Don't let your romantic getaway turn into a trip of nightmares with these handy tips for your first holiday together

When you're in the midst of a blossoming romance, going on your first holiday together as a couple is a very exciting milestone - but it's also a great test of your relationship.

"A first holiday together is a real indicator, not just of the level of commitment within a relationship, but also what the future together might look like," explains relationship expert and behavioural psychologist Jo Hemmings.

"You'll notice aspects of each other that you might not have recognised before and you'll see each other at your best and your worst."


Jo teamed up with Forest Holidays to compile a handy guide for navigating through your first holiday as a couple including the top dos and don'ts.

We take a look at some of her best tips...


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DO: Talk about your expectations from a holiday
It won't help if you arrive at your destination and suddenly realise you both want to do completely different things.

DON'T: Travel anywhere you've been with an ex
This is bound to trigger memories and it could potentially cause jealousy or arguments. For your first holiday as a couple, go and discover somewhere new together.

DO: Discuss your budget before you go away
Approaches to spending are a common cause of arguments amongst couples. If one is a saver and the other a spender, this can get magnified during a holiday and start causing problems.


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DON'T: Spend your break on the phone
A holiday is a great opportunity to spend some proper quality time together. If you really have to use your phone, either fix a pre-arranged hour when your partner won't feel neglected, or decide together ahead of time when checking emails/social media is off the menu.

DO: Spend some time apart
There is no rule that says you have to be together 24/7. It's perfect acceptable to spend a little time apart, and making sure you get to do something that pleases you as individuals, not just as a couple.


DON'T: Overplan your trip
If you pack everything and have a finely-tuned schedule, it can put a lot of pressure on the whole experience. Allow yourselves to be spontaneous, adventurous and improvise if necessary. Oh - and no early morning alarms!

DO: Prep your journey before you travel
A lot of holidays can get off to a rocky start simply because routes or timings haven't been planned, passports can't be found or the suitcase won't close because one of you has overpacked.

Instead, get organised so you can enjoy the anticipation and avoid the stress that comes with not planning ahead.

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DON'T: Be too unrealistic
Holiday adverts would have us believe that every second of the holiday will be complete perfection, but that's far from the reality. You may have the odd row, drink too much, get sunburn or a dodgy belly - it happens to every couple. Don't get too disappointed - just move on and enjoy the rest of the trip.

DO: Treat yourselves
Holidays are the time to be self-indulgent and leave any worries at home or work firmly behind you. Don’t feel guilty about enjoying yourselves!

DON'T: Abandon your partner
Spending a bit of time alone can be healthy, but if you make new holiday friends, don't feel like you have to do everything with them. After all, it's your romantic holiday - spend some quality time together!

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