I guess he got married to beans and not a woman.

The man most be stup*d n s*ck in the brain for him to compare a woman and a wife with beans.

If his wife is beans, I wonder what is he.

Best question for criminal minded people

actually i dnt eat beans.... but i can eat Fufu for 50years, all i care is how d fufu is served

AntiBrutus:
His wife is beans? And he convinced himself he is some balanced diet? Not knowing he is agidi jollof.

So, he goes about in search of other nutrients, inserting his third leg in every stray nunu. No fear or respect for his family.

Any married person with this mentality, Ogun will fire you...lest, you expose your spouse/family to danger.

Kill yourself!

HungerBAD:


My Sister I eat beans for my undergraduate days wey me sef tire. Morning beans and Garri. Afternoon beans soup and swallow. Night I go chop the left over from morning.

No I no wan even see beans with my eyes, let alone chop an for 10 yrs.

zone. b

So hin wife toto na beans? Not even fried rice and chicken.. Not even baked potatoes and calamari prawns.. beans!

If i must eat beans for ten years then I will spice things up by adding rice in the mix and chop them at once

TheUpsetGirl:
what kinda misogynistic and sexist thread is this

You're truly an upset girl

HungerBAD:
Interesting question.

No I can't.

You're "HungerBad" and FTC on a thread that has beans in it, good one bro you're what you say you are.

Na this wan be beans of life

BrideOfDracula:
What a foolish question. If he can support the same soccer team almost all his life, go to the same bar or whatever the Bleep else he does on a loop, then he is capable of giving the same dedication & loyalty to his wife/marriage, he just doesn't want to. I don't know how some women put up with men like this.

chisos!see name

Cc Lsofdk
You suppose marry this woman.

very inspiring response

bettercreature:
He is not a foolish man.As a man you will cheat at some point but sadly most people wont admit it

Comments like this make me puke cheating is not a gender thing but an individual thing.FYI there are women who cheat more than men the only difference is that men cheat openly while women cheat secretly.

Being in a marriage or relationship is not defined by feelings but choice....

Its a choice to stay faithful....or chop beans for 10 years!

If All U are left with is just beans,then try to spice it up wit other cool ingredients that will give U a different taste!

Its not an excuse to start cheating because every one has the capability to cheat...male and female...What would happen if his wife has that same "boring beans" mentality like him?

TheUpsetGirl:
what kinda misogynistic and sexist thread is this

then get ur upset self out of it. Simple

this man excuse no hold water,just flimsy

kikikikikiki ha my ches kikikikiki d guy don tire for beans e wan dey chop fried eba nd roasted shawarma. i rem. d day i chop over night beans my ass puffed out kikiki Lwkmd.

AntiBrutus:
His wife is beans? And he convinced himself he is some balanced diet? Not knowing he is agidi jollof.

So, he goes about in search of other nutrients, inserting his third leg in every stray nunu. No fear or respect for his family.

Any married person with this mentality, Ogun will fire you...lest, you expose your spouse/family to danger.

His wife was once a "stray nunu". And other ladies out there who also like the good things of life. And not every lady carries a disease.

Take care of your wife. Wife take care of your husband. If your sex life is dull, introduce variety to spice it up (you can't be doing missionary style every day nah )

Cheating with different women is a very expensive lifestyle. I ain't got time for that shit

BrideOfDracula:
What a foolish question. If he can support the same soccer team almost all his life, go to the same bar or whatever the Bleep else he does on a loop, then he is capable of giving the same dedication & loyalty to his wife/marriage, he just doesn't want to. I don't know how some women put up with men like this.

Thats a Dracula sense of logic.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Comments like this make me puke cheating is not a gender thing but an individual thing.FYI there are women who cheat more than men the only difference is that men cheat openly while women cheat secretly.

Yes women do cheats when they are deprived of sex or they need to do it to get what they want not when they are satisfied with everything but as for men they cheats for pleasure and to show that they are still in control
Do you even know most animals cheats and masturbate?Everything we men are doing is not our fault that is how we are created it's just sad most people wont admit it

BrideOfDracula:
What a foolish question. If he can support the same soccer team almost all his life, go to the same bar or whatever the Bleep else he does on a loop, then he is capable of giving the same dedication & loyalty to his wife/marriage, he just doesn't want to. I don't know how some women put up with men like this.

Ur first line answered all the silly questions the man asked.
"if he can support the same soccer team almost all his life".

We can have same thing in different ways but ignorance and a wrong beliefs makes us think we are entrapped when actually we are not

Educative and interesting for the wise.

Good question

kingkakaone:

Ur first line answered all the silly questions the man asked.
"if he can support the same soccer team almost all his life".

We can have same thing in different ways but ignorance and a wrong beliefs makes us think we are entrapped when actually we are not

True.

He's a typical small-minded man. His kind of person and impunity are inseparable - he'll raise hell if he catches his wife cheating on him. Hypocrite.

Go closer to him and you'll find out that he's a submission rather than submissiveness propagator.

I think this question should be responded to only by married men.

I can read comments of some inexperience dudes here.

Marriage isn't boyfriend /girlfriend thing.

Truth is, it takes the grace of God and loads of self-control and luck for a man to eat beans for 10 years. However, if you may try a different cuisine,divorce is an option. If not, be responsible and always use your palms to grab your cassava through your pocket in case it decides to misbehave uncontrollably.

HeWrites:
A Nigerian man identified as Obidike Pedro Ifeanyi has taken to his Facebook page to shared his encounter with a married man after he questioned him why he cheated on his wife. The married man replied him "Can you eat beans for ten years?".

Read what Ifeanyi wrote below;
"A Man Cheating On His Wife Asked Me This Question After I Challenged Him Why He Cheated On His Wife.

SIR, CAN YOU EAT ONLY BEANS FOR TEN YEARS?

At first I didn't know how to answer him because it sounded as if he was making sense but God gave me an inspiration to answer him. Immediately, I replied: yes, I can. He laughed at me and looked at me with a question written on his face, how?

In reality I love beans so much and that makes me not get tired of eating it daily. But for me to continue to enjoy my beans I transform my beans into many things so I don't eat beans everyday and every time.

I can make beans cake (akara) for breakfast and momoi for lunch from the same beans. I can garnish my beans with varieties and spice it up with different spices.

I also asked him if he ever heard a scenario where a doctor advised his patient to avoid some set of food and stick to a particular or some particular ones? That is because those other food can damage his health or send him to his early grave.

Then he protested again, but sir, for a healthy living one needs to eat balanced diet. I became dumbfounded for a minute before another inspiration came. I realized that the Israelites ate only manna for forty years and no single one among them was sick for those forty years. Their sickness started when they requested for variety, "we need meat they said". God gave them enough meat, they ate and it was coming out of their noses.

When you eat what God is not happy with, it will come out of your nose. God is not happy with adultery.

He wanted to ask me further question but he paused and asked me to explain my previous answers. Then I explained thus;

Your spouse is the beans and if you truly love her you can never be tired of her. To transform my beans into akara and momoi means every man should spend on their wives to change their look as often as possible. Change her hairstyle weekly, change her wardrobe often, buy her what makes you attracted to other women outside.

Also, garnishing it with varieties and spicing it up with different spices require that you do some romantic things like using different styles at the bedroom, doing it elsewhere different from your home, making the place smell nice etc. Christian couples must be creative in their bedroom. Nudity and immodest dressing is not ideal outside but not in the the bedroom. Deliberately expose your cleavages and tigh for your husband, make your towel drop deliberately, bend down in front of him to pick it etc. Tempt him, seduce him and be his prostitute.

Your wife is a manna from heaven and she is a complete balanced diet. In her, there is protein, carbohydrate, fat, vitamin and minerals. That is why every woman has same contents. Though the container may differ in size and height. And like you know that the content of milk is what makes it milk and not the container, you use the milk and throw away the tin.

Don't take a bite from the forbidden fruit, it may look attractive but it is poisonous. Strange women may look attractive but they are poisonous and deadly, don't take a bite.
Thanks"

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/see-the-question-a-married-man-ask-a-man-who-questioned-him-for-cheating-on-his-wife.html