Hello guys,

A friend of mine really needs advice. He travelled out of the country to Texas for a course about a year ago. As a smart guy, he discharged all his Naija female packages and ventured into the 'New world' a free man. However, to cut the long story short, he met a lady of Haitian descent that he fell in love with. It was love at first sight, and they supposedly bonded. She invited him to her church, introduced him to her family, and even suggested they get married weeks after meeting, supposedly to make them be together without sin. To my Naija guy in a Trump infected society, he gladly agreed. To him, this was too good to be true, and he felt on top of the world. However, like they say, if its too good to be true, it probably isn't. The first signs that something was wrong was when he realised her mother requested for a ring of high value to give his girl. The ring he brought was, according to the girls mother, was not of quality value, and enquired how he got it. She then took him shopping, got another ring and told him to pay for it later. Guy actually got the ring from the girls pastor, who, out of consideration, gave him a ring he was meant to give his wife. Apparently, the girls mum had recognised the ring and the info filtered to the girl. Na so the girl just start to de para for my guy... Back to back nagging... And this was the first red flag. Next, his girl agreed to still go ahead with the marriage, but started using foul language with the guy,which the guy tried to caution her against using on several occasions. Within this period, the girl got pregnant, and since they were having a marriage soon, it didn't matter. However, the girls behaviour became irritating day by day, always trying to dictate to the guy and all. Then it happened one day... They had a big argument and she said she was done. This was a day to their engagement, but she said they were gonna end the relationship. After intervention from the mother and grandmother, she changed her mind. On the engagement day, she went through her guys phone and saw a message to another girl. Right there again, she said she was calling it off.

Overtime, the crazy back and forths continued... She's done, pastor and family come between them and she changes her mind. All the while, the guy had started doubting her mental stability, and was concerned that her unstable nature could just lead to a divorce anytime, which was bad. Eventually, they had a terrible argument, where she promised to make sure he pays for child support even though they are not married. He also promised to make sure she deports him back, and make his life miserable. Mind u, the girl is in the US Navy and studied Law. This argument was the straw that broke the camels back, as my friend had to just end it,especially with later threats of her killing him. Now, my friend is concerned about her threats, and the prospect sof paying child support till the baby is 18. What do you advise him to do biko?

The girl is a very PARANOID soul.
She should give birth, and they know what to do after then.
She has him under her arm now, She has An Ace up her Sleeve.
Only your guy can know the right thing for him.

Been there, done that!

Can he relocate to another state? As funny as this girls attitude is, she might end up making real her threats. This is why naija guys come back home to marry
Lalasticlala, Mynd44 come and hep ur guy to avoid stories that touch

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He should do what he feels like doing.

You can just resist the temptation to comment if you have nothing meaningful to say.

@ OP, maybe ur friend can begin to keep video records of various moments of her irrational behavior. Something he could show the court when the time is right.
He can also file for custody in the process, on the grounds that she is mentally unstable and unfit to train a child.

he should come back home. simple

Inukwa!!!

He should have ended the whole thing the moment the babe's mum rejected the ring.

One chance apc style

Nigerian nigas and white women.... Enjoy your new white woman

Just close the story book

Make i no lié, i go still marry her than marry any stewpid naija girl olorun gbo

Give Me One Reason Why I Should Marry These ill-breded white Girls

espiritdav:
Hello guys,

A friend of mine really needs advice. He traveled out of the country to Texas for a course about a year ago. As a smart guy, he discharged all his Naija female packages and ventured into the 'New world' a free man. However, to cut the long story short, he met a lady of Haitian descent that he fell in love with. It was love at first sight, and they supposedly bonded. She invited him to her church, introduced him to her family, and even suggested they get married weeks after meeting, supposedly to make them be together without sin. To my Naija guy in a Trump infected society, he gladly agreed. To him, this was too good to be true, and he felt on top of the world. However, like they say, if its too good to be true, it probably isn't. The first signs that something was wrong was when he realized her mother requested for a ring of high value to give his girl. The ring he brought was, according to the girl's mother, was not of quality value, and enquired how he got it. She then took him shopping, got another ring and told him to pay for it later. Guy actually got the ring from the girl's pastor, who, out of consideration, gave him a ring he was meant to give his wife. Apparently, the girls mum had recognized the ring and the info filtered to the girl. Na so the girl just start to de para for my guy... Back to back nagging... And this was the first red flag. Next, his girl agreed to still go ahead with the marriage but started using foul language with the guy, which the guy tried to caution her against using on several occasions. Within this period, the girl got pregnant, and since they were having a marriage soon, it didn't matter. However, the girl's behavior became irritating day by day, always trying to dictate to the guy and all. Then it happened one day... They had a big argument and she said she was done. This was a day of their engagement, but she said they were gonna end the relationship. After intervention from the mother and grandmother, she changed her mind. On the engagement day, she went through her guy's phone and saw a message to another girl. Right there again, she said she was calling it off.

Over time, the crazy back and forths continued... She's done, pastor and family come between them and she changes her mind. All the while, the guy had started doubting her mental stability and was concerned that her unstable nature could just lead to a divorce anytime, which was bad. Eventually, they had a terrible argument, where she promised to make sure he pays for child support even though they are not married. He also promised to make sure she deports him back, and make his life miserable. Mind u, the girl is in the US Navy and studied Law. This argument was the straw that broke the camels back, as my friend had to just end it, especially with later threats of her killing him. Now, my friend is concerned about her threats, and the prospect of paying child support till the baby is 18. What do you advise him to do bike?

Make sure your friend doesn't sign any paternity papers until he gets a DNA test done on the child. What he has to do is to be there in the hospital when the child is born and request a DNA test, that way he will not have to pay for it. Tell him to record her threatening him.

agbonkamen:
Nigerian nigas and white women.... Enjoy your new white woman

He said she is Haitian.

DeadRat:
Give Me One Reason Why I Should Marry These ill-breded white Girls

Haitian is Black.

khiaa:

Haitian is Black.

whats Up... Remember me?

DeadRat:
whats Up... Remember me?

Of course, I do. How have you been?

khiaa:


Of course, I do. How have you been?

Doing Good Although We Still Struggling To Be More Important Than Cows over Here...



How Is California

espiritdav:
Hello guys,

A friend of mine really needs advice. He travelled out of the country to Texas for a course about a year ago. As a smart guy, he discharged all his Naija female packages and ventured into the 'New world' a free man. However, to cut the long story short, he met a lady of Haitian descent that he fell in love with. It was love at first sight, and they supposedly bonded. She invited him to her church, introduced him to her family, and even suggested they get married weeks after meeting, supposedly to make them be together without sin. To my Naija guy in a Trump infected society, he gladly agreed. To him, this was too good to be true, and he felt on top of the world. However, like they say, if its too good to be true, it probably isn't. The first signs that something was wrong was when he realised her mother requested for a ring of high value to give his girl. The ring he brought was, according to the girls mother, was not of quality value, and enquired how he got it. She then took him shopping, got another ring and told him to pay for it later. Guy actually got the ring from the girls pastor, who, out of consideration, gave him a ring he was meant to give his wife. Apparently, the girls mum had recognised the ring and the info filtered to the girl. Na so the girl just start to de para for my guy... Back to back nagging... And this was the first red flag. Next, his girl agreed to still go ahead with the marriage, but started using foul language with the guy,which the guy tried to caution her against using on several occasions. Within this period, the girl got pregnant, and since they were having a marriage soon, it didn't matter. However, the girls behaviour became irritating day by day, always trying to dictate to the guy and all. Then it happened one day... They had a big argument and she said she was done. This was a day to their engagement, but she said they were gonna end the relationship. After intervention from the mother and grandmother, she changed her mind. On the engagement day, she went through her guys phone and saw a message to another girl. Right there again, she said she was calling it off.

Overtime, the crazy back and forths continued... She's done, pastor and family come between them and she changes her mind. All the while, the guy had started doubting her mental stability, and was concerned that her unstable nature could just lead to a divorce anytime, which was bad. Eventually, they had a terrible argument, where she promised to make sure he pays for child support even though they are not married. He also promised to make sure she deports him back, and make his life miserable. Mind u, the girl is in the US Navy and studied Law. This argument was the straw that broke the camels back, as my friend had to just end it,especially with later threats of her killing him. Now, my friend is concerned about her threats, and the prospect sof paying child support till the baby is 18. What do you advise him to do biko?

My interest is what program did he go, men need comot this country is frustrating.

Anyways my advise is he should play the mugu get married her for the papers. If she divorces him the better, then he relocates to another state.

remain focused

khiaa:


Make sure your friend doesn't sign any paternity papers until he gets a DNA test done on the child. What he has to do is to be there in the hospital when the child is born and request a DNA test, that way he will not have to pay for it. Tell him to record her threatening him.

. lols DNA na moi moi abi, do you think carrying out DNA is so easy, the both couple have to be aware and ascertain to it. Moreover money for DNA no be rice and beans own ooo. So the guy better just look for a way out or if I were him I would just play along get some strong evidence to use against the gilr when the time finally comes. Getting a DNA done might reduce the guys bank account drastically, that is if he has the money sef .

Perfectnumber6:
. lols DNA na moi moi abi, do you think carrying out DNA is so easy, the both couple have to be aware and ascertain to it. Moreover money for DNA no be rice and beans own ooo. So the guy better just look for a way out or if I were him I would just play along get some strong evidence to use against the gilr when the time finally comes. Getting a DNA done might reduce the guys bank account drastically, that is if he has the money sef .

Did you even read my post? I told him to be at the hospital at the time of the child's birth and ask for a DNA test, that way the test will be free.