08am On Feb 13, 2018 |
Your husband will not out of self will violet your right as a wife with no reason of you showing your homeless training into play. When dating you he sound nice fetching water for you, cooking for you, spoon-feed you and now he is seeing realities of his being Mr nice during courtship and to fine tune you to start being a woman of substance you jump to social media to announce your manner less act to your husband. For the husband we are waiting to hear your part of the story, you better access yourself and be the best of you with understanding your partner.......... Rubbish ....and tomorrow you will come back and post ..... I've forgiven him, God go punish you. Woman you are not a wife material for flying on social media..... who ever go for you is in doom......
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Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Nobody: 11:31am On Feb 13, 2018 |
uyiekpenn: I am a MALE and trust me if it was my sister, we will ensure every single bone in the mans body is rearranged 2 Likes |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by olabrad: 12:09pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Xisnin: May Satan appoint your portion with a chronic nagging woman. Even if God has a better plan for you, may Satan prevail and bring a nagging abusive woman to your life. Then maybe you will have some sense and know that emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse Bunch of idiots will just wake up from the wrong side of their bed and begin to make baseless unprovable nonsense comments |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by scobyhybrid(m): 12:46pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
i dey see ( i cook you eat). this woman just cook beta food and some dey eat |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by GeeTeeA(m): 1:25pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
olabrad: |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by GeeTeeA(m): 1:25pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
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Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Rozaytee: 1:35pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
OrestesDante:u are indirectly supporting abusive union |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by earldoyex(m): 2:05pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
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Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Nobody: 2:51pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Rozaytee: ☣ ☠ ∆ No Ma! I'm only suggesting a look before you leap marriage. ∆ ☣ ☠ |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by NothingDoMe: 3:41pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Lady hippo nor vex. I've seen women beat men up for a fact. No lies. In fact she attacked him and called the police on him and started crying saying he was beating her up. His offense was that she cheated on him and she wanted to get even. |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by NothingDoMe: 3:48pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Xisnin:I disagree. Women speak out a lot when they are in an abusive relationship. They just don't speak out to NGO's that are complete strangers to them. That's why I have issues with women who run to social media to tell their side of the story. That's just one side. As long as the man doesn't come to social media to speak out, the story remains in her favour. I cannot judge or sympathize by hearing a story from one side. |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Nobody: 5:09pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Daeylar: They don't want her to leave, they want the woman to stay there and die. That way they can come blame her in death again. Have you ever seen them ask for the other side of the story, when the victim is a man? No! They'll only rush out to tell us how women are worse than devils. 2 Likes |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Nobody: 5:11pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
NothingDoMe: You can't judge? LoL. Go read you comment again, with understanding... 2 Likes |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by NothingDoMe: 5:11pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
AntiBrutus:I think you are the one who requires understanding. |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Nobody: 5:16pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
NothingDoMe: Sure, you just need it more. |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Daisy17: 5:22pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
torvickof1312: Rest in peace English! |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Nobody: 7:03pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
Daisy17: ☣ ☠ ∆ Unless you're not observant or probably clouded by the romanticism. ∆ ☣ ☠ |
Re: “domestic Violence Can’t Be Cured” – Woman As She Walks Out Of Her Marriage by Daeylar(f): 10:16pm On Feb 13, 2018 |
AntiBrutus: Exactly, that's why I said when it's an issue involving a man and a woman and the woman is right they start acting like the babies they are. They would rather look for a way no matter how illogical to try and make it look like the woman is wrong or bad than to accept that a woman is right. 1 Like |
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