Qxty:
PLEASE IS IT RIGHT FOR A GUY TO SAVE HIS GIRL FRIEND'S NUMBER BY HER NAME AND CLAIMED HE LOVES HER? PLEASE MATURE MINDS

There's this my friend i love so much, i hate cheating in a relationship, but he saves my number by my name, he calls me by my name, if i complained, he will say i am nagging too much that he only did that to his first date that he is not a fan to baby and other pet names, but he will be teasing girls online with sweet names, he will be teasing girls in my presence, if i complain he will ask me if he can't play wit girls again because of me, though he try his best in little things he can help me since we are both corpers, he hardly introduce me to his female friends and every girl he meet is his friend, but he will not do introduction except few, the most painful is that the girls he call these sweet names are not up to me(sorry for saying that though but it sucks) please advice me.

NOC1:
I was like that some years back, but with time I changed. I so much loved her even when I saved it with her real name, some guys are just as blunt and real like me.
Sis it means nothing.

Horlaidex:
That's no biggie dear. I don't even save my girlfriend's number self

Haggui:
There's nothing wrong with it. I saved my girl's number with her name

Qxty:
PLEASE IS IT RIGHT FOR A GUY TO SAVE HIS GIRL FRIEND'S NUMBER BY HER NAME AND CLAIMED HE LOVES HER? PLEASE MATURE MINDS

There's this my friend i love so much, i hate cheating in a relationship, but he saves my number by my name, he calls me by my name, if i complained, he will say i am nagging too much that he only did that to his first date that he is not a fan to baby and other pet names, but he will be teasing girls online with sweet names, he will be teasing girls in my presence, if i complain he will ask me if he can't play wit girls again because of me, though he try his best in little things he can help me since we are both corpers, he hardly introduce me to his female friends and every girl he meet is his friend, but he will not do introduction except few, the most painful is that the girls he call these sweet names are not up to me(sorry for saying that though but it sucks) please advice me.

Qxty:
PLEASE IS IT RIGHT FOR A GUY TO SAVE HIS GIRL FRIEND'S NUMBER BY HER NAME AND CLAIMED HE LOVES HER? PLEASE MATURE MINDS

There's this my friend i love so much, i hate cheating in a relationship, but he saves my number by my name, he calls me by my name, if i complained, he will say i am nagging too much that he only did that to his first date that he is not a fan to baby and other pet names, but he will be teasing girls online with sweet names, he will be teasing girls in my presence, if i complain he will ask me if he can't play wit girls again because of me, though he try his best in little things he can help me since we are both corpers, he hardly introduce me to his female friends and every girl he meet is his friend, but he will not do introduction except few, the most painful is that the girls he call these sweet names are not up to me(sorry for saying that though but it sucks) please advice me.

XhosaNostra:
Don't let him make you accept behaviour you wouldn't otherwise accept in a relationship. IMO, that is what he is trying to do here. He's turning the tables on you for something that he did. What he is doing is called TRIANGULATION. That's what these guys do to try knock down your self-esteem. He wants you to see that other females find him attractive, thus making himself look like a "high value" man, even though that couldn't be farther from the truth. It's a playa move, hun. Don't take it laying down. Knock down his own self-esteem or dump his ass.

On your part, you're calling him "a friend" but complain that he doesn't "claim" you by calling you with endearing terms? Seems you're both skating around the issue. Perhaps the relationship is not clearly defined or there's reservation on your part because of his behaviour. TBH, my advice to you is to break up with this guy. He is showing all the classic signs of a game player.

Get rid of him!

Martin0:



hmmmm for me it not like that

XhosaNostra:


Not like what?

Martin0:


you ladies don't see things sometimes as just normal, your explanation says men have intentions saving his girlfriend number just with her name, though am aware there's truth in what you said but for me, I don't see any side motives towards that..

XhosaNostra:


My explanation wasn't focused on the number saving thing, that's only the tip of the iceberg. You may not see the motive, but ol' eagle eyes aka moi, can see a piece of shìt guy from a mile

It's psychology, Marty.

highqueen:
yes,I don't see anything wrong with it...as long as he isn't cheating .

TheUpsetGirl:
he must attach something like dearest, sweetie etc.... else he's a fake ass.. BTW xhosanostra you didn't comment on my thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/4387187/stop-demanding-sex-up-down

TheUpsetGirl:

I've not seen you here lately weetie

TheUpsetGirl:
he must attach something like dearest, sweetie etc.... else he's a fake ass.. BTW xhosanostra you didn't comment on my thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/4387187/stop-demanding-sex-up-down

ekanx27:
Now u are here complaining on Nairaland without telling him, are u not cheating on him already?



Besides, is it the pet name u want in the relationship or the affection and attention?



Finally Take am easy with him allawee

XhosaNostra:
Don't let him make you accept behaviour you wouldn't otherwise accept in a relationship. IMO, that is what he is trying to do here. He's turning the tables on you for something that he did. What he is doing is called TRIANGULATION. That's what these guys do to try knock down your self-esteem. He wants you to see that other females find him attractive, thus making himself look like a "high value" man, even though that couldn't be farther from the truth. It's a playa move, hun. Don't take it laying down. Knock down his own self-esteem or dump his ass. U have make some point here, it's a typographic error about "a friend" I introduced him to both my male friends and female friends we come across, but it makes me feel as if am wit my brother, tanks dear, from ur points i know wat to do

On your part, you're calling him "a friend" but complain that he doesn't "claim" you by calling you with endearing terms? Seems you're both skating around the issue. Perhaps the relationship is not clearly defined or there's reservation on your part because of his behaviour. TBH, my advice to you is to break up with this guy. He is showing all the classic signs of a game player.

Get rid of him!