Oriaku Amara, if you are a feminist, then why are you married?
A question thrown at me!

I smiled because there have been a lot of misconception about this issue.

Dear questioner,
Being a feminist means a lady knowing her worth, preserving her values, achieving her dreams irrespective of gender hindrance and playing her little part in creating a world where gender should not be a barrier for anything.
Feminism in Africa focuses on enlightening women on making their today better than yesterday,
Making a woman to be conscious of her responsibilities.

To summarize it - Feminism is out to bring out the queen in a woman

It has never been a war or hatred against men,
I am a feminist and not a lesbian.
I love and appreciate men.

Feminism does not stop you from getting married.

I love and respect my husband!
Not because he has a "dick" and he is a man!
No No No.
But because he is a king that fits the queen in me.
He respects me and I respect him.

Feminism prepares a woman who is interested in getting married on knowing her roles to play in contributing to the success of the marriage.

Let me give you a narrative.

Many ladies who are not pro-feminists believe that they are weak vessels that needs a man to survive.
That's why we have financial parasites up and down,
Some of you call it gold digging,
They want a rich guy to move them out of poverty,
Some of them are lazy to work because they are being brainwashed by a society that is slow to accept feminism.
Even when they marry, they believe that the man is the breadwinner of the family and should carry all financial burden.
No wonder some guys are not happy in their marriage,
Who is happy having a mosquito on the skin?

Feminism don't preach that,
The consciousness of it empowers a lady to wake up, get a work or something doing and begin to pay her bills.
Feminism prepared us to know how to help the husbands in taking over some financial responsibility.

A feminist don't wait for the boyfriend or husband to buy her a car,
She works hard and get herself a car!

A feminist can never beg the boyfriend or husband for something she can afford herself.
We are queens and queens don't beg!
Linda ikeji is hardworking and rich, she is about to get married, she will never throw her financial burden at the feet of the husband,
She worked hard for her own money and can foot the bill.
That's one of the empowerments feminism came to give African women.

So you see!
Feminists are very unique in marriage and relationships,
Yes we are!

I started working before marriage,
I was paying bills before marriage,
Marriage didn't change it because as a feminist, I will never be a financial liability to my husband.

So feminism is not against getting married,
The role of it towards marriage is preparing you as a queen in getting a king and remaining a queen in marriage.
Queens are no weak vessels neither are we inferior to the male gender.

I love you all.

ok.

When a woman doesn't have a bearing, she becomes a 'feminist'.

Feminism is simply being good at whatever you do as a woman, against all conventional odds and beliefs. Anything aside that is balderdash.

Someone is finally understanding Feminism

MariaLavina:
Someone is finally understanding Feminism

FortifiedCity:


When a woman doesn't have a bearing, she becomes a 'feminist'.

Feminism is simply being good at whatever you do as a woman, against all conventional odds and beliefs. Anything aside that is balderdash.

What's ur point?

Amarabae:

What's ur point?

My comment is self-explanatory.

Juventus just scored their 3rd goal, that's the most important thing than this feminism thread.

I love feminists. We go for lunch, you pay your bills and I pay mine. We have two bags of rice to lift upstairs, I carry one on my shoulders and you carry the other.

OH LAWD, not again...

donstan18:
Juventus just scored their 3rd goal, that's the most important thing than this feminism thread.

Here is not a sports arena

Chikita66:
OH LAWD, not again...

Feminism is a foreign culture, it is not our culture, Linda ikeji have never called herself a feminist before, so stop tagging her.

One quick question, how many of you feminist are independent? you guys still depend on your man for virtually everything.


That a lady is non feminist doesn't mean she is not independent or she can't be independent, one can still be independent and also not be a feminist, one can also know her worth and her value without being a feminist. I am non feminist and I don't need to be a feminist before I value myself, know my worth and know I should be independent irrespective of the fact that my hubby/my man is working. You asking a man for a gift doesn't mean you can't afford it or you are not a real woman.


Like I keep saying, each gender need each other for the smooth running of things.

Chikita66:
Feminism is a foreign culture, it is not our culture, Linda ikeji have never called herself a feminist before, so stop tagging her.

One quick question, how many of you feminist are independent? you guys still depend on your man for virtually everything.


That a lady is non feminist doesn't mean she is not independent or she can't be independent, one can still be independent and also not be a feminist, one can also know her worth and her value without being a feminist. I am non feminist and I don't need to be a feminist before I value myself, know my worth and know I should be independent irrespective of the fact that my hubby/my man is working. You asking a man for a gift doesn't mean you can't afford it or you are not a real woman.


Like I keep saying, each gender need each other for the smooth running of things.

Come here you..

without being a feminist,one can still achieve these.there are many feminist that are still dependent,lazy,they are only feminist on social network.


I support whatever that brings positive changes to the world at large.feminism or not.

feminists are just ugly bitter losers.
you wont see beautiful women claiming to be feminists. hot women are busy getting married.

Earthquake1:

Come here you..

perve.

Earthquake1:

Come here you..

perve.

ubunja:
feminists are just ugly bitter losers.
you wont see beautiful women claiming to be feminists. hot women are busy getting married.

marriage isn't the ultimate goal of life,shock me with something sensible.

Preshy561:

perve.

Jealous much

Hippolyta would be a good girl today
Carry on Amara

Agreed you don't have to be a feminist to know your worth like chikita said
So nobody should bash ladies who have decided to embrace feminism
Shikena.

Preshy561:

marriage isn't the ultimate goal of life,shock me with something sensible.

self dellusion is high in you.
check the title of your thread again. dumb short memory loser.

Earthquake1:

Jealous much

far from that. i have to look out for my sis.

ubunja:
self dellusion is high in you. check the title of your thread again. dumb short memory loser.

what do you know about delusions? obviously nothing,words you can't spell correctly stop making use of them. iti.

Preshy561:

what do you know about delusions?
obviously nothing,words you can't spell correctly stop making use of them.
iti.

dont be stubborn.
read the title of the thread please.

ubunja:

dont be stubborn.
read the title of the thread please.

shut your trap,it's Crystal clear you don't even know that the op is married.
keep fooling your old self.
feminist are beautiful, intelligent and not like those dumb ones you can deceive with your 1inch prick.

Preshy561:

shut your trap,it's Crystal clear you don't even know that the op is married.
keep fooling your old self.
feminist are beautiful, intelligent and not like those dumb ones you can deceive with your 1inch prick.

so what are you arguing about? you're now talking about marriage like i was. what were you even angry about?

All this one you wrote is only for mouth, many of your kind don't act like that at all!

Ladyhippolyta88:
Hippolyta would be a good girl today
Carry on Amara

Agreed you don't have to be a feminist to know your worth like chikita said
So nobody should bash ladies who have decided to embrace feminism
Shikena.

Sweetheart, why can't you just forget this feminism stuff? Life is not that complicated.

Why can't we just get married and make beautiful babies. Who cares about labels

So that's what African Feminism is all about to Bring the Queen out of a woman I don't wanna say what's on my mind I fit chop ban

This chick and her nonsense

Always online... keeping herself busy while the side chick keeps her husband busy... come off nl and give your 'king' some attention.