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Sacrifice to his Supreme holiness Goat Baal. Goat Baal over the years has answered the questions of men who had brothers afflicted with such troubles after the sacrifice of a tormented baboon. All hail Goat Baal. All hail Goat Baal.

Nairalandtwins:
Hello Nairalanders. Pls pardon typos and blunders incase of any because I am grossly angry right now.

My twin brother has been addicted to pornography and masturbation for some years now, although I started it since 2006 and stopped in 2016 since I noticed the terrible negative effects on every aspect of my life. All efforts to make him stop proved abortive.

In 2016 he had psychological issues and was admitted in the hospital for a month and he was fine and back to his normal self. At the hospital I read an article here on Nairaland that masturbation can cause brain issues then it dawned on me that that was the cause for his illness but I didn't disclose it to the doctor and my parents...

He promised and swore to me to never to masturbate again. I've been watching him closely and studying him and I am still noticing signs, he probably has stopped masturbating but he still watches porn which also has negative effects on his brain....

Fast forward to what happened this evening. Before I tell you what happened lemme tell you this too. He doesn't have any vision, no plans, no idea, he just sits at home and wait for his twin bro to bring money home or call mom and dad to help him with cash all these things irritates me so bad. Funnily enough he always talk about having a girlfriend, he tells me being single doesn't make sense and I react and tell him, which lady will stay with you when you have no vision and plans for yourself let alone for her..

Back to the matter, this evening I returned back home from hustle with some good profit... I can't remember when last I made such money in a day since this government took over... So I transferred 5k out of the money to his account to help me withdraw from the bank and pay some debts. After spending hours out there I decided to call him and he says "bro I went to see my babe" 30 mins later he calls back

Him: Hello bro, something happened o

Me: what happened

Him: I bought drinks 2k for me and my babe

Me: what the heck? My sweat? I'm very infuriated

Him: pls bro I am sorry bro pls..

Me: *calms down* I have heard you

Him: bro can I go and chill again and relax with another 2k

Me: I give up do whatever you like... *ends call*

How can I help him pls

Mods pls move this to the front page so people can see the negative effects of masturbation and porn and I also need help for him. Thank you

Just pray for him and perhaps show some testimonies online for him to read himself, or get a contract girlfriend for him because masturbation causes derealization and depersonalization and so makes u living a life u not supposed to, it ruins surely. Don't know why psychologists are yet to reveal such findings to the world but it is real, It fvcks up the head. Too sad society seems to approve things that may not just kill but ruin the Man completely(Consciousness and flesh). I feel for u bro, I really do cos it hurts to see Family suffer like that. This is the link to true testimonies https://www.google.com.ng/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1xovgh/fapping_makes_you_a_weak_timid_person/

Nairalandtwins:


I vehemently disagree with you, I believe he can

Childish reasoning above you

Nairalandtwins:
Seconded but I am afraid this will make things go from bad to worse

How can you agree and disagree at the same time?

The advice given is the best.he's got to learn the hard way or you wan dey give am peanut cash forever?

What of when you get married?

God forbid something bad happen to you today, are you saying he won't survive?

Show you brother how to fish( tough life) than give him fish (simple life).

His progress is in your hands.

You wake up every morning to hustle while your twin is nonchalant about survival; what rubbish ?? Who does that?

If he is a r£tard, then that's understandable but if he is okay mentally , then there is no excuse. He is just plain wicked.

bros ya tbros problem is drugs not masturbation.

DonPiiko:
Your Igbo tongue won't let you be great, you spell words same way you pronounce them

Dont get it twisted ok

castrate I'm jhoor

Him: bro can I go and chill again and relax with another 2k? go and chill idiot

Nairalandtwins:
Hello Nairalanders. Pls pardon typos and blunders incase of any because I am grossly angry right now.

My twin brother has been addicted to pornography and masturbation for some years now, although I started it since 2006 and stopped in 2016 since I noticed the terrible negative effects on every aspect of my life. All efforts to make him stop proved abortive.

In 2016 he had psychological issues and was admitted in the hospital for a month and he was fine and back to his normal self. At the hospital I read an article here on Nairaland that masturbation can cause brain issues then it dawned on me that that was the cause for his illness but I didn't disclose it to the doctor and my parents...

He promised and swore to me to never to masturbate again. I've been watching him closely and studying him and I am still noticing signs, he probably has stopped masturbating but he still watches porn which also has negative effects on his brain....

Fast forward to what happened this evening. Before I tell you what happened lemme tell you this too. He doesn't have any vision, no plans, no idea, he just sits at home and wait for his twin bro to bring money home or call mom and dad to help him with cash all these things irritates me so bad. Funnily enough he always talk about having a girlfriend, he tells me being single doesn't make sense and I react and tell him, which lady will stay with you when you have no vision and plans for yourself let alone for her..

Back to the matter, this evening I returned back home from hustle with some good profit... I can't remember when last I made such money in a day since this government took over... So I transferred 5k out of the money to his account to help me withdraw from the bank and pay some debts. After spending hours out there I decided to call him and he says "bro I went to see my babe" 30 mins later he calls back

Him: Hello bro, something happened o

Me: what happened

Him: I bought drinks 2k for me and my babe

Me: what the heck? My sweat? I'm very infuriated

Him: pls bro I am sorry bro pls..

Me: *calms down* I have heard you

Him: bro can I go and chill again and relax with another 2k

Me: I give up do whatever you like... *ends call*

How can I help him pls

Mods pls move this to the front page so people can see the negative effects of masturbation and porn and I also need help for him. Thank you

see how nairalanders turn to counsellors... bro, I advise u go see a professional counsellor like me...

If he still watches porn, it can lead him back to masturbatio .let him continue to do what he did that enabled him stop mastubation.

weezweezweez:
see how nairalanders turn to counsellors... bro, I advise u go see a professional counsellor like me...

There are professional counsellors here.

Check well your brother dey smoke weed well well and you may not know
well you didn't tell us if is a graduate or not and keeping him at home will not help look for work for him or rather if you have some money marry a woman for her or better still tell that his girlfriend to marry him and then plan with your family on how to support the girl to start up something believe you me the girl will humble the guy very well
just get a wife for him then after one month Sex with the girl na him go dey run for sex ,with that he will be forced to look for something doing when the girl most have been pregnant for him.

I think that the best gift both of you need now is accepting Jesus Christ fully into your life. In as much as you have stopped it, the devil can't just keep quit over your life. Remember the bible says that the only thing the devil exits is just kill, steal and destroy.

Coming to your twin brother, my dr he needs serious prayer sections and deliverance. Even if he starts something doing, addiction is very hard to deal with. When prayer and total submission to the Almighty God is exempted from your lives them trust me, nothing else can stop him, including therapist.

Its time to make a hard decision for yourselves.

However, get him involved in the money making game. In case he misbehave along the way, scold him the way you never done to him before. Show him that you ever serious with him. The truth is bitter and hard but its meant to be said.

Be consistent with him and dont give much space to practice the evil act, it will help you too. Get him good materials to read and ask him what he learnt from it.

Standing alone as a man is very good, in fact it brings the manliness in you. But not in this case. He needs a close watch, just like patients in the hospital. He needs to be constantly encouraged. If he is strong enough to make the money and think correctly on his own, nobody will tell him to find a house and start a normal life as a man .

God will surely intervene you as you try this out on him.

God bless you sir and remain rapturable....

Nairalandtwins:
well there was a time I traveled and he stayed alone but he still called me to for financial support, it didn't change anything

You're his father now.

You have to teach him to earn. I'm sure he'll develop confidence when he makes his first pay, that will surely motivate him to hustle more.

Good luck.

Freshbank:
although I started it since 2006 and stopped in 2016 since I noticed the terrible negative effects on every aspect of my life. All efforts to make him stop proved abortive.


Ur write up gave u away is it u or ur twin brother

You couldn't comprehend. He said he was involved too but stopped in 2016

Nairalandtwins:
well there was a time I traveled and he stayed alone but he still called me to for financial support, it didn't change anything

Stop giving him money.....Is that too difficult for you to comprehend. Teach him how to fish, engage him, go out together.

You can only change a habit by replacing it with another habit.

Make hussling/hardwork his habit and let's see if he ll still have enough time and energy to engage in masturbation

Nairalandtwins:
Seconded but I am afraid this will make things go from bad to worse

That's a risk you must be prepared to take. Fending for him and catering to his whimsical demands have not done any good. Let him chart his course and see how difficult and different life is. He might just wake up to reality or not. Your silence and financial support for his lifestyle seems like tacit approval. so cut those out.

let him get a girlfriend and Man the hell up

person no ft jerk off in peace again

Truth is not everybody can be living and caring like us. Some people are just selfish, best thing you can do for him is be selfish too. Let him sort out his life himself. They say greatness and success is a personal thing. You can't force him to better his life. Peace

U can as well pray for him

judy -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oj59QUGR12I

judy vs agnes -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Zu9YD25gs8

Nairalandtwins:
Hello Nairalanders. Pls pardon typos and blunders incase of any because I am grossly angry right now.

My twin brother has been addicted to pornography and masturbation for some years now, although I started it since 2006 and stopped in 2016 since I noticed the terrible negative effects on every aspect of my life. All efforts to make him stop proved abortive.

In 2016 he had psychological issues and was admitted in the hospital for a month and he was fine and back to his normal self. At the hospital I read an article here on Nairaland that masturbation can cause brain issues then it dawned on me that that was the cause for his illness but I didn't disclose it to the doctor and my parents...

He promised and swore to me to never to masturbate again. I've been watching him closely and studying him and I am still noticing signs, he probably has stopped masturbating but he still watches porn which also has negative effects on his brain....

Fast forward to what happened this evening. Before I tell you what happened lemme tell you this too. He doesn't have any vision, no plans, no idea, he just sits at home and wait for his twin bro to bring money home or call mom and dad to help him with cash all these things irritates me so bad. Funnily enough he always talk about having a girlfriend, he tells me being single doesn't make sense and I react and tell him, which lady will stay with you when you have no vision and plans for yourself let alone for her..

Back to the matter, this evening I returned back home from hustle with some good profit... I can't remember when last I made such money in a day since this government took over... So I transferred 5k out of the money to his account to help me withdraw from the bank and pay some debts. After spending hours out there I decided to call him and he says "bro I went to see my babe" 30 mins later he calls back

Him: Hello bro, something happened o

Me: what happened

Him: I bought drinks 2k for me and my babe

Me: what the heck? My sweat? I'm very infuriated

Him: pls bro I am sorry bro pls..

Me: *calms down* I have heard you

Him: bro can I go and chill again and relax with another 2k

Me: I give up do whatever you like... *ends call*

How can I help him pls

Mods pls move this to the front page so people can see the negative effects of masturbation and porn and I also need help for him. Thank you

na deliverance he needs...

This habit will protect him from heartbreak and sexually transmitted diseases including HIV. safe. until he gets married.

I'd advice you keep him busy by getting him even a small job. The truth is, you guys may be twins but he lacks maturity and discipline in everyway, hence does not know the value of money, or the value of money earning process.

Because of his lack of discipline, your brother cannot even manage a business of selling groundnut. So keep him busy with a job so he can learn the other side of life and make the choice of growing strong. This will also help cut the habits. The earlier he goes through this correctional process the better for you, otherwise he may become a burden on you and the entire family for life.

...and don't make the mistake of cutting him off TOTALLY because you're angry, frustrated and disappointed, you will regret it.

AntiBrutus:


He isn't new. He has sense,though e dey fluctuate sha...

AntiBrutus:


He isn't new. He has sense,though e dey fluctuate sha...

Bro don't let go of him, he his ur twin do ur best to ensure he change. Don't give him too much again, try to reduce the way u support him financially, I bet u he will learn and wat to help himself. Change will come soon. And pray for him too.

Never give up on him.

I need ur prayer too ooo (nairaland)

Nairalandtwins:
Hello Nairalanders. Pls pardon typos and blunders incase of any because I am grossly angry right now.

My twin brother has been addicted to pornography and masturbation for some years now, although I started it since 2006 and stopped in 2016 since I noticed the terrible negative effects on every aspect of my life. All efforts to make him stop proved abortive.

In 2016 he had psychological issues and was admitted in the hospital for a month and he was fine and back to his normal self. At the hospital I read an article here on Nairaland that masturbation can cause brain issues then it dawned on me that that was the cause for his illness but I didn't disclose it to the doctor and my parents...

He promised and swore to me to never to masturbate again. I've been watching him closely and studying him and I am still noticing signs, he probably has stopped masturbating but he still watches porn which also has negative effects on his brain....

Fast forward to what happened this evening. Before I tell you what happened lemme tell you this too. He doesn't have any vision, no plans, no idea, he just sits at home and wait for his twin bro to bring money home or call mom and dad to help him with cash all these things irritates me so bad. Funnily enough he always talk about having a girlfriend, he tells me being single doesn't make sense and I react and tell him, which lady will stay with you when you have no vision and plans for yourself let alone for her..

Back to the matter, this evening I returned back home from hustle with some good profit... I can't remember when last I made such money in a day since this government took over... So I transferred 5k out of the money to his account to help me withdraw from the bank and pay some debts. After spending hours out there I decided to call him and he says "bro I went to see my babe" 30 mins later he calls back

Him: Hello bro, something happened o

Me: what happened

Him: I bought drinks 2k for me and my babe

Me: what the heck? My sweat? I'm very infuriated

Him: pls bro I am sorry bro pls..

Me: *calms down* I have heard you

Him: bro can I go and chill again and relax with another 2k

Me: I give up do whatever you like... *ends call*

How can I help him pls

Mods pls move this to the front page so people can see the negative effects of masturbation and porn and I also need help for him. Thank you

He will definately go back to masturbation if he doesnt stop watching porn, and he will keep watching porn if he continue been idle. So stop everyone from giving him cash. Or better still the money should be slashed (not enough for him to do anythin reasonable) then motivate him to work.the family can trick him, tell him times are hard and no money. teach him some lesson, pretend not to care anymore about him even though u still care. Go hard on him. it might take time, maybe a month or two, but it must work. Close mark him so that he doesnt do porn sites or have the videos.
Seems U guys are pampering him too much giving him enough money thats y he doesnt want to work.