Anerlisa Muigai, the heiress to Keroche Breweries, Kenya, has advised insecure women to stop monitoring their boyfriends and husbands, suspecting they could potentially cheat on them.

In a lengthy post on Instagram, Anerlisa said women should not be worried about their men whenever they’re out and should only call them if it’s urgent.

She wrote;

"LADIES A PIECE OF ADVICE. I AM NOT AN EXPERT IN RELATIONSHIPS BUT I’LL ADDRESS TWO ISSUES THAT STRESS WOMEN. IF YOU WANT PEACE AND HAPPINESS, PLEASE LET YOUR MAN BE. THIS CALLING YOUR MAN EVERY MINUTE BECAUSE HE IS OUT OF YOUR SIGHT NEEDS TO STOP. CALL HIM ONLY IF IT’S URGENT. YOU SHOULD NEVER LACK SLEEP BECAUSE HE LEFT AT 7PM AND BY 4AM HE IS NOT BACK, HE IS A GROWN ASS MAN WHO IS FULLY AWARE OF WHAT TIME HE SHOULD GET BACK.

ON THE OTHER HAND, HIS PHONE SHOULD BE NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. YOU NEED TO TRUST YOUR MAN, YOU CANNOT STOP A MAN FROM CHEATING. THE MORE HE FEELS NAGGED THE MORE HE WANTS YOU OUT OF HIS SIGHT. THOSE WHO SAY THAT YOUR MAN WILL CHEAT ON YOU, I ALWAYS ASK THEM ” SO SHOULD WE CALL A PRESS CONFERENCE AND ADDRESS THE ISSUE?”NKT . IT SHOULD REALLY BE NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS,” SHE WROTE IN PART.

“PUT YOURSELF FIRST, LOVE YOURSELF, RESPECT YOURSELF AND EVERYTHING ELSE SHOULD BE LAST. NEVER STRESS YOURSELF BECAUSE OF A MAN, IF ONE RELATIONSHIP FAILS THEN OFF TO THE NEXT ONE. HAVE PEACE OF MIND AND RELAX. THE ONLY THING THAT SHOULD EVER STRESS YOU ARE YOUR CHILDREN AND WORK.”

https://torimill.com/2018/02/if-you-want-peace-let-him-be-lady-advises-insecure-women-who-always-keep-tabs-on-their-men.html

Ok

She has a point...

Only few brave women can stand up for themselves coz they are the MAIN CHICK...

If you're not married or in a serious relationship you have no right to be giving relationship advice, expert or not. Because when it comes to relationships, experience counts much more than what you read in books.

Same thing I was telling my friend yesterday.... I can't come and kill myself because he's not yet home,he refuse to eat my food....... I'll just lock the door and sleep like a Queen "which I am" if you follow men wahala you go old before your time

CastedAyo:
Anerlisa Muigai, the heiress to Keroche Breweries, Kenya, has advised insecure women to stop monitoring their boyfriends and husbands, suspecting they could potentially cheat on them.

In a lengthy post on Instagram, Anerlisa said women should not be worried about their men whenever they’re out and should only call them if it’s urgent.

She wrote;


https://torimill.com/2018/02/if-you-want-peace-let-him-be-lady-advises-insecure-women-who-always-keep-tabs-on-their-men.html

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Good talk. Learn not to have hypertention

the poster below me has something to say ...

biacan:
Same thing I was telling my friend yesterday.... I can't come and kill myself because he's not yet home,he refuse to eat my food....... I'll just lock the door and sleep like a Queen "which I am" if you follow men wahala you go old before your time

But some of us like the drama o ...

personally if am dating you and you don't put up these shows once a while , I'll feel you don't care ..


Biacan .. how fa na, when last you open topic ..here on Romancelander

His phone is not my business?

cause she get money and she carry back she con fine join, she fit talk am







but u wey dey dependent on a man, u no fine na make up and Mary K dey carry u.. u no even carry.. na foam bra and yansh pad u dey wear upandan





I pity u... olosho know wetin she dey do ooo

Too much sauce; She looks hot though, and the office is quite a beauty, simple and exquisite.
Same way guys shouldn't bother if their girl gets a call every 5 minutes or less......or always with her "male bestie"

So, Neegar "Catch feelings, catch a grenade as backup"

Good advise...I hope they take it

Everyone is now an expert on relationship issue even when their relationship is complicated




I just love the way i am
I gat peace of mind

No drama whatsoever
Relationship is tiring...

beta be sure ur spouse is nt cheating because u ll suffer wit him wen HIV comes

I agree with her intoto. Only ladies who want to die young monitor men

The sad truth is,
If you want peace, be single and contented.

Being in a relationship with someone means your peace is relative to them.
Your happiness is directly proportional to their willingness to letting you have it.

If you are in a relationship already.
There's no definite rule to it.
Forget about peace, just live.
Peace and love comes to who it wants to come to.



By the way,
Hello Nairaland.
Thanks for the love

This woman should just STFU.
Who pronounced you relationship therapist of all women affairs?

Your spouse isn't back by 4am, you shouldn't call because he's a grown up? Really, Nigga?
If A woman feels she has to watch her man's every move.. That's because he has given her a reason to doubt his fidelity. Don't blame the woman. She's simply human.


Only When the said MAN eventually earns her trust, would she quit being insecure.

Lolz.. ...
Yep, other ladies nid this guy to be dere uncle, why must you kip disturbing with call.. ..

The guy no disturb you for skul when like three uncle dey pay ur school fees nah.. .

Let the guy also help other people

they will never learn like say dem no know how we be before we start to date.......las las we go run leave drama queens

tell them

XhosaNostra:
His phone is not my business?

u beta learn or die single

nairalanduseles:


u beta learn or die single

I refuse to learn! Being single for life doesn't sound like a bad thing if certain things are offlimit.

I Lyk Dis Lady

XhosaNostra:


I refuse to learn! Being single for life doesn't sound like a bad thing if certain things are offlimits.

are u really in south africa heard the crime rate there is really bad and how do they treat u there

nairalanduseles:


are u really in south africa heard the crime rate there is really bad and how do they treat u there

Yes, it's bad.

Simple truth
"Just let him be"

nairalanduseles:


u beta learn or die single

You'd die single...

NwaAmaikpe:



The sad truth is,
If you want peace, be single and contented.

Being in a relationship with someone means your peace is relative to them.
Your happiness is directly proportional to their willingness to letting you have it.

If you are in a relationship already.
There's no definite rule to it.
Forget about peace, just live.
Peace and love comes to who it wants to come to.



By the way,
Hello Nairaland.
Thanks for the love

he is back o lol

Simple Truth

"Let Him Be"

No man is worth dying for.