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| She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by merbenko: 6:10pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
A close friend of mine was threating by his girlfriend, that if he can't secure a job by December she will break up with him . He graduated 2014 and served 2015 that was the year he started dating her after his service. He is managing with a private school after various attempt to set his hands on a lucrative job. He called me yesterday and told me about the issue. My answer, is to let her go even before December because if wishes are horses no one will like to be poor. Please if there is any opinion more that I need your help. Please |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Homeboiy: 6:17pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Op, if you are a graduate, I say shame on you look at your English don't you know the difference between present and pass tense threatened, break and called... me wey no go school better pass you 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Apus: 6:18pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
merbenko: He had no business dating her in d first place. Your advice is Okay. He should let her go cos it seems her presence will have no good on him other than make him tensed. Dude should double his hustle and pray hard, only time will tell. 1 Like |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by gunners160(m): 6:23pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
what do u need our help for after u have already advised him? Habi you just wan knw if what you told him was right? 1 Like |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by donstan18: 6:29pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Both of them should leave each other and go hustle financially for themselves. Both partners can't be poor and still be prioritizing relationship hubbub, kerfuffle, ruckus , rumpus and brouhaha, they should leave each other for good. Relationship with threats and financial pressure from a partner is a big scam to love. 7 Likes |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by CAPSLOCKED: 6:31pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
LOL, BROS.. LET HIM BREAK UP WITH HER NOW BEFORE SHE BREAKS HIS HEART AND OTHER VITAL ORGANS IN HIS BODY BY DECEMBER. DOES SHE HAVE A JOB? I'M SURE THE KOBOS YOU WIN FROM YOUR PRIMARY SCHOOL JOB.. YOU SPEND IT ALL ON HER. THERE ARE MANY FISHES IN THE SEA, AND SHE'S NOBODY TO SET SUCH STANDARDS. THE SOONER YOU DISPOSE THE GARBAGE, THE BETTER FOR YOU.  |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Nobody: 6:33pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Homeboiy:Dont correct if you can't do so properly. Pass tense indeed. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:39pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
the important question to ask IS.... A) does she have a job herself? B) is she trying to encourage him to better his life OR just looking for her own selfish agenda here 3 Likes |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by thesicilian: 6:49pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
OP tell your friend it'd be a big mistake to let that girl go. A girl that has been with him for 3yrs of his jobless (underemployed) life is a wife material until proven otherwise. I'm sure she made that statement after seeing him becoming too comfortable with having nothing, just plain lazy. So instead of seeing her as a bad person, he should use the December ultimatum as a strong driving force to get a better job or business idea before then. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by matrix199(m): 6:54pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Homeboiy: Look at yours. 1 Like |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Belafonte(m): 7:07pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
thesicilian: Merbenko, I urge you to ignore this comment. A wife material will make do with whatever her man can offer her materially, she will not be making silly threats and issuing nonsense ultimatums. I'd she wants to leave she can leave now, why wait till december. Repeat to your friend, he should dump her now and love on with his life. I guarantee you that girl is already shopping for a replacement, that's if she hasn't even found one already. Her time is past, she has already checked out mentally, she's only hanging in there for sentimental reasons. Let him forget her and face his future. 3 Likes |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by siegfried99(m): 7:11pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Depends if she is trying to motivate him.. But she should also set realistic goals as there are several things beyond his capabilities. . Nobody wants a menial job. 1 Like |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:13pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Belafonte: what if that man has NOTHING to offer?! should she stay with him? the reality is that you NEED money to LIVE (aka feed yourself, put a roof over your head, clothes, sanity etc) so if you cant do that for 3 long yrs then it puts a strand on your r/ship and people will start looking for other life options. it s a natural process and if you believe that couple can survive together on love and fresh air, then you best wake up quick/ 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Belafonte(m): 7:21pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: She's free to leave him if he has nothing to offer, women have been doing that for millennia, it's nothing new. Maybe he's a late bloomer or a slow learner or just down on his luck or whatever. Nobody knows, but the moment threats and ultimatums are introduced into a relationship it's no longer organic, pressure has been introduced. And I can tell you that if this relationship continues and the guy gets a better job, as if good jobs are just waiting to be picked, this guy will reevaluate his commitment to that relationship. No body's forcing her to stay, she can leave today or she can give him a good job, I'm sure she has plenty lying around, she should dash him only one. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Demmtek(m): 7:28pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
op tell your friend to accelerate before her babe brake up with her in december there is still time he can accelerate to so many business option or find a better job we all know it is not easy. |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Belafonte(m): 7:35pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Demmtek: He shoukd accelerate fir himself and dump the babe. If she knew how to make money, she would be showing him. She doesnt and is now pressuring him to find any means so she can get money to be spending anyhow. Bleep that. |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Nobody: 7:37pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
he should leave the relationship and focus on his life, it's a win win, no pressure and he can plan his life out. there is no soul-mate or true love or wife that is meant to be. |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Shugavee(f): 7:49pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Will breaking up with her guarantee him a job?? Like hello!! She has been dating the guy 4 more than 2years n he is still jobless?? For her to give him time,that means she still believes in him! Tell ur friend to be patient, things ain't easy for her either!!! 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by aliunath(m): 7:50pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
[/quote]Homeboiy:[quote author=Homeboiy post=66539773]Op, if you are a graduate, I say shame on you Homeboiy: |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Nobody: 7:55pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Shugavee: Or you mean the other way around ? it's the lady threatening to break up with the guy. Does she have a job if she does she can breakup and move on, if that's what she wants. |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:56pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Belafonte: and thats possibly what she is doing... or do you expect her to stay with this unfortunate man forever, hanging on to a dream?! would you stay with a person who has been failing for 3 yrs?! abeg stop the hypocrisy, and accept that people should focus on LIVING, instead of thinking that love is bigger than life. there is a time when you have to set that r/ship aside and focus on your damn self, let go of all the dead weight that are setting your destiny backward. is it nice, nope, but certainly has to be done! the ultimatum is to give him a 3 month chance to redeem himself, instead of just walking away from this man with NO LIFE (you certainly have no life if you cant fend for your own basic life needs)! 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Shugavee(f): 8:10pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
pcguru1:but she didn't say she was breaking up with him now naw!!! If she has lost hope she would hv broken up with him immediately!! I dont know if she has a job , but if she doesn't she should! |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by UDUJ(m): 8:32pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
merbenko: smhWrong diction, poor context, no paragraphs I wouldn't be surprised if the op is a graduate. Mushroom graduates everywhere 2 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Nobody: 8:37pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
He should let her go so as to have peace of mind and besides, breaking up with her ought to be a blessing in disguise cos now he will have more time to concentrate and develop himself. |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Shugavee(f): 8:38pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Lol they has started!! Give him advice jor |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Shugavee(f): 8:38pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Lol they have started!! Give him advice jor |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by UDUJ(m): 8:42pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Shugavee: Shugavee dearest. If we allow everyone write like this and we don't caution them, how do you want Nairaland to stand alongside worldclass forums like Quora and Reddit? 2 Likes
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| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Nobody: 8:44pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Shugavee:total crap. @ op... Since she's issuing threats of dumping him then he should take the initiative and break up with her. That's what a real man does.anything other than this will have an effect on his self esteem.he does not need such a woman in his life. |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Shugavee(f): 8:49pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
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| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Ferdinandu(m): 9:06pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
merbenko:Tell yourself the truth. Are you happy with yourself as you are poor like that. Your Girlfriend must have seen you becoming too relaxed on mere cheap private school teacher salary. You need something to push you up. Don't allow a temporary blessing become a permanent solution. Your Gf maybe the positive force God is trying to use to make you uncomfortable from your temporary blessing to move up to something bigger. You shouldn't tag every girl who is pushing you to wake up to bigger opportunities as Gold Diggers. Reject life of mediocrity. Challenge yourself. Widen your horizon. You can never sustain a family with basic necessity with your present condition. The Girl has a valid reason to be worried. But at the same time you supposed to have known her and her xter to differentiate between Gold digging mentality and a valid concern of a loved one. 2 Likes |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Nobody: 9:11pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
if he borrowing money from her, yep. |
| Re: She Told him She Will Break Up With Him By December If He Didn't Secure A Job by Nobody: 9:43pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
Shugavee: lol be honest if you were given the same condition would you adhere knowing it's something beyond your power. anyway it's OP wahala |
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