mzhorlah:
Number two tho,I choose not to believe

Then be ready to hit 40 and above

EmpressT:
Hmmmm..... As for me, I don't know if I am ready for marriage let alone relationship. And I'm in my late 20's. Although, my family especially my sisters are putting pressure gradually on me. As a matter of fact, I am the first child and a graduate with no job yet. But seriously, I don't see myself getting married not even in five years. Does anyone feels this way too? I hope say no be spiritual mata be dis o lolz

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Genevieve And Her Father Visits The Wakanda Kingdom


Genevieve Nnaji; Since the inception of this all black movie by Hollywood, it has been a thing of joy to the black race as it has been breaking records in the world.

With the whole waves the Black Panther movie made on internet, it will actually be a taboo if one didn't make any effort to see it.

Nollywood actress Genevieve Nnaji didn't miss out in the fun as she went to see the popular movie in the company of her father as she is yet to have a man in her life.

The father who seems to be on a visit in his daughter's house is actually having the fun of his life as Genevieve is putting up a father and daughter goals to make sure his visit is an exciting one.

From the lovely photo Genevieve shared, she made her sense of humor visible as she said that she and her father is going to show the Wakadians their real Nzeobi. Nzeobi is referred to as a king in the Igbo nation of Nigeria.

She wrote: "Look who’s going to the cinema to show the #wakandians who their #NzeObi is.

It was reported by Nigeriafilms that the actress has abandoned her first love which is acting, as she is seriously in love with her new found love of directing after she first had her experience in the production of ‘Lion’s Heart’.

http://www.mcebisco.com.ng/2018/03/genevieve-and-her-father-visits-wakanda.html

EmpressT:
Hmmmm..... As for me, I don't know if I am ready for marriage let alone relationship. And I'm in my late 20's. Although, my family especially my sisters are putting pressure gradually on me. As a matter of fact, I am the first child and a graduate with no job yet. But seriously, I don't see myself getting married not even in five years. Does anyone feels this way too? I hope say no be spiritual mata be dis o lolz

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Martin0:

hia hmm

Nah me dey talk to you and you dey answer hmm? come here

so insightful. well done.

dumo1:

If the lady doesn't have this number 1 quality then she is F9 in Lefulefu list o! He's not called Nairaland's Minister for Ukwu affairs for nothing.

tosyne2much:
Ahn ahn No whine me jawe

Which one is whine again allow this love to flow you won't after now you'll be the one to write TEN REASONS why girls don't want to open up to a guy they like biko look into my matter

Biglittlelois:
It seems in this part of the world, ladies are supposed to adjust themselves for men, no matter what has it ever occur to you guys that it goes both ways

Read through the entire post and didn't see were the op mentioned that the ladies have to adjust dem selves to men also didnt see were he said the men can not adjust themselves... What the western world is doing to u young women is Just unfortunate.. Leaves u half baked, at the end of the day u don't fit anywhere... instead of you to see the good in what he has said and learn... U r busy talking women r equal to men stuff...true that we r all equal in terms of essence but we r not and can never be equal in terms of function.. Which is were u r missing it... Every point he has raised are wise n will work for any society... Except for the society of your kind...

biacan:
Nah me dey talk to you and you dey answer hmm? come here

hapu nu mu amu Biko

TheMinimalist:
I think the term tall,dark and handsome is very discriminatory. that statement didn't originally apply and still doesn't apply to black people . Dark simply means tanned . I'm sure black people would protest if it was reversed "tall,white and handsome"
In any case, the statement makes no logical sense . A healthy skin is suppose to be bright and glowing ,not darkening . when you drink lots of water and eat healthy food,what do you expect for your skin?
The term tall,and especially dark,and handsome is one of the fallacious statements propagated by ignorance . A healthy skin is suppose to be bright and glowing ,whether the individual is black ,white ,mixed race , or Asian

funny things is some girls don't even want a dark skinned guy at all,no dark skinned guy is among the list of sexiest men alive.especially in Nigeria, girls love anything foreign and rich. my biracial cousin came back last year,mehn you need to see how girls were making mess of themselves for his attention.good looks and money gets girls easily.

Martin0:

hapu nu mu amu Biko

Hahahahahaa....

jy2kbeyond:




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LordKO:
High intellect (quality brain) without good/high ethical and emotional quotients is balderdash - intelligence alone can never be a deciding factor in conquering any sane and sound man's heart, mental saneness can take its place and accompanied by the aforementioned values. It can only be an added advantage.

To your second point, you ought to know that wish isn't a proponent of reciprocity - beauty still remain in the eye of the beholder.

As for your number three, your postulation can only be true if the lady in question is conscientious - some people are so confused to the extent that only persuasion can make them to act properly.

With regards to number 4, even though I'm not a proponent and practitioner of violence or abuse of any kind yet, you need to understand that action begets reaction - therefore, there's a possibility that a man who assaulted his woman once may not repeat it again in his lifetime, especially if the woman avoid doing the same thing(s) that brought about the physical abuse in the first instance. . . I hold no brief for small-minded men.

Coming to your number 5, until the rule of exception becomes a crime, I don't see the logic behind the postulation.

That number 6 can only be true when mental saneness replaced quality brain (high intellect).

The rest of your submissions are perfectly in order.

Saneness? I thought the correct term was 'sanity?'

Op nice one...but am a bit not clear on point 11, does it mean,he shouldn't be consulted when an advice is needed? What exactly please?

LaudableXX:


Saneness? I thought the correct term was 'sanity?'

Sanity is its variant. Personally, I'm of the believe that saneness fitted well in the context I used it.

A man can introduce you to all the members of his family and even his ancestors, and Marry another lady four months after breaking up with you

There is no perfect template for how this things turn out. We just have to know the basics and hope every other thing falls in place. All this list here and there is exhausting

merxi55:
Op nice one...but am a bit not clear on point 11, does it mean,he shouldn't be consulted when an advice is needed? What exactly please?

What the OP is trying to say is that when you put a man in a position whereby you make him feel you need his content and advice to take certain steps, it boosts the man's ego and he will show you more love.

You shouldn't act like you know more than your man. Even if you do, never show it. Always learn to take correction too.

These are little tricks in handling men that some women don't know

Tednersy:
Everyone is Sapiosexual these days. Good thing I've got both.

Then, you are rare.. Though someone would need to confirm it..

Biglittlelois:
It seems in this part of the world, ladies are supposed to adjust themselves for men, no matter what has it ever occur to you guys that it goes both ways

U have to adjust firstly to the man style if u want lasting marriage then the man will reciprocate when he see how dedicated ur

11,You cannot be seeking advice when your partner is not open to hearing you out.

Lightening:


Painment! Truth is bitter anyway.

Try to investigate before you quote

God help us all

tosyne2much:
What the OP is trying to say is that when you put a man in a position whereby you make him feel you need his content and advice to take certain steps, it boosts the man's ego and he will show you more love.

You shouldn't act like you know more than your man. Even if you do, never show it. Always learn to take correction too.

These are little tricks in handling men that some women don't know

okay...thanks

no 14. stop waiting for that bros abroad(who is never coming back) and stick to one of dz hustling guys here that have good vision and plans and join them to build their future & urs

As a single lady, don't forget to seek financial knowledge and build a career, don't depend on any man for money.
Above all, don't get entangled with in bad habits that keep people poor.

See 20 of the habits here:
http://myafribusiness.com/20-money-habits-that-keep-you-poor-and-how-to-avoid-them/

JoaquinElChapo:
This is what I always tell my friends, marriage will soon go extinct. Men don't want commitments anymore and women don't want to humble themselves and be under men anymore. It's a sad thing

Not true. Forget the fact that girls just make mouth or men try to act macho. In marriage, they calm down most times.

tosyne2much:
You never see girl wey pretty die but you no go get joy in that relationship

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https://www.nairaland.com/4353398/handsome-devil-know