Say a worst case, I have a friend who has a girlfriend (now wife), she was in a motor accident, I respect this man oo words can't describe, she hurt her spine now she is not able to move from her waste down, the guy did not leave the girl (He could've if he wanted because they didn't even live together and were together for less than 2 years), he stood by her, for 6 months, he slept at the hospital, she came out, he improved his house (with his own money) to suit her, her parents were not wealthy and couldn't afford much to help her on their own, I volunteered to help because I own a construction firm and helped for free, seeing that girl you really see hope in humanity, he payed tuition fees, studied through a distance programme, and graduated 2 years ago, they also tied the knot 3 years ago, I was at the graduation I couldn't help but shed a tear, I know that alot of people wouldn't do that, now if your partner you claim you love (even if its for less than a year) gets disabled, to the point that you have to clean them, put them to bed, would you stay or flee?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qbbek8aXBtc&feature=related

Watch that see what manner of love it is.