We are living in the days when peoples opinion and perceiption about us takes the Lion's share about our decisions in life. This is overwhelmness!-What will people say: friends, relatives, collegues about this and that? The fear of the unknown?Hmmm? having too much to do, sort, comprehend, accomplish, straighten and yet, no enough time, mental clarity, solid mindset, purposeful justification, worthwhile self esteem to doing those things. We seem to be overwhelm when approaching our 30s and our mates are married, and yet no true love. When we have given our hearts to those we truely loved and yet deceived. When time clicks on us and age count on us, and people watched us like spectators and yet, no one to truely confide in. When you have given everything: body, money, trust, happiness, sincerity, even your stand against moral promiscuity to sustain a relationship, and yet it cascade because of the abundance of unscrupulous men/boys who parade themselves only for sexaul gratification, yet in deceiption. You do not need to be overwhelm, rash in decisions, yield to popular opininon, succumb to pressure and villification of men. This is the time to stand up, think up, brush up, fortify up and take responsibility of your life. It is when things go wrong that you must not give up, HERE ARE SOME TIPS:

* Have this belief, what belongs to you cannot pass you by: sure it is comming though you do not know the exact time
*Dont live your life in the opinions of others and build your self esteem
*Face your challenges and critique it, avoid regret however bad your past is, make up your mind to fix it
* Dont take decision on pressure, frustration, or to fill the vacum in your heart, take decision based on a long life goals
*Carry God along in all the matters of life even in a relationship because you rarely know how evil the heart of men are.
*Be practical, go for want you want, dont play games, dont just settle for anything, go for something
*Strategically locate yourself in the bearing of what you are looking for. This really matters, Dont expect an husband materials in night clubs!
*Dont forget! everybody has his/her own time in this life, your appointed time will definitely come if you can hold on.

Wishing everyone the best!

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