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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 4:41pm On Apr 20, 2018
drnoel:


Sex shouldn't be part of what is valued in a relationship. Ur including it shows Ur mentality

isn't that what Nigerian guys value??

I even get time reply..
Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 4:41pm On Apr 20, 2018
iQUOTE:

Maybe she's not a hoe. Maybe I was wrong in my choice of words. Perhaps, gold digger would suffice. And why are you supporting her? Are you a hoe?

Dearie ignore this slowpoke. ..don't give attention to minors
Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by blackpanthar: 4:51pm On Apr 20, 2018
oh so you know your Parents did the same too.....

people like u feel comfortable when others are in your category of failure.

people like u can never accept those with higher moral discipline than themselves....

what a shame

iamsirmichael1:



Story.... Na your type dey kill themselves with porn and masturbation
Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by iQUOTE: 4:56pm On Apr 20, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


Dearie ignore this slowpoke. ..don't give attention to minors
Did I hit a nerve? Matter of fact I might have struck a bone. cheesycheesy. What else do you think you can offer apart from your over-drilled hole with a mileage of 150?

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by Diamond23(f): 5:07pm On Apr 20, 2018
iQUOTE:

Maybe she's not a hoe. Maybe I was wrong in my choice of words. Perhaps, gold digger would suffice. And why are you supporting her? Are you a hoe?
[/color] Am not supporting anybody nd will pretend I didn’t c d second question.pls don’t show us hw childish u r!. Respect ppls opinion Nd mind ur choice nd usage of words [color=#770077]

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by Nobody: 5:33pm On Apr 20, 2018
blackpanthar:
oh so you know your Parents did the same too.....

people like u feel comfortable when others are in your category of failure.

people like u can never accept those with higher moral discipline than themselves....

what a shame


Dragging my parents into this?? So much for a highly moral disciplined cunt, sot, whatever!

If there's a failure, it then must be you. Solely for your gross misconduct by referring to individuals higher than you'll ever be without wisdom.

You're a failure to your parent who tried to install moral discipline into you. An acute disgrace to your society for gross disrespect.

Little wonder people always say most virgins have nothing to offer/bring to their spouse except their virginity.

You shouldn't kill yourself masturbating, watching porn and imagining it were you in the guy's position. Further more, you're unconsciously sexually frustrated. Up your game man and get laid or better yet, fùck a stray bird in your community, dunce.

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by drnoel: 6:12pm On Apr 20, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


isn't that what Nigerian guys value??

I even get time reply..

Grow a brain. It's Ur problem. Good bye
Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:28pm On Apr 20, 2018
I value trust and an emotional connection with a SO above everything else.

#OneWomanMan.
Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 2:26am On Apr 21, 2018
drnoel:


Grow a brain. It's Ur problem. Good bye

you need to grow one for yourself first...

Such a useless human being
Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by Nobody: 2:59am On Apr 21, 2018
Diamond23:
[/color] Stop referring to someone as a hoe nd moreover everyone z entitled to his or her opinion.... it’s called freedom of speech. [color=#770077]

Lol Another freedom of speech, your comment practically protects his freedom of speech and revokes it at the same time.
Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by Nobody: 4:42am On Apr 21, 2018
There are many things I value more than sex, sometimes I laugh when a lady says look at me, I'm very sexy and all a man wants is sex. Is it not the same sex we get tired of when we are done? It's not the bases of a relationship and it's not all we want. It's just one of those things every man needs! So you can generalize that and you still won't be far from the truth. Personally I love intelligent women, you don't have to be educated but just be intelligent. Let me seek advice from you and get a meaningful response. I don't like dull ladies, even if you are the most beautiful woman on earth I still won't date you,
I once dated a dull girl and it sucks, most of the time her reply is don't worry, God will do it. I know God will do it, but what do you think I should do? She has no answer for you. This is how most Nigerian girls are, they have nothing meaningful to say when you seek advise from them. I'm also attracted to hard working ladies, I don't mean I need you to give me money. No, but just be responsible and independent, it won't stop me form giving you but makes me proud I have you. These are a few I can mention to make this post short. In summary, sex is not the most important thing we want, I personally go for 2 months without sex even when I'm in a relationship maybe because we are both busy at the moment. So if sex is really all I wanted then our relationship would be history already.

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by drnoel: 5:26am On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


you need to grow one for yourself first...

Such a useless human being

Ur parents didn't train u well, little girl. I pity Ur father.
Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 5:50am On Apr 21, 2018
grossintel:
There are many things I value more than sex, sometimes I laugh when a lady says look at me, I'm very sexy and all a man wants is sex. Is it not the same sex we get tired of when we are done? It's not the bases of a relationship and it's not all we want. It's just one of those things every man needs! So you can generalize that and you still won't be far from the truth. Personally I love intelligent women, you don't have to be educated but just be intelligent. Let me seek advice from you and get a meaningful response. I don't like dull ladies, even if you are the most beautiful woman on earth I still won't date you,
I once dated a dull girl and it sucks, most of the time her reply is don't worry, God will do it. I know God will do it, but what do you think I should do? She has no answer for you. This is how most Nigerian girls are, they have nothing meaningful to say when you seek advise from them. I'm also attracted to hard working ladies, I don't mean I need you to give me money. No, but just be responsible and independent, it won't stop me form giving you but makes me proud I have you. These are a few I can mention to make this post short. In summary, sex is not the most important thing we want, I personally go for 2 months without sex even when I'm in a relationship maybe because we are both busy at the moment. So if sex is really all I wanted then our relationship would be history already.


dating an independent lady doesn't mean you'll spend less.
infact you're gonna spend more, most working class ladies usually save their money and depend on their guys to spend.
except you're not dating a Nigerian lady
Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:12am On Apr 21, 2018
blackpanthar:
Lol
society painted relationship as FREE PASS to sex... so LADIES and GUYS go into it for such reasons even if they claim TEAMVIRGIN

but the issue is WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP are you talking about....

SOME RELATIONSHIPS have NOTHING profitable, like the guy CHOSE THE GIRL only for PHYSICAL REASONS, and the Lady chose the guy for MONETARY REASONs- so in such relationships SEX IS THE PAYMENT FOR SERVICES DELIVERED.

But in other relationships, the guy loves communicating with the gurl cos of her intelligence, humility, godliness and more..... and the Girl chose the guy because he is serious with Life, hardworking, funny, god fearing and a good listener with great communication skills..... YOU CAN NOT TELL ME THAT THEY WILL BE DOING SEX like the ones I mentioned above... INFACT they have more Marriage prospects compared to the ones I earlier mentioned.....

SO THIS IS TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION... and BTW the stats is not 90% but 70% because there are some of us who VALUE the future more than the present and are so focused and preparing for it that we do not have time for Ladies and flings.
Jah bless


you just beat around the bush without answering the question

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:30am On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:



dating an independent lady doesn't mean you'll spend less.
infact you're gonna spend more, most working class ladies usually save their money and depend on their guys to spend.
except you're not dating a Nigerian lady
Ceases to be independent as that would defeat the definition of that word.

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by gafaromoolabisi(m): 6:33am On Apr 21, 2018
because like Nigerian youth, our girls are lazy, the only good thing they can flaunt is their body and the only thing their beautiful bodies can offer us is sex.

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by imustsaymymindo: 8:03am On Apr 21, 2018
iQUOTE:

Did I hit a nerve? Matter of fact I might have struck a bone. cheesycheesy. What else do you think you can offer apart from your over-drilled hole with a mileage of 150?

Lol. Mileage.

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by missingribs: 8:28am On Apr 21, 2018
blackpanthar:
Lol
society painted relationship as FREE PASS to sex... so LADIES and GUYS go into it for such reasons even if they claim TEAMVIRGIN

but the issue is WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP are you talking about....

SOME RELATIONSHIPS have NOTHING profitable, like the guy CHOSE THE GIRL only for PHYSICAL REASONS, and the Lady chose the guy for MONETARY REASONs- so in such relationships SEX IS THE PAYMENT FOR SERVICES DELIVERED.

But in other relationships, the guy loves communicating with the gurl cos of her intelligence, humility, godliness and more..... and the Girl chose the guy because he is serious with Life, hardworking, funny, god fearing and a good listener with great communication skills..... YOU CAN NOT TELL ME THAT THEY WILL BE DOING SEX like the ones I mentioned above... INFACT they have more Marriage prospects compared to the ones I earlier mentioned.....

SO THIS IS TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION... and BTW the stats is not 90% but 70% because there are some of us who VALUE the future more than the present and are so focused and preparing for it that we do not have time for Ladies and flings.
Jah bless






whoa common sense no common.....this is coming from a matured mindset
Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by Diamond23(f): 8:50am On Apr 21, 2018
pcguru1:


Lol Another freedom of speech, your comment practically protects his freedom of speech and revokes it at the same time.
[/color]I know buh der z an infringement of rights here and character assassination which warrant d revoke grincheesy[color=#770077]
Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:28am On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:



dating an independent lady doesn't mean you'll spend less.
infact you're gonna spend more, most working class ladies usually save their money and depend on their guys to spend.
except you're not dating a Nigerian lady
Now that's a very wrong assumption. Spending more or less has nothing to do with if she's a working class or not. You haven't dated a girl who is not even a student not to mention a working class but pushes not just her problems but also her family challenges and expect you to take care of here parents house rent, and start a hair selling business and expect you to give her 500k for it, hence your conclusion.

Modified : Sorry, I thought you're a guy, anyway a've seen ladies like this. And I'm sure many guys here understand what I'm saying. Spending more or less has nothing to do with if she's working or not but everything to do with the kind of woman she is and how she manages her resources.

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by blackpanthar: 2:42pm On Apr 21, 2018
i actually did but if you didnt get my points then u may never understand it even if i listed it

funmisticqueen:
you just beat around the bush without answering the question
Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by drnoel: 5:54pm On Apr 24, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


you need to grow one for yourself first...

Such a useless human being

Ur father trained a non entity
Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do Nigerian Guys Value In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Apr 24, 2018
apart from Sexx... more Sexx is required !!!

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