A Nigerian lady is sending you flowers?
Maybe it is not in Nigeria otherwise am seeing trappings of lies.

Huncle , I'm using God's name to beg you, don't generalise. Some of us can't even stand younger men. I can't even consider dating a younger man , I feel it's an insult to me. In the first place, how would I respect you ?

Even thou you aren't interested in dating her,please be diplomatic and lovingly make her know your position. Seriously you wouldn't want to toy with her emotions

safarigirl:
I wonder if you would be saying this if the old woman in question was a Linda Ikeji typa oldie

I think I like the op if all he wrote here happens to be true....
better not to get her emotional attached when he knows...he has no feelings and affection towards her...no need waste her time....
the lady in question I think should be quite rich though....

some guys will like start sleep with her and swindle her money...... that made no sense as it is inhumane

Older babes dig younger folks, especially when you are cute and always show interest in their plenty gists. They feel more secured and most times they just wanna make up for the wasted years.

THUNDER4real:
@op don't mind them if a girl friend zone u....if ur a guy man, u can find ur way out...

Friendzone is more complicated than what you think. It comes with juju-like attachment. Friendzone is never the intention of the opposite sex but due to men's insistence and peservance. in most cases, it is even the men that will pitifully say to the woman, "i know you have a man and i respect that. i respect the fact you do not want to cheat on him but we can always remain friends". that is how ot starts. the man will be hoping that the woman would yield.

taylor89:
OP on behalf of the Nigeria men u don fall our hand




A free served pvssy with fried rice and chicken u could not grab it



What's your business with age gap when she ain't insisting on marriage at first



Most times i fvcckk till my preek cracks because i know someone somewhere is fvckkking my GF or future wife



If any lady tries this nonsense with me even if she's 85 am breaking her waist



When i was in unical i hear some of my niggaz saying if you don't want to be raped by girls don't go to female hostel Hall 8 or 9



From the day that announcement was given that was the day i started hunting female hostel by 11pm or 12am still no God sent rapist coming forth



Better carry those your two left legs now and go to her room and fvcckk her like she's owing you N5m




Ewu

OMG so in this country there's still good hearted and God fearing people like this....
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E be like say you give am green light at some point during the friendship. E fit get one time like that wey you use your prick dey reason and she pick am up as legit. Na you be the architect of your problem. Guy, goan fúck that woman senseless, then tell her you just served her pity sex.

If she's an afonja, please refrain from following my advice. Ni ibe lo ma ku si to ba try e.

Jman06:
Far above sef...

Op
I think you need correct that your thread title....
just because someone love you does not mean she is misbehaving....
love is a beautiful thing...same lady in love wit you don't be surprised some one...somewhere is begging for her attention....and he is not getting it.

please apprecaite her and don't look down on her even though you not interested....show her some respect and let her know your stance.....

Checked86:
Friendzone is more complicated than what you think. It comes with juju-like attachment. Friendzone is never the intention of the opposite sex but due to men's insistence and peservance. in most cases, it is even the men that will pitifully say to the woman, "i know you have a man and i respect that. i respect the fact you do not want to cheat on him but we can always remain friends". that is how ot starts. the man will be hoping that the woman would yield.

I have always find myself in the situation....

MissWrite:


Show her this thread that you've opened on her matter; she'll leave you alone in a heartbeat. Yes, it might hurt her that you don't reciprocate her feelings. But when she sees that you're the type of person who would trash-talk her (and all older women for her sake) on NL rather than tell her directly and precisely how you feel about her, she might realize this is a win for her too.

ITK

This is an ANONYMOUS forum for a reason.
I hope my point is not lost on you.

I hope that is not her picture op displayed....if it is, that's low! The truth is, a woman won't just start sending you love messages even if she is desperate...something must have happened before that....maybe you led her on somehow and later got to know how old she is...but anyways, just tell her now before she comes to nairaland shouting "men are wicked"

stephleena:
thus o.p, reminds me of Toyin lawani's baby daddy..Lord triggs.

Lord Trigg, big baller.

MissWrite:


Show her this thread that you've opened on her matter; she'll leave you alone in a heartbeat. Yes, it might hurt her that you don't reciprocate her feelings. But when she sees that you're the type of person who would trash-talk her (and all older women for her sake) on NL rather than tell her directly and precisely how you feel about her, she might realize this is a win for her too.

wisdom most times is not all about age or level of education it's our level of understanding towards life...You earn my respect �

you should tell her your mind. but the truth is that age is just a number, it doesnt really mean, some guy are into older ladies and is working out well for them. personally i like someone younger than me anyway

menh I love dating them older


they can be royal as if your there God

using you to tell the next man,she ain't for sex,but marriage

then after,go come Bleep the hell outta your preek

with them,u can never be in p**sy scarcity

just my fear,is when they finally got married,they'll still want to keep you around the damn old p**sy

Age is just a number,have seen a lot of younger guys with older ladies and they are happy with thé relationship

Op give me her control . sh o

OP is just a child. Age is a number, son. Older women rock.

Soft, sweet, pliable and good to fvck. When you grow up you'll regret spurning this lady. Believe me.

Jman06:
There's this lady i met sometime last year. She would be like in her late 30s or early 40s while i am in my late 20s. Just because i was always talking to her then, she started forming love for me. The truth is that i just enjoyed her company because she is this kind of jovial person, but I am not attracted to her. Besides, the age gap is so wide that i cannot have anything with her. Had it been i am attracted to her, i would have considered maybe a fling with her but the attraction is not just there and
i am this kind of guy that doesn't get even an errection if i am not attracted to a lady.

Now, she sends me flowers and love messages every morning. I have been ignoring the messages hoping that she would understand the fact that I am not into her but she keeps sending them.

Please ladies, if you need a man make sure you get one on time before you join the league of desperadoes. Guys generally date and marry down. I can only marry a lady who is at least 5years younger, not an older lady.

Please, how else should i make that lady understand that i am not into her

You're Demisexual. We plenty!

Humility017:

I have always find myself in the situation....

...and i said that out of experience.

by d tym dey supposed to huk up dem dey form familiarity.

Well op, urs is even better, mine is even married women, i dont kn y if its because of d vow i have made btween me & my God not 2 have anytime with any married woman, whether the devil is trying so hard 2 make me break the vow.
Just continue 2 ignore her, she will get the hint and leave u alone. Those of u saying be man enogh n tell her, its nt really easy cos atimes u consider their feelings too n hw they will react 2 such news.
One more thing op, if u have girlfriend let her kn abt her n try 2 show her how much u love ur girl, it will let her digest the message faster.

Checked86:
...and i said that out of experience.

I am currently in with one lady
I know she is in a relationship but I have automatically made myself the standby boyfriend....
though the guy is not too serious with her...I don't know what's her problem sticking to such a guy.

taylor89:
OP on behalf of the Nigeria men u don fall our hand



folks like you are d reason some women think men are weak in bed



A free served pvssy with fried rice and chicken u could not grab it



What's your business with age gap when she ain't insisting on marriage at first



Most times i fvcckk till my preek cracks because i know someone somewhere is fvckkking my GF or future wife


There's no way i can fvckkk a lady and she still finds her way home within 2 hours without falling



If any lady tries this nonsense with me even if she's 85 am breaking her waist



When i was in unical i hear some of my niggaz saying if you don't want to be raped by girls don't go to female hostel Hall 8 or 9



From the day that announcement was given that was the day i started hunting female hostel by 11pm or 12am still no God sent rapist coming forth



Better carry those your two left legs now and go to her room and fvcckk her like she's owing you N5m



Give me the location I'll be coming with food incase u faint




Ewu

abeg o i fitin't laff

taylor89:
OP on behalf of the Nigeria men u don fall our hand



folks like you are d reason some women think men are weak in bed



A free served pvssy with fried rice and chicken u could not grab it



What's your business with age gap when she ain't insisting on marriage at first



Most times i fvcckk till my preek cracks because i know someone somewhere is fvckkking my GF or future wife


There's no way i can fvckkk a lady and she still finds her way home within 2 hours without falling



If any lady tries this nonsense with me even if she's 85 am breaking her waist



When i was in unical i hear some of my niggaz saying if you don't want to be raped by girls don't go to female hostel Hall 8 or 9



From the day that announcement was given that was the day i started hunting female hostel by 11pm or 12am still no God sent rapist coming forth



Better carry those your two left legs now and go to her room and fvcckk her like she's owing you N5m



Give me the location I'll be coming with food incase u faint




Ewu

I swear dis guy u don mad finish...no kee person with lafta abeg...lmao!!

taylor89:
OP on behalf of the Nigeria men u don fall our hand



folks like you are d reason some women think men are weak in bed



A free served pvssy with fried rice and chicken u could not grab it



What's your business with age gap when she ain't insisting on marriage at first



Most times i fvcckk till my preek cracks because i know someone somewhere is fvckkking my GF or future wife


There's no way i can fvckkk a lady and she still finds her way home within 2 hours without falling



If any lady tries this nonsense with me even if she's 85 am breaking her waist



When i was in unical i hear some of my niggaz saying if you don't want to be raped by girls don't go to female hostel Hall 8 or 9



From the day that announcement was given that was the day i started hunting female hostel by 11pm or 12am still no God sent rapist coming forth



Better carry those your two left legs now and go to her room and fvcckk her like she's owing you N5m



Give me the location I'll be coming with food incase u faint




Ewu

I know if Buhari give you five fine girls to Bleep, you will change your mind and vote him. Nonsense!

Naija babe send u flower? Hmm op...easy o!

Humility017:


I am currently in with one lady
I know she is in a relationship but I have automatically made myself the standby boyfriend....
though the guy is not too serious with her...I don't know what's her problem sticking to such a guy.

to be honest with you, Friendzone is the bad place to be. though no one is above it. You said the guy is not serious with her. that is always the belief, but to the girl, the devil you know is better than the angel next door.
I have once friendzoned by a girl and her family didn't support her relationship with her lover then. Eventually, they went their separate ways. She told me everything, how it happened and why her family didn't want them together. i was happy. very, very happy. i assumed the office of her boyfriend only to realise i was never in competition.
the only way to minimize the hurt of friendzone is to avoid investing time and money. this way, even if you fail, she will be just another girl.

taylor89:
OP on behalf of the Nigeria men u don fall our hand



folks like you are d reason some women think men are weak in bed



A free served pvssy with fried rice and chicken u could not grab it



What's your business with age gap when she ain't insisting on marriage at first



Most times i fvcckk till my preek cracks because i know someone somewhere is fvckkking my GF or future wife


There's no way i can fvckkk a lady and she still finds her way home within 2 hours without falling



If any lady tries this nonsense with me even if she's 85 am breaking her waist



When i was in unical i hear some of my niggaz saying if you don't want to be raped by girls don't go to female hostel Hall 8 or 9



From the day that announcement was given that was the day i started hunting female hostel by 11pm or 12am still no God sent rapist coming forth



Better carry those your two left legs now and go to her room and fvcckk her like she's owing you N5m



Give me the location I'll be coming with food incase u faint




Ewu

Hommie no jokes you got me laughing out loud here

OP wagbayi
sense no go kill you. She fit don cook efo riro keep dey wait you.
That was how we asked one of our guys that went ahead to marry an ex hussler - e ji kwa uche gi eme?